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TO THE LIVES WELL SPENT

Recently, I went to see my maternal grandmother. And as I sat with her, I watched, a bit sadly, as she struggled to remember me. Yes, she’s aged 90-plus years

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Tweet of the Day: When In Doubt, Ask Questions

Real talk – Something no one ever talked to me about were some of the risks/complications that can come from bottoming.(Anal abscess/tears/fissures…)When U don’t have a good knowledgeable health professional

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Public Notice: Offer Of Accommodation II

Hello People! Please if you are: 1. Male, Female or Other 2. Clean, Open-minded & Communicative 3. Interested in sharing an apartment in Yaba (or Surulere), Lagos 4. With a

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Game Of Thrones: Where Is It Okay To Be Gay In Westeros?

Planning a queer getaway to Westeros? We’ve got you covered. Okay, so a holiday to the beloved (and often dangerous) locales of Game of Thrones may not actually be possible,

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How I Resist (A Second Chapter)

This month, April, will mark the first anniversary of the bold step we took as a community in declaring our truths. It was called the How I Resist campaign. If

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The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 6)

A friend of mine once said that all Tops should bottom at least once, so that they would have more consideration and express more sensitivity for what Bottoms have to

From The Net 13 Comments

When Did You Choose To Be Gay?

Twitter user @FreelanceCynic asked the most self-interrogatory question on Twitter a few days ago. When did you choose to be gay? And the responses were oh-so very insightful. Evidence of

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Opinion: Why Do We Feel the Need to Transgender the Dead?

Earlier this month, a list of vaudeville-era “non-binary and transgender public heroes” compiled by actor Jeffrey Marsh was circulated widely on social media. The accompanying photos are fascinating, which helps

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Kito Diaries Public Announcement: Rental Notice II

Hello, Good morning. Maybe this could help someone. Flat/House mate needed as detailed below. Location: Okota Type: Very conducive 2-bedroom apartment Rate: 200 k/year   Potential occupant should be: *Male

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The Minority Report on Bobrisky, the Trans Identity and Transphobia

Homophobia and transphobia are really not the same. Homophobia is rooted in moral disgust, and gay rights activism is saying that your moral disgust is not sufficient grounds to proscribe