Our Stories
BREATHLESSLY IN LOVE
Uyi and I have been online acquaintances for more than a year. We exchanged messages every now and then, and with the passage of time, our chats increased in regularity.
That ‘Controversial’ Take On Married Gay Men
Every time the issue of MGM comes up here on Kito Diaries, you get commenters who argue that married gay men deceive their wives, and possibly expose others to disease
THE MESSAGE OF PAIN
It is perfectly human to become emotional, feel hurt, shed a tear every now and then or even curl up and cry your heart out. I perfectly understand because I
THOSE ARE THE YESTERYEARS
Born in Festac, the parent I knew growing up was my mother. My father was abroad those first six years of my life, chasing the American dream. My mother never
THAT THING AROUND YOUR NECK (Part 2)
Previously on THAT THING AROUND YOUR NECK… * Every now and then, the best friend I love but cannot be with because he’s straight would say to me: “Flakes, please
I Had A Dream About Francis
Abeg make una no vex. I am having lunch but I had to pause and think about something. The mere thought of it killed my appetite. I had a dream
Dropping The “T” From LGBT. Here’s What Someone Has To Say About It
“With marriage equality a reality and gay folks enjoying increased rights, social progressives are looking for the next cause du jour,” openly gay lawyer and author Joseph R. Murray II
FUCK LOVE
Nine years ago, while I was in Kano doing my youth service, I was asked to come back home to Lagos because my twin sister was in the hospital and
It’s Not Irresponsible to Like Bareback Sex
Originally published on hivplusmag.com A thought for my fellow gay men: It is 100 percent OK that so many of us want to have bareback sex. Even when the risk
THAT THING AROUND YOUR NECK
In my twenty-six years of life on earth, I have had my fair share of ups and downs. Part of the ups is that I am good looking and book
