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ONE STEP AT A TIME (Episode 1)

I call him Cherie and that makes him blush. He can get on my last nerve, making me want to rip off his epiglottis sometimes. But then he always has

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ONE STEP AT A TIME: By Melvyn & Carl

We’re in love, Melvyn and I. And we want to share bits of our happiness. Updates of our life together. We will be taking turns to write this series. I’m

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K’osidim n’obi (Entry 8)

I haven’t seen Alor in ages. He’s been mad at me, angry since I started dating Marv. Since, in his own words, I “proved my oddity beyond all doubt by

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 69)

On a beautiful Wednesday, I was at home enjoying a quiet evening with Yaa Gyasi’s Homegoing (totally recommending that book, guys), when my friend called me. After the typical exchange

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 68)

Nearly every gay man I meet these days is an atheist, or at least claims to be one (many of them still shout Jesus Christ when we have a near

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UP AND DOWN MEMORY LANE (Episode 11)

I’ve said it here before that I am an only child who, unfortunately for anyone adhering to societal norms, happens to be gay. This episode of my series is about

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THE HUSTLE OF A RAINBOW (Episode 8)

I was pretty excited for this year’s Valentine; y’all know what happened last year.  For the first time in my life, I actually have a Valentine – who likes me

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BEST OF BOTH WORLDS (Edition 4)

“Many stories matter. Stories have been used to dispossess and to malign. But stories can also be used to empower, and to humanize. Stories can break the dignity of a

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 67)

Sometimes I think that many gay men are irredeemably stupid and can be the architect of their own troubles. I realize that some people may not agree with the points

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UP AND DOWN MEMORY LANE (Episode 10)

The other day, while going through my Facebook timeline, I happened on a post from NoStrings; it was asking about the things we did or still do to pass for