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SCENES OF NO TOMORROW (PART 2)

Previously on SCENES OF NO TOMORROW… * During the period I was grieving the loss of my innocence, my roommates and some course mates assumed I’d fallen ill, because of

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SCENES OF NO TOMORROW

I first heard of the term “Cafeteria Catholics” here on Kito Diaries on one of Dennis Macaulay’s Rant episodes. And it describes my family well. We are not a religious

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The Destination Of Me

i. On my forehead is an inscription that screams Q-U-E-E-R – apparently visible to everyone but me. They say I’m pretty, with the brows and the lashes. I roll my

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MY IDENTITY, MY SELF

WRITER’S NOTE: This piece is written in commemoration of today, Lesbian Visibility Day. * “No, I have not been hurt by a guy. I am not confused. It’s not just

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NIGERIAN WHILE GAY

Yesterday, I went out with a friend. We had hot dogs and soft drinks. Talked. All the while, this fine brother pranced about. He’d leave his post, checking people’s tickets,

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First Time With The D

The plan was that he’d come over first thing in the morning and we’d do it quickly before he went to work. Work resumed at eight; we agreed on seven.

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A RIDE UNDER THE MOON AND THE STARS

It started like most hookups do. Fine guy said “Hi” on an app. Or I said “Hi”. I don’t even remember anymore. The app was sha Facebook. This man was

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#HowIResist Campaign 22

The LGBT community is not a danger. It’s not a threat. They’re not saints and they’re not sinners. They’re a bunch of people no different from you, from everywhere and

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A Medley Of Opinions About Love And Relationship In The Nigerian Gay Community

So, a couple of days ago, I posted my response to a friend who wanted some answers about love and relationships. Before I arrived at my response, I brought the

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TO THE FRIEND LOOKING FOR LOVE

Dear Friend So, okay, the questions you asked me regarding the issues you have with finding love and being in a relationship really gave me pause. It was something I