54 responses

  1. Archer
    June 12, 2019

    More! More!!
    I want more!!! …
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    Like right now 😂 😂

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Lol….. You’d definitely see more
      It may or just might not be the turn out anybody would expect

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  2. Bhaws
    June 12, 2019

    Lol, the guys confused. Probably thought will start begging him or something.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Hmmmmmmmmm I was even confuser self but I didn’t think he wanted me to beg though…. Well we can’t know what he was thinking can we???

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  3. Carlos
    June 12, 2019

    Hey gawd🤣🤣🤣
    We have suffered in this part of the world. Like who does that??
    Kiss kee you there.
    I wee slap reason into your IH brain.
    I had rather wank in peace. Such a hypocrite

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Person no go tire to wank?

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  4. Rehoboth
    June 12, 2019

    Someone gave you all that sermon and you kissed him minutes later? 😑😑😑😑

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      I was crushing remember???
      Had a crush on someone before and got the chance to do stuff just once? You would not take it???

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      • Rehoboth
        June 12, 2019

        No, I won’t. My crushing will end with those homophobic sermon.

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  5. Tristan
    June 12, 2019

    Making you go through all that before you kissed him was harrowing. Maybe he was curious. Perhaps, yet to discover himself. It’d be more dangerous if he had something up his sleeves.

    Marks seems to me a good guy and I hope this story doesn’t end up sad.

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    • Delle
      June 12, 2019

      Seems to be a good guy? A good guy will not play out that card of dumbness he played.

      ‘Do you know homosexuality is wrong? Why do you do it?’

      That’s a good guy!? Good guy my left pert bum!

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      • Malik
        June 12, 2019

        Thank you oh. He’s definitely not a good guy but a sneaky queer man in denial and with strong IH. I knew he wanted you to kiss him from the moment he came to pick you up – you already said you had a kiss for him and he showed up to collect it. All the chocolate talk and the preaching were stuff he had rehearsed so he could tell himself and his twisted conscience that he put up a fight before succumbing to a sinful kiss from an attractive gentleman.

        We know their type.

        Next time let him beg and admit his true sexuality before giving him kiss. And get some control back. Never let it be like he’s doing you a favor. You both want(ed) it. Tainks.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Curious maybe✔
      Confused maybe ✔

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  6. Net
    June 12, 2019

    Oh wow what an unexpected turn of events lol that went from a 100 to 0 real quick, I’m really curious as to how everything turned out

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  7. Mandy
    June 12, 2019

    This is such fucked up nonsense. Even if Mark wanted to be sure you weren’t using the kiss as a ploy to set him up and was just testing you, going to the extent of antigay preaching is bullshit. Had it been me, I mean, I’d eventually kiss him o, but it certainly won’t be that day. Kissing him minutes after he made you feel shitty about yourself is like rewarding him for bad behavior.

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  8. Delle
    June 12, 2019

    You kissed him!? You still kissed him!?😡

    I was a bit irritated at the fact that you let your guard down in the text flirtation, offering a kiss because your belly was producing lust fluid. But I guess a lot of us make that mistake, so it’s just as well.

    However, after he preached, or felt the need to (from the look of things he is either a con artist, a douchebag or a combination of both), every single ounce of attraction you were feeling should have vaporised to be replaced with a healthy slab of vexation! Or at least, for that period, pretend to be disgusted! Feign anger! Act out nonchalance, anything but oblige him with that kiss that had him turn Father Mbaka even if it was for three minutes. How dare he seek to make you feel stupid meanwhile he is curious! Ugh!

    What the fuck!

    You kissed him. I’m really angry abeg 🚶🚶🚶

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      We learn from these experiences Delle

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  9. Scarlet_witch
    June 12, 2019

    This sounded more like hitting a child and then offering them candy to get them to stop crying.

    I’d say you shouldn’t have given him the satisfaction of kissing him.
    He made you feel really bad and at the same time thought that you wanted him so much to forgive everything if given the RARE(my arse) opportunity to kiss his billion dollar lips. Talk bout throwing a bone out to the dog.

    If not for the sake of reason, I’d say you shouldn’t have gotten into the car a second time and found your way home. You can’t bruise my ego and still get the chance to do it again.

    Well, I feel sorry you had to go through such. It’s really bad and I’m really pissed.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      🙂 ….. The story still comtinues

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      🙂 ….. The story still continues

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  10. Beau
    June 12, 2019

    Mayb the guy is in self denial. Cos from the way i see it, a straight guy won’t wanna please u and ask u to kiss him bcos u want to. The guy might be one of those pple who live under the religious umbrella and criticize others for not doing the same.
    As for me i don’t waste time on pple like this, admire what i want to admire and waka pass, i go still see fine boys wey plenty and some who re into boys as i am, i can neva run out of them. Plus its a waste of time and energy to fantasize about someone u don’t know his sexuality, wasting time to figure out the “what if”, and u re not even sure if this guy will eventually be urs. Dnt put urself in a situation where this guy will start blaming u for his own mistake, let him fig out what he wants by himself.

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  11. Black Dynasty
    June 12, 2019

    Hmmm big red flag, huge red flag!!

    Don’t ignore a red flag! Maybe he is curious or just wanted his ego massaged but do not let your guard down with men like this

    I personally wouldn’t have gotten back into his car, mostly because I couldn’t tell what his intention was after the anti-gay sermon. This really could have taken a turn for the worst, but thank goodness it didn’t…..for now.

    Hmm you actually kissed him sha, well I look forward to a second part 🙂

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  12. Keeva
    June 12, 2019

    Well,this is all a little off.
    You can’t undo the kiss or the fact that you got back into his car.
    I think for now,you should allow him make the next move on you which must be express & clear,but whatever it is,you should pick the place for the meet etc.because I smell a rat & there’s no such thing as being too cautious.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      😏😏 I hope he makes the move

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  13. Higwe
    June 12, 2019

    Mark really sounds like a good man .
    People in this side of the world have been conditioned since birth to see being gay as something malignant and deliterious …a sort of depravity .
    Even for many of us homosexuals ..it took a lot of learning and unlearning for us to expirdate that mindset .
    I wouldn’t judge him too harshly for those utterances.

    You did nothing wrong by getting back into the car (especially since he showed remorse ) and you absolutely did nothing wrong by kissing him (I would too if I had a crush that gigantic ) …

    Now here is where everything starts going wrong …
    You’ve kind of been in this situation before (with the first ex) and you haven’t really shown much legerity since then ….

    So here’s an advice ….court the friendship for a while , but do not rush into anything intimate.
    He could be curious..
    Confused …
    In denial ….
    Or simply STRAIGHT !

    Any one of them foreshadows the same end – Doom 😁
    So take all the time you need to completely be sure that your desires are in sync .
    Maybe there is something there ; maybe there isn’t .. either way , you’d be wise to guard your heart .

    *The jump from condemning you one minute to kissing you the next (while all sorts of sexy and salacious) denotes some kind of emotional instability *
    I would absolutely take the kiss but I would proceed with caution there afterwards.😂

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Wow
      I love this response

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      • Be me
        June 12, 2019

        Me too.. The reply was on point

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  14. Zoar
    June 12, 2019

    This story and every other interesting stories in this blog is what gives me relief and relaxation after a days activities, I just come on here to read stories that brings the community together and gives us a sense of belonging.

    Nimdee this story is really great. Expecting the continuation in no time.

    Thanks everyone for always having and sharing your life experiences here for all and sundry to read, learn and be motivated.

    You’ll never know the extent your messages and posts go to we the readers.

    I don’t comment much but a day doesn’t pass that I don’t read a thing or two in this blog.

    God bless all of us.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Awwww

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  15. Higwe
    June 12, 2019

    I absolutely love Sidney Sheldon … he’s one of my favorite writers .

    You really need to check out these novels :
    Nothing lasts forever … absolutely mind-blowing .
    Morning , noon and night … suspenseful – a new twist unravels with every turn …the end will leave you asphyxiated .

    And there is Jackie Collins …she and Sidney had the same writing style only hers were much much sexual .
    Try reading her lucky and Gino series and you’ll be back to thank me later 😍

    ******
    Assuming you haven’t read it already though .

    If you’re a lover of classics , you should absolutely read ” Rebecca ”

    One of the best written fictions ever !

    Funnily enough I got the recommendation from a Sidney Sheldon’s reference.

    And then the all time classic “And then there were none ” one of the best books ever written by a human .

    The internet has certainly ruined the world .
    These days I spend more time scrolling through Instablog than reading anything substantial 🤦🏽‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️.

    Now you’ve brought it up , I might just start reading again .😂

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  16. Nimdee
    June 12, 2019

    No way!!!
    Read those
    ‘nothing. Lasts forever’ ✅✅ double check
    Morning .. noon… Night ☑☑☑😍😍 I loved every single page

    I’d definitely try the Jackie Collins
    The Rebecca is it a book? And who’s the author???

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    • Higwe
      June 12, 2019

      Yes Rebecca is a book .
      A classic, written by Daphne Du Maurier .
      You’re going to love it .

      And then there were none is a novel by Agatha Christie … she’s the best selling novelist of all time .

      Her books are only behind Shakespeare and the Bible in terms of publication.

      In Rebecca a man marries a second wife after the tragic death of his near “perfect” first wife.
      The narration was done through the eyes of the young , naive and clueless second wife who grows tremendously as the plot unfolds.

      And then there were none …is about mystery and murder .
      An anonymous house owner gathers a group of offenders who were acquitted by the law and starts murdering them one at a time .
      The plot twist is that the house owner is not actually an anonymous but one of the guests.
      If you like cracking your brain ,this is certainly for you .

      If you’re into horror …I’ll recommend IT by Stephen King.
      It’s nearly the size of a good news Bible but I read it under three days .
      That’s how interesting it is.
      It’s very scary but thankfully I sleep with my boyfriend 🤭🤭😁
      Just be careful you don’t read it if you sleep alone.

      It’s almost like Stranger Things but waaaaay better .

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      • Nimdee
        June 12, 2019

        HMMMMMMM
        Don’t get me running to the book shop already.
        I love love Stephen king

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  17. mike
    June 12, 2019

    Wait, this one everybody is falling under that mystery romance gonorrhoea.

    You got into a car, with a total stranger with no clear indication on whether or not he was gay. That or I read all this backwards.
    Biah, are you related to bob-risky or he is your alter ego. I refuse to use the word she, sue me.

    He gave you, a sermon and you were foaming up, maka why ?. What the fuck were you expecting a kiss ?. Or that he’d just pull you into his arms under the guse of darkness and make you his own. Aunty wake up.

    That move you pulled was very bad for someone your age, don’t do that again.
    If this were a game of chess, you were exposed on so many levels, lemme start by asking you, who tutored you gay ?. Yea, not a real thing, but I need to ask.

    For one the sermon was your cue to get out. Two, you know this thing with him, will never play well, right. Even after una fuck finish, he would end up been exactly like you ex on rewind.

    If this romance adventure had gone side ways now, we no go hear word for kitodiaries.
    I think straight men should have a blog where they out gay men, that would really balance the scale, and coup people like you from doing dumb shit like this.

    If he had kitoed you, not like you weren’t itching for one, you would have brought his picture here, so I think it’s only fair.

    Lemma, get this straight first. You let him control the whole situation from A-B. Where is that koboko.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      Lol
      I’m not that old I’m just 16
      But you dey lash ooh
      Anyways This happened a long time ago u was still young and naive. .. this was arond 2013….. I didn’t just agree to go into the car or go anywhere with him. Without taking necessary precautions then…. I had told my friends I went to visit and they were on the look out. Besides that . Mark and I had spoken a lot about alot he gave more genuine information than I even did. To an extent we had gotten comfortable. I didn’t include the contents of our chat for summary sake

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      • mike
        June 12, 2019

        In that case, lemme start toasting you now, before prodigal mark comes back.
        Considering my name is mike, you can feel the connection. Where do I sign my name ?, heart or bum bum.

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      • Nimdee
        June 12, 2019

        Oh yeah
        Oya send ya CV

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  18. mike
    June 12, 2019

    I think some of this story should come with a disclaimer, a warning or side note.
    Because, some of this up and coming niggas, by that I mean gay teens or something. Would read articles like this and feel it is okay to jumb into a car with a stranger, or that they could find love at the bus stop.
    I wouldn’t even go for love at the atm, I go to look you nyash and leave.

    Just last week, I went to a party, a sex party to look at the people that like claiming relationship material, I just wanted to know, what’da fuck is happening in my city.

    And the moment I walked into the suit, the place was filled with underaged kids, like teens, good looking but terribly underaged, I later learnt the hotel management was kool with the whole, men only party, but got ruff feathered after those children started to walk into that hotel, in the middle of the night.

    So this una stories / fantasies should be coming with warnings, abeg.

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    • Nimdee
      June 12, 2019

      I swear I had thought about this same thing
      I was /am going to write about something more educative…. How to guard your heart, keeping safe and healthy, how to get over heart breaks etc … *Grins*

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      • Nobility
        June 12, 2019

        Can’t wait for that. I will also drop a story here in the next few weeks.

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  19. Nobility
    June 12, 2019

    There’s a lot of things that happen when we come of age. Relationships are simpler when we are young. But the dynamics are different when you’re 27 years old. I never grew up in Nigeria, but I’ve had an opportunity to meet a strange 27 year old Muslim Nigerian man in Rwanda on holiday. Same situation in a way. But I we were both travelling alone. We got close to quick, we even shared a bed twice on two weeks. Nothing happened. I’m was so confused about the whole thing, ended up having some friction between us. He is not my friend, he is now just a stranger I know.

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  20. Rex
    June 12, 2019

    Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!
    I just knew it, I just knew he wasn’t all straight and blessed.
    Lmao….
    But darling hold ya heart, this guy’s are ticking time bombs, fogerrit…. If it’s possible chop fuck and pass….

    Dont fall, I repeat don’t fall…..

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    • Nimdee
      June 13, 2019

      Lol….. The guy is too straight ooh

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  21. King Ay
    June 12, 2019

    This is so similar to my story. I ended up falling in love with this person and he too although he doesn’t express it in words but actions. Can’t wait to know how this ends. By the way, Nimdee, I love your command over the queen’s language.

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    • Nimdee
      June 13, 2019

      Thanks Ay…. Your own good ooh! But would you rather he showed you his affections with words but his actions are different?

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      • Nimdee
        June 13, 2019

        Abeg which one be queens English

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  22. J
    June 13, 2019

    He is right when he said “so a straight guy can’t be nice to you? ”

    Not everyone that smiles at you likes you or wants to get down with you. So are just nice, some just like money and are looking for support… Others assume since you’re a fine boy, you would have a lot of girls around you – so by being close to you, they could have a chance of meeting fine girls. I’m glad he didn’t turn out a homophobe, it could have been disastrous.

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    • Nimdee
      June 13, 2019

      Well you are right
      A lot of people try to get close for different reasons… some of which you mentioned. They even do it in a misleading manner, it takes lot of self control and Discipline to over look and wait till the person tires and bluntly reveal his main agenda

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  23. Temi
    June 13, 2019

    I carry yansh for you o Nimdee with all the sermon you got 🤦🏽 if it was me all the cosy imagination or feeling go format.
    I’ll jejely keep a straight face that’s even if I end up entering the car again I’m that crazzzzy. 🤣
    Well we can be different sha , I honestly would love to see where your adventure with your crush stranger ends. ❤

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    • Nimdee
      June 13, 2019

      Hehehe
      What would you have expected from a 23 year old in 2013 who got to get a taste of one of his real time crushes not the ones he sees in movies???
      Social media certainly wasn’t as active then as it is now, it was a period of black berry and 2go and kito had not gotten an upgrade then. I certainly would have done things differently if I knew them what I know now. Knowledge they say is power.
      You’ll see how it ends
      Things got worse and the better *grins*

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      • Nimdee
        June 13, 2019

        #If I knew then what I know now#

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      • Temi
        June 13, 2019

        ” Things got worse and the better *grins* ” Wow 🤞

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  24. Astar
    June 14, 2019

    I don’t think I would have kissed him after that kind of discussion like you did. People that do the sort of thing he did are mostly up to no good.

    You didn’t care at all that this person might hurt you? Well, we all do stupid things when emotion is involved. No matter how things might turn out, I wouldn’t have risked my life entering that car again.

    Interesting story anyway.

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