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The Backlash To Linford Martin’s Promiscuity Piece

Following Linford Martin’s opinion piece on how promiscuous gay men give the community a bad name, there was an expected backlash. Another writer for the same site, Dan Clegg penned

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Date Rape? A Violated Bottom Writes

I agreed to meet John at his friend’s place.  It was somewhat of a distance from my place but was a pretty direct route. John was someone I had met

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‘Promiscuous Gay Guys Give Our Community A Bad Name!’ Linford Martin Writes

Originally published on guyslikeu.com Earlier this year, I appeared on an episode of First Dates in which I met a guy called Xanthi. Although we had a fun time, we

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Open Letter To KDians: Expectations Versus Reality

Dear KDians I have always admired what Kito Diaries stands for and the sense of community it has fostered among the gays in this part of the world. That said,

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‘There’s No Such Thing As Too Much Sex,’ writes Dylan Jones in a piece calling out slut-shamers

Originally published on attitude.co.uk I am currently in something called a “monogamous relationship”. It makes a nice change, partly because I’ve slept with more guys in the last four years

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Photo: What Bachelor Are You?

Lol. Oya o. This is for us in #TeamSingle. What category of bachelor are you or do you aspire to be before you succumb to #TeamMGM

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HOMOPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA ON THE NIGERIAN RADIO

Quite often these days, I have been listening to Nigerian radio online. Never mind the popcorn music and hyperbolic ads; I reckon that I would be rich by now if

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The Story of Half a Kiss

What I really want to do here is tell Alexis that I have had a first kiss. She is on my case all the time about getting a girlfriend and

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Kindly Participate In This Nigerian LGBT Survey

Powered by The Bisi Alimi Foundation, this survey is set to find out the extent and impact of homophobia on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) people in Nigeria. The

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Kenya Could Become the Next Country in Africa to Legalize Homosexuality

Originally published on vice.com In a country where gay sex is punishable by up to 14 years in prison and where attacks on the LGBT community occur frequently, a solitary