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Chizzie’s Jukebox

Being the music aficionado that I am, I’ve decided to try my hands on this…whatever this is. I like to think that (some) gays, for the most part, have good

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AS I LIVE (Family Isn’t Everything)

Remember Bobby from the Before I Die series? Well, he’s back with a season 2 of his earlier telling of his journey through life as a HIV positive young man

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 30)

The other day, I was chatting with a friend of mine whom we shall call Emeka for the purpose of this story. Now Emeka really likes a guy, like really

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THE QUESTION: CAN YOU BE DIFFERENT AND HAPPY?

This entry should probably begin with a definition of happiness. What is happiness? What do we mean when we say we are happy? What does it mean to be happy?

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What’s On Your Mind… IX

Tim is my friend. He’s heterosexual and soon-to-be married to his long time girlfriend with whom he has a three-year-old son. I am out to him and our friendship is

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 29)

Recently, I was comforting a friend who got dumped, and those who know me well know that my comfort in these situations consists mostly of saying things like, “Snap out

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THE QUESTION: ARE YOU PREPARED FOR WHAT LIES AHEAD?

I have frequently told my friends that our lives are scripted even before we are born. I am not talking about predestination in the sense of divine influence or anything

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KIZITO SPEAKS XI

Straight acting. Hmm. It’s a label, right? We sure don’t talk about it much. I don’t actually understand what it means, though I think it has something to do with

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 28)

A while back, I met the perfect guy. He said all the right things, did all the right things – he basically ticked off all the boxes on my checklist.

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The +++ Journals: Entry IX

Here’s to Love, Sex and a Little Bit of Positivity… The sex cycle of a gay positive man most times, well at least according to Temi’s dictionary, goes thus: ‘Initially