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Our Stories 10 Comments

God’s Children Are Truly Little Broken Things

Some months ago, I met this guy on Tinder. I’d just joined the app following a dare from a friend, and after a few matches, two days later, here was

Dear KD 1 Comment

The Proposal: PLEASE BEWARE OF MARRIAGE SCAMMERS!!! | Four Gay Men And A Woman Are Looking For Partners

It has recently come to my attention that there’s a queer woman whose post I have put up here before, who has been exploiting the interests of the gay men

Our Stories 8 Comments

THE UNWANTED

My cousin texted me on WhatsApp. The text had pictures of a good-looking man. My cousin wanted to know if I knew him. He was home for the Christmas holiday

Kito Stories 3 Comments

Kito Alert: Lagos, Owerri and Aba Continue To Breed Kito Scum

As insecurity continues to be one of Nigeria’s biggest problem, as Nigerians continue to fall victim to highway robberies, kidnapping and gun violence, so too does the average queer Nigerian

Our Stories 9 Comments

BLOODLINES

We’d been seeing each other for about a year; Sagir and I met in October 2021, and the relationship was particularly based on sex. No commitment other than whenever any

Kito Stories 1 Comment

Kito Scum and Their NEW Instagram Catfishing Strategy

It would seem as though kito scum have devised a new way of catfishing their targets. The usual method is to open an Instagram account filled with the stolen pictures

Our Stories 2 Comments

The Trauma Of Being Dike

I had a dream this morning. A very weird dream that woke me up. I am back in Enugu, at the home of some of my family’s friends — the

Kito Stories 6 Comments

Kito Alert: Oyigbo Has Become To Port Harcourt What Ojo Is To Lagos

We have held so many online conversations – in Clubhouse and Twitter Spaces – where we talked about kito, the way they work and how we can stay safe in

Dear KD 7 Comments

The Proposal: A Queer Women And Queer Man Are Looking For Serious Commitments

I am Stella (not my real name of course), and I am in my mid-30s, ready to settle down with a gay/bisexual guy and also build a family together. I

Series (Non-Fiction) 18 Comments

DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK (Entry 4)

If He is Black, Then He Must be Top I have read and heard from a lot of gay guys over here of how there is a stereotypical belief that