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  1. Dennis Macaulay
    February 10, 2015

    This is the best thing that I read here, always tugs at my heartstrings. You are a great writer.
    OAN; You dream of trey songs? *side eye*

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  2. Lord II
    February 10, 2015

    ….and the 3 words were..? Oh common Bobby why hanging us to dry like dat!

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    • Chizzie
      February 10, 2015

      ART?

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      • Gad
        February 10, 2015

        Words not letters

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      • Dennis Macaulay
        February 10, 2015

        OUCH

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      • Chizzie
        February 10, 2015

        3 words put together; ART is an acronym, a combination of the first letters of 3 words..

        so how abt u ponder abit more sometimes before u press the send button @ Gad

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  3. simba
    February 10, 2015

    Hello, thanks for sharing dear.. Not HIV patients but people living with HIV.. even in Hospital we try use it.. my dear, ur a lucky person and God will keep making u stronger.. Go on and be tht u wanna be

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  4. KryxxX
    February 10, 2015

    ……….And children, that was how Mr Bobby left us hanging hot nd dry for those 3 WORDS!

    BOBBY!!!!!!

    U r lucky to have friends like Ray nd Ify(I have an Ify in my life too. Met him officially last week nd i hope he turns out like urs)! Friends that gives u courage nd strength(not momentarily but continuously) to move on with life nd r willing to stand by u through it. I envy you. I won’t say “u shall overcome” cos u’ve done so already, but I will say this “KEEP UP THE SPIRIT”.

    Nd as for ur Trey Songz dream, nwoke m, u have an active dream life oh! Choi! Trey Songz twerking for u ehkwa? Issoright! Lets just say me nd ur dream Trey share same briefs nd am wearing just mine now while typing this! #OkBye ***flees***

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  5. A-non
    February 10, 2015

    When you started this piece you had reservations about being able to properly convey your thoughts…well, I can tell you for free that you need not fear because you have done an excellent job of it!

    With regards to life being short, I think it’s a philosophy we all should embrace…I am gradually allowing it sink in myself.

    Truth is yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not our own and today is all we have! Nobody can guarantee how long they will live. People have lived with cancer and cancer for years yet a hale and hearty young man can be hit by a car and the story ends!

    Thanks again for letting us into your life and may you daily find strength to enjoy everyday life.

    An observation though, Mr Help already mentioned 14 years, MSM and HIV, why still ask about your sexual orientation?

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    • Dennis Macaulay
      February 10, 2015

      Anon well said. There are no guarantees in this life, one can get hit by a bus tomorrow or be in a plane that crashes. I have taught myself to live every day, pursue happiness no matter what my happiness looks like to other people

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      • A-non
        February 10, 2015

        ‘no matter what my happiness looks like to other people’. #word

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  6. Silvery Cat
    February 10, 2015

    Hi guys, I’m new here and this is my first comment, hopefully first of many.
    A few years ago, a dear friend of mine was diagnosed with HIV. It was a trying period in both of our lives…still a challenge for him though. I saw him cry for the first time, saw him pray and even talked him out if suicide a couple of times. Like Mr Help said, MSM getting HIV in this country ain’t our fault but the fault of the government and the health sector that has failed us.

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  7. Chizzie
    February 10, 2015

    just waiting till when this journal becomes more…”eventful”..

    meanwhile what’s with d other dude’s journal? has he chickened out or what?

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    • pinkpanthertb
      February 10, 2015

      Which dude? Kizito’s? Oh he’s handed an entry in. I’m just waiting for God to create one more day of the week to start posting it on 🙂

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      • law
        February 10, 2015

        PP …. did U get my mail?

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      • pinkpanthertb
        February 10, 2015

        No i didnt.

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      • Cj Parker
        February 10, 2015

        @pink Pls is there any fb page of Kdians?

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      • pinkpanthertb
        February 10, 2015

        Nope.

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      • Cj Parker
        February 10, 2015

        Y don’t we create one don’t u tink it will be a 9ce idea

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    • trystham
      February 10, 2015

      Yup!!! Just confirmed it AGAIN

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  8. Absalom
    February 10, 2015

    As always, Bobby: respect.

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  9. Pedro Mann (@D1kPedro)
    February 10, 2015

    **thinking*** What would those three words be? Because most of us need it. Depression has got a big part of us, either because we met/meet the wrong people who are just lustful, or … phew! If relationships are encouraged, things would be much better but so many prefer tasting ALL the dicks and asses in the …

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  10. Blaq
    February 10, 2015

    Your entries have become something I look forward to in anticipation and I’m never disappointed. I think you are a brilliant writer and convey your story in such a compelling and relatable way, I can’t think of a better way to tell this story.
    Be thankful for this support group you have. It definitely makes the journey easier.
    All in all, well done! I can’t wait for next week Tuesday again…

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  11. Max
    February 10, 2015

    You’re quite an imaginative writer, able to capture your deepest emotions and thoughts. You take us to places with your writing. Have you ever considered a career in writing? You’ll make one hell of a writer.

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  12. Ace
    February 10, 2015

    Oh Bobby, I want to hug you. And please let those three words be worth the wait.

    P.S: who else went to re-read to see if they missed the three words?

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    • Brian Collins
      February 11, 2015

      Oh Ace, do i love you. I totally went back to see it i missed the words

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  13. Cj Parker
    February 10, 2015

    Our prayers are with u u’re nt alone,we’ll always love u guys no matter what we’ll always be by ur side always.. I tink we should open a FB KD page where we can know each other better so we can create a more stronger bond btw kdians

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    • pinkpanthertb
      February 10, 2015

      Interesting idea

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      • law
        February 10, 2015

        gimme ur mail again dear

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      • pinkpanthertb
        February 10, 2015
      • Cj Parker
        February 10, 2015

        My bros there are millions of Nigerian gay secret group on fb,even wen u hit d search button u wouldn’t see any result so face u’re not a member of the group Daz the kinda group I want us to have

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    • Chizzie
      February 10, 2015

      ehm no!

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      • pinkpanthertb
        February 10, 2015

        Lmao. This is will seconded by Max, I’m sure

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      • Max
        February 10, 2015

        Of course… Strongly seconded by me!!. No fb biko..

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      • Cj Parker
        February 10, 2015

        If I say a BBM or whatsapp group there wouldn’t be enough room for everybody FB is the only place that can accommodate us it will have to be a closed group that even if u search for it u wouldn’t see it as long as u’re not a member

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    • Silvery Cat
      February 10, 2015

      Pinkie, correct me if I’m wrong but Discretion and Anonymity are two key ingredients in setting up this blog. A fb page no matter how encrypted will blow a lotta people’s cover. If I may, Pinkie u should be able to pass email addresses from one party to the other without displaying it on this page. That way, everyone wins. And if there’s ever a need for a coded-IV-only get-together, U can always mail us. There has never been a worse time to be gay in Nigeria than now.

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    • A-non
      February 10, 2015

      Won’t touch an FB page with a thousand kilometre length pole!

      Thank you very much!

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      • pinkpanthertb
        February 10, 2015

        Guys relax! Lol. There’ll be no fb group. Sorry, CJ. The idea of KD thrives on the anonymity. An fb group will defeat that purpose. It is a nice idea. Just not relevant.

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  14. Brian Collins
    February 11, 2015

    I have not even joined the bbm group cos i cant have my pseudonym here as my Display name on bbm. I am glad there will be no fb group before Kryxx will start whoring himself to Dennis and Gad and Chestnut and the might King of debauchery.

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    • KryxxX
      February 11, 2015

      Woke up on d wrong side of bed this morning but am going to muster all the self control in me nd take this as a JOKE! A very expensive one @ dat but still………. a joke! Do not b deceived by my online personality……… YOU DONT KNOW ME!

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      • Gad
        February 11, 2015

        If a man wakes up from “the wrong side of the bed”, the logical thing to do is to go back to bed and wake up from the right side.

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    • Cj Parker
      February 11, 2015

      I thought it’s a. Channel. Not a group or does KD have a group on bbm nw?

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  15. Brian Collins
    February 11, 2015

    Pinky where are the posts for today? It is 4.51am already. See me wey dey find first comment spot. I am not happy o. #cantsleep #jobless #terriblyhorny

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    • pinkpanthertb
      February 11, 2015

      Pele. Today’s posts wont be early. Haven’t even prepared them yet. Been incredibly exhausted all night

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      • Max
        February 11, 2015

        Lazy bones… Maybe you need an assistant

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      • Gad
        February 11, 2015

        Exhausted? HMmm…

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  16. Dennis Macaulay
    February 11, 2015

    #BringBackOurKD
    *****carries billboard ****

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  17. jesuisnigeria
    February 13, 2015

    As a new comer. I must say that this column is what I enjoy the most. Had to go back to read the previous ones. Just like you, I discovered two years ago that I was HIV positive…so I can really relate to this story. Hopefully, I’ll be able to tell my story someday. Please be strong, make sure you use your meds same time every day, eat a balanced diet, enough veggies, fruits etc and don’t give up on your dreams, I’ll be sharing my experience from time to time as I plan to be an active member of this blog. Hugs

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  18. Uziel
    May 10, 2015

    This story has been as eye opening as it has been entertaining. Good job. Thumbs up.
    P.S. The link you posted doesn’t seem to be working, or was that on purpose?

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