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Dear KD: I Urgently Need A Contract Girlfriend

It is the tale as old as time. Boy is born gay. Family is homophobic. Family wants to know when Boy is settling down. Boy keeps putting off the inevitable,

Dear KD 32 Comments

Dear KD: I’m Starting To Feel Like I’m Cursed

Ever since I was young, I’ve had an unhealthy obsession with male nudity. I bought a whole movie I didn’t like then just to see a scene of a naked

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Dear KD: I’m Married. I’m Gay. And I’m Dying.

Hello. I have been wanting to reach out for a long while, but each time I try, I always find myself lacking the words to say what I feel. I’m

Dear KD 31 Comments

Dear KD: I’m In Love But At Crossroads

I like to think I am versatile. The problem is I have never been able to bottom comfortably. The pain is unbearable. I have tried a lot to remedy this,

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DEAR KD: I Do Not Know How To Deal With My Friend’s Acceptance

I’m an ardent reader of Kito Diaries even though I don’t comment. But I believe in the power of opinions, which is why I want to share this and gain

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DEAR KD: I Am In Pain Over My Anal Warts

Good morning, fam. I stay in Lagos and I am HIV positive. I found out about my status in April. However, this so happens to be the least of my

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DEAR KD: How Do I Handle This ‘The Other Guy’ Mess?

Okay guys, I need your advice on how to handle a situation and I’m out of ideas. So there’s this guy… I turned down his advances on multiple occasions because

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Dear KD: I have a Question about Lubricants

My sex life didn’t come into existence until my late teenage years, and when sex started happening for me, all I had foreknowledge of was the most convenient means to

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Dear KD: There Is Darkness In Me

I actually don’t know what’s wrong with me. Honestly I’m starting to get scared of myself. This started after some discoveries I made about myself, and a memory trip I

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Dear KD: I Wonder About Him

So this thought has been lingering on my mind for a while now, and it got triggered again when I saw a missed call a few nights ago. The missed