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What If The Last Sex You Had Is The Last You’ll Ever Have?

So I was browsing through my Facebook timeline when I came across the update of a friend. It was one of those coronavirus teaser posts, a question which went thus:

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Coronavirus: The Do’s And Don’ts Of Having Sex During The Pandemic

Originally published on NY Post   Having sex during this period of the coronavirus lockdown is a health concern — but also a way to stay healthy. Public health officials

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Public Notice: Someone In The Community Is Looking For A Housemate

A housemate is needed in Igbo-Efon Lekki (second bus stop after Circle Mall, Jakande). It’s a three-bedroom apartment, two rooms already occupied, and the flat-mates need a third person, preferring

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Downton Abbey, Mrs Maisel, And The Nigerian Gay Clime

Awhile back, I watched two Western television back to back. One was Downton Abbey, the movie. And the other was the third season of The Marvelous Mrs Maisel. And it

The Happenings 29 Comments

Wife Finds Out That The Man Her Husband Invited To Be Quarantined In Their Home Is His Lover

It turns out that while other people are maintaining social distance from their lovers, a Nigerian husband is inviting his own lover into his marital home so he can get

The Happenings 5 Comments

Miley Cyrus Says She Left Religion Over Its Intolerant Behaviour Toward Her Gay Friends

Miley Cyrus chatted up Hailey Bieber in the latest episode of the singer’s Instagram Live show, Bright Minded. The Biebers are well-known for their connection to Hillsong Church and general

Our Stories 45 Comments

EVIL, THY NAME IS MAN

When NYSC came around, I was posted to Imo State. Before then, I’d often heard about how the East ties with Lagos as the gay capital of Nigeria, that it

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Watch: A Consolation Message For All Those Who Are Going Through Dickstarvation During This Corona Pandemic

Someone sent me this video on WhatsApp, which I couldn’t help but share. Because in this period, when we are all self-isolating and social distancing and shutting away all human

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The Minority Report on Jealousy Being The Proof of Love

“People do not realize that relationships are negotiated. To be in a relationship, constant communication is key. You cannot make assumptions.” In another episode of #AskTMR, the hosts of The

Dear KD 27 Comments

Dear KD: I Am In A Situationship With My Married, Heterosexual Colleague

When I got into the organization where I work, I stayed reserved for some time, choosing to subdue my usual outgoing self in order to study my environment and those