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AND THEN THEY STRUCK

This is not a work of fiction. It happened on the 18th of July, 2014. It was 6:25pm and I had just closed from work. Auditors had been around from

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What People Are Saying

A Kitodiariesian sent me this. He was trolling through some blogs yesterday, and stumbled on a blogpost on SDK’s blog (you know, that blog owned by the woman that’s like

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And Now He Knows

I have a story to tell. A few months ago, I opened up, in a joking manner, about my sexuality to one of my closest straight friends, he studies in

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Speaking About Stereotypes: Those Things Straight People Get Wrong About Gay Men

Originally published on thetrentonline.com Acceptance of gay people doesn’t end with acceptance. It also includes post-acceptance sensitivity and awareness. Unfortunately, just because someone’s heart is in the right place doesn’t

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FAIRYTALES ARE FOR VIRGINS

‘…He went on farther, and in the great hall he saw the whole of the court lying asleep, and up by the throne lay the king and queen. He continued

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The World Health Organization Is Perpetuating Gay Stereotypes

By Patrick McAleenan, originally published on The Telegraph The World Health Organisation has recommended that all gay men take antiretroviral drugs to stop the spread of HIV, but surely education

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IN PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS

I parked and climbed out of the car with a sigh. I’m not sure I can ever get used to this crazy Lagos traffic, especially around rush hour. I like

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Forced To Fuck

FOREWORD: This is a very fantastic, university story that happened to my good friend, Lanre Swagg; I won’t mention the university where it happened; he asked me not to, I suppose,

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MY PROBLEM…AND MY SOLUTION

Love is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s

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My Rebound Story

I still remember the first day I met Babangida. It was a sunny day, really hot. If you have ever lived or been to Gwagwalada on a sunny day, then