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Uche Jombo’s ‘Social Media Slays’ And The Life We Know

Through some WhatsApp interactions, I got to learn of a new web series produced by the actress, Uche Jombo, which shows on Nvivo TV. And as these things are wont

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THE OTHER SIDE OF MIDNIGHT

Bruce was bottom. And I had bottomed most of my gay life. He was a month older. But I had more experience out of life than he did We were

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This Gay Culture of “Advising” Effeminate Gay Men To “Tone It Down” Has To Stop!

A Twitter netizen, a few days ago, decided to pass on some “advice” to the Nigerian gay community: advice targeted at the effeminate gay men in our community. (And I

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“HELLO.” AND THE FRUITS OF SHOOTING YOUR SHOT

Putting yourself out there online for one to get interested in you, for magic to happen, for a hookup to be actualized is – I’ve come to realize – hard

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THE SEX OF THE MAN WITH A BIG DICK

Sometime ago, I was reading on a foreign blog a story about the tendency for white gays to fetishize big dicks, especially big black dicks. It was something I found

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PRESENTING LIKE A GIRL

FOREWORD: This piece is dedicated to boys like my friend, JBoy, boys who grew from boys to men with a strength that society forbids us from having.   It’s incredible

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HELLO FROM THE ROADSIDE

The most unexpected thing happened to me a few days ago. It had only ever happened to me once before, years ago, when I was so young and nubile in

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The Zikoko Story Of The Nigerian Man Who Realized He Was Bisexual At Age 27

(Originally published on Zikoko)   Zikoko’s Sex Life column reveals the 27-year-old man who had only ever had sex with women until last month. After unexpectedly making out with a

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THE LIFE I DIDN’T SEE COMING

EDITOR’S NOTE: I am posting this today to commemorate World AIDS Day, which is on this day, December 1. It is the story of life after a certain death, and

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ABOUT BAD PEOPLE TURNING GOOD, AND THE RESPONSIBILITY OF FORGIVENESS

I once read a story about a man who killed his wife and unborn child. He was a drunk and usually beat his wife. So, a mob came together and