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Our Stories 63 Comments

LIVING THE TRUTH

I have decided to put these thoughts down as writing things down helps me clear my head and I have the comfort of knowing they are safe somewhere. Right off

The Happenings 11 Comments

Dating Show ‘Finding Prince Charming’ Premieres And The Reviews Aren’t Nice At All

The gay reality dating show, Finding Prince Charming, premiered on LogoTV on September 8th, and the reviews were brutal. Most people hated it. Some people really hated it. And other

Series (Non-Fiction) 25 Comments

KIZITO SPEAKS XXVI

Vince. You remember Vince, right? Vince, who gave me the ‘Baby, we need to talk’ breakup… Mmhmm, him! He gave me a phone call one afternoon – a very surprising

The Happenings 15 Comments

Woman Bemoans Her Dying Relationship After Watching Her Boyfriend Have Sex With A Guy

Sometimes an open mind is all you need to tear your life asunder. A young woman thought she’d see how the swinging side lives, and found herself in gooey unchartered

Gallery 8 Comments

Bests Of Online Hookups IX

LOL! You just know this one that is getting propositioned is an Igbo man.

Our Stories 34 Comments

KITO ALERT! IV – The Kito-er’s version

So another Kito alert story broke earlier this week here on Kito Diaries. As usual KDians came out, handbags swinging and with pitchforks to gut the alleged perpetrator – and

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UP AND DOWN MEMORY LANE (Episode 9)

I meet Julius in October 2011. Before that meet, we had been online friends, chatting via 2go. He’d wanted to meet on several occasions, but I’d declined. Something about his

The Happenings 15 Comments

Ugandan minister says country cannot afford to buy its ‘gay detector’ machine

Uganda can no longer afford to make its ‘gay detector’ machine, says the country’s Minister of Ethics. The notorious homophobic minister, Simon Lokodo went on a bizarre rant a few

Series (Non-Fiction) 60 Comments

BEST OF BOTH WORLDS

The single story creates stereotypes, and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story. –

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 57)

So a few days ago, I listened in on a long conversation in a Whatsapp group that I belong to. Someone (a straight man) was telling the story about his