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Gay Wars: The Battle of the Bitches, Or the Tops and Bottoms of Being Out in Nigeria

1. I would like to begin by saying that if you are visiting me, and you don’t want to be outed by association, then don’t bother. Add to that: I

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Jilted Grindr Hookup Leads To A Police Standoff, A Gunshot Wound And An Arrest

No one likes being rejected. But one Seattle man took his recent Grindr spurn a little too personally. 41-year-old Alik Lebedev (pictured above) immigrated to the United States from Russia

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LGBTQIDONTKNOW: The Acronym Struggle Is Real

Originally published on It used to be so simple. Before there was LGBTQ, there was gay and straight: gay man, gay woman, and straight man and straight woman. Some