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  1. pete
    August 9, 2015

    Reorientation is the way forward but religion / traditions is a hindrance. Imagine doing all these cos your son came out! Why won’t he feel life ain’t worth living? And if you push your son to despair, you stand to lose a lot more than the people / society / religion you are trying not to disappoint

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    • Tiercel de Claron
      August 9, 2015

      My reading of it,this had nothing to do with religion,tradition or even societal expectations,but the parents’ desire to live their son’s life for him.

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  2. #Chestnut
    August 9, 2015

    I don’t get it: she accepted her son’s sexuality,but doesn’t want him to EVER practise?or doesn’t want him to practise until a certain age?

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    • Absalom
      August 9, 2015

      Stay on the line let me call her and ask. *dialling Scaredcatholicmom*

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      • #Chestnut
        August 9, 2015

        Absie, u don call am? I’m still on d line o… #iNeedAnswers

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      • Absalom
        August 9, 2015

        Her line is switched off. I think she and her husband are having sex. Something her gay son is forbidden to do. 🙂 Let us pray…

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      • Pink Panther
        August 10, 2015

        LOL. Absalom sef.

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  3. james bruno
    August 9, 2015

    so how long long would they keep doing this? the kid is going to grow up and leave home and meet people who actually deserve him and see his parent for the psychopaths they are. hopefully he’s not too fucked up before that happens.

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    • Pink Panther
      August 10, 2015

      Exactly, bruno. hopefully he’s not.

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  4. Django
    August 9, 2015

    Little wonder why Nigerian LGBT teens won’t comeout to their parents/guardians regardless of how much love shown and enlightenment their parents claim to have. Unless they find out for themselves, who wants to have their doors removed and education cut off or even disowned? Why would an African LGBT person who’s still financially dependent willingly comeout to their family knowing fully well how they’d possibly react?

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  5. Tiercel de Claron
    August 9, 2015

    “Regardless of your view of homosexuality, what you are doing to your son is abusive.You are just teaching him that he’s inherently bad
    and dangerous by singling him out from his brothers the way you have; you’re alienating him and ruining his self-esteem.If your priest has signed off on all this,he needs better counsel – preferably from a legitimate,licensed mental health
    professional.Not for being gay,but for getting over having parents who decided to treat him like a dangerous criminal instead of a vulnerable child.”
    That says it all.

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  6. Mitch
    August 9, 2015

    Lord! And she actually believes she’s helping her son? Talk about twisted minds! I believe her problem comes from trying to accept her son’s sexuality within the confines of religion. A friend once told me that being gay is not sinful. Rather the sin was engaging in gay sexual activities. All he had to back his words up with was Matthew 19 verse 12 where Jesus said some people weren’t meant to marry because of some deformities. I believe that is what has over-riden this mom’s senses to the point where she feels she’s helping her son by trying to run his life for him.

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  7. KryxxX
    August 9, 2015

    I see my mum doing worst! At least d boy is going to college! With mine, u won’t go cha cha! Your life would become a living hell nd suicide would look as attractive as Trey Songz strip dancing in my bedroom!

    I dont really think its about religion but more of her mindset nd fear! She thinks that doing this stuff to her son would make him change or curb those urges! But alas, she is wrong. Change comes from within. You dont force it on ppl!

    And biko, I just keep painting pictures of d boy dropping out of college, running to Vegas nd joining the “Thunder from down under” men or worst, a gay stripper! The mother is about to get a shocker!

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  8. Max
    August 11, 2015

    The lady is sick. She should be made to face the gallows

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