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The news making the rounds at home is that concerning my older brother’s upcoming nuptials to some pretty young lady. It feels strange honestly but I’m happy for him. In
The African Homophobe Is Not Special. He Is Simply Behind Schedule
There’s a faux attempt by some members of the African public to paint their homophobia as something new and special, to see it as a vestige of our burgeoning religious
ABRIDGED SEX AND CATCHING FEELINGS
It all started from a harmless feel-up. I had earlier blurted out something provocative about my ass and he wanted to see – no, feel for himself. In public! As
Femme Guys Need To Man Up? Seriously?
There is a hilarious tint to femmephobia in that homosexual men are sometimes the ones keenest to peddle it. From quotes about how God created you masc not femme to
GOOD BOY TURNED BAD
I was checking my messages on Facebook and there was a message from this guy – Temi. Temi had been consistently sending me messages every day and no matter how
I Saw A Nigerian Man
I saw a Nigerian man at the fitness center tonight. I knew he was Nigerian and a Yoruba man because he pronounced ‘eat’ as ‘heat’ and ‘walk’ as ‘work’. Just
The Potholes In Bisi Alimi’s Claim Of Sexual Abuse
When I first read Bisi Alimi’s narration of his experience with sexual misconduct, one thing was clear: the intention was altruistic in trying to encourage others to speak up about
“I Will Fight For You But…” The Shame Of The LGBT Activist
The post you’re yet to read is very contextual. Without revealing much, especially considering the group’s terms of security, there exists on Facebook a group for Nigerian men. In this
Dear Self Righteous Nigerian: Open Letter From a Humanist
Dear Self Righteous Nigerian At what point did we become so comfortable with raising glasses to murder, with saying cheers to the act of one man taking another man’s life?
The One That’s About To Get Away
Funsho came into my life in a couple of tweets I saw awhile ago that detailed how he went all the way to his mother’s place after closing late from
