I have built up quite a reputation for myself as a bitch who doesn’t care much about the feelings of other people. I say what is on my mind, the way it is – often in a blunt and matter-of-fact way. This trait has ruined many a relationship, either romantic or platonic. My close friends though don’t seem to have a problem with that even though I am trying to work on myself.
So I met this guy awhile back on Facebook and we got chatting. After spending years being single, I finally decided it was time to date. I really began to fall for this guy and we built a very flawless romantic relationship online over the ensuing months.
However, when we met last week, I almost suffocated from his body odour made more toxic by the very strong “Arabian” perfume (I think) that he was wearing. I thought I could handle it till this week when we met again and after a shower, things got hot. I couldn’t even give my 100 percent to what we were doing and he noticed my hesitation. I finally had to put an end to the sexcapade when I noticed the stench of rotten shit from his ass.
How do I tell him he needs to work on his personal hygiene and that his carelessness is really turning me off? My friends are not helpful; some think the situation is just hilarious and the rest think I am just out to sabotage the relationship, like I often do.
But this is serious. I need help.
Submitted by The Blunt Bitch