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DEAR KD: I Am In Pain Over My Anal Warts

Good morning, fam. I stay in Lagos and I am HIV positive. I found out about my status in April. However, this so happens to be the least of my

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DEAR KD: How Do I Handle This ‘The Other Guy’ Mess?

Okay guys, I need your advice on how to handle a situation and I’m out of ideas. So there’s this guy… I turned down his advances on multiple occasions because

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Dear KD: I have a Question about Lubricants

My sex life didn’t come into existence until my late teenage years, and when sex started happening for me, all I had foreknowledge of was the most convenient means to

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Dear KD: There Is Darkness In Me

I actually don’t know what’s wrong with me. Honestly I’m starting to get scared of myself. This started after some discoveries I made about myself, and a memory trip I

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Dear KD: I Wonder About Him

So this thought has been lingering on my mind for a while now, and it got triggered again when I saw a missed call a few nights ago. The missed

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DEAR KD: I Know The Man She Wants To Marry

I need advice on this. So there’s this lady, a nurse here in Bayelsa who I call my ‘mummy’, because she’s like a mother to me. She is quite advanced

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No Strings With Mike Daemon (Episode 12)

In this episode, Olumide F. Makanjuola, the Executive Director of TIERS Nigeria, discusses with NOSTRINGS. He talks about and affirms his stand with the Nigerian LGBT Community, exposing new projects,

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DEAR KD: I Have A Bothersome Health Issue

It took a lot of encouragement from Pink Panther and some mining of guts on my own part to let this post happen. I am a naturally reserved person, to

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Dear KD: I’m Caught Between My Fear And My Desire

Since I moved outside Nigeria, I have been either too busy or uninterested to hook up with anybody. Contrary to what all my friends believe, I am not exactly having

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Dear KD: He Wants To Dance, And We Wish He Won’t

This is going to be a very unpopular ask for advice. I know that, having been a part of this forum for some time now. But I still have to