45 responses

  1. Mandy
    March 26, 2020

    Wow. This Bobby is a special kind of asshole.

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  2. Mitch
    March 26, 2020

    There are stupid people. There are arseholes. There are dumb motherfuckers.

    And then, there is Bobby. The lowest of the lows.

    Tufiakwa!!!

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    • Gif
      March 26, 2020

      Atleast he is not a kito!
      The title of lowest of low should be reserved for gay kitoes!

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  3. Lopez
    March 26, 2020

    And then there are sluts.

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    • Seth
      March 26, 2020

      Be nice Ho-pez 😂

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      • SAGE PHILIP
        March 26, 2020

        Kisses from the east. I FELT IT!

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      • Sage Philip
        March 26, 2020

        This is not a “slut” thing, its a self worth thing. In this scenerio they’re (“slut” and self worth) mutually exclusively.

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  4. Seth
    March 26, 2020

    He is a special kind of jerk. I had straight roommates in college who treated their hookups just as shabbily. Also that encounter you both had read as borderline rape? I wouldn’t sweat this one. I dare say you’ll never let yourself get caught up in a situation like this. And VEX money is a MUST in Nigeria. Never ever try that one again.

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  5. Higwe
    March 26, 2020

    Yup , Bobby might be the shitiest of shit but let’s start from the beginning now shall we. 😎

    1 A guy basically raped you and then passed you over to his friend.

    2 You heard them discussing you like a beef in a butcher’s shop and you not only made out with a man who was seeking permission from another man to have you ( not you , the actual owner of your body ) , you received fellatio from him right in the living room of the man who just disrespected you the other night. 😎

    3 You followed the second man home …came back empty handed ( obviously) .
    Most probably fucked for the second time in a row , even though you limpidly stated you aren’t really enthused taking dicks .

    4 Received a torrent of verbal abuse from your first date.
    Sent out empty handed again without being availed the luxury of personal hygiene .🤠

    5 Kept his number for some reason best known to you .

    6 Entertained his call but only turned it off when an apology wasn’t forthcoming.

    Welp .
    ****************
    I know this is the point we are supposed to rain curses on the “evil” Bobby , and I most definitely will.So here we go.

    Bobby is a useless foolish ignoramus.

    A dandy-walker , flibbertigibbet and an opprobrious slubberdegullion.

    The scummiest of the scummations ever produced in a scummy factory .

    That settles it then 😁

    **************

    As someone who has spent a score and nearly half a decade predominantly in the east , I can tell you that gay people are sparged almost evenly across Nigeria .

    Such misconceptions and grand exaggerations are some of the reasons people fall into these kito situations.

    There is no factory here that mass produces gay people .
    At the end of the day , it all depends on where you’re looking.
    Be guided please … methinks one Bobby should be enough .😎

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    • trystham
      March 27, 2020

      You forgot the fact he left the entirety of Imo to travel to PH without a backup plan.
      I really don’t know how u ppl do it. Go to ppls’ homes without ur own T-Fare???
      Its because I’m a cheapskate I don’t leave my area for preek o.

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      • Gaia
        March 27, 2020

        Bobby was actually right about him being cheap but our beloved brethren here on KD will not tell our uncle the truth…

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  6. Lopez
    March 26, 2020

    Not there’s anything wrong with being a whore Seth-ore, but be a whore with diginity.He put himself in that position, traveling without proper back up plan… If the lodge in a hotel and fucked all the guys in Ph who will raise a finger at him. Haba people should be better than this.

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  7. CHUCK
    March 26, 2020

    What a surprise! A stranger treated you badly after you refused to give him what he wanted.

    How do you go to an unknown destination without means of leaving?
    You just live off your hookups?

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    • Mariposa
      March 26, 2020

      Exactly my point…
      Yes, Bobby acted really really despicable but atimes we contribute to our problems. We got to be careful, have something doing. I strongly feel Bobby also acted that way cos he knew you were jobless and had nothing doing.

      LORD help is not to come across and evil Bobby.

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  8. Wizzy
    March 26, 2020

    Hmm speechless

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  9. T.T
    March 26, 2020

    The idiot was in love with you.

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    • Mariposa
      March 26, 2020

      Hahahahahahaha…
      That might be true but you don’t humiliate someone you love

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  10. Hoyeh
    March 26, 2020

    Actually, what Bobby did was quite inhumane. On the other hands, you should listen to yourself, you traveled all the way from Imo state to Port Harcourt with the mindset of collecting a fro fare from him without prior notification. Even if you have notified him, that gullible attributes you displayed will definitely pissed of. Thank God for your ever caring mummy.
    Anyways, I think you must have learnt some lessons from that trip

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  11. Uzor
    March 26, 2020

    Should’ve gone home the morning after the rape thing, that’s how you leave with your dignity 🤡

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    • Gaia
      March 28, 2020

      Gbam!!!

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  12. Rexxy
    March 27, 2020

    Why do I feel like giving James a sanitized slappp!!!!!!! A very hot slap, that will leave my hand prints on your face.

    First you left all the guys in the so called gay capital. And travel to PH long long… So assuming its was a kito situation nko…
    And don’t you dare say I’m judging because yes I am fucking judging you….. And don’t come here and cry foul, you played yourself and you are lucky it wasn’t worse than that.
    Where is your self respect… How does someone rape a full grown man rape you and you stay there and oblige his friend (did he forcefully rape you or you suddenly remembered how to bottom).

    Bro, give yourself some respect and stop bejng a cry baby… Ya a full blown adult darling…

    Puliiiiiiiizzzz and next time carry extra 1k maka incasity

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  13. Floki
    March 27, 2020

    Honestly, this is a terrible character quashing situation. You mean you had a hook up with someone based on recommendation and who Tops or who Bottoms was never discussed. Yet , you went to see him and here you are talking about you are not used to taking Dicks. Guy, you make me laugh. For me there’s no doubt u were supposed to oblige and take the fucking dick calmly after all you are in his house and he treated u nicely before then. What exactly were you thinking? And another thing here is, you came to someone’s house on an invitation and you dare to hook up with another with the idea that you sought Bobby’s permission. Guy, where is your self respect and self control? For crying out loud, you are shit to say the least. Don’t you think u had giving Bobby a forgettable experience with you on bed and there you were, having a nice time with his friend. How do you expect him to feel? You were Lucky that he wasn’t overly raging with emotions. Perhaps, you would have found yourself in a more difficult situation.
    I believe, this would have thought you a bigger lesson.

    Mostly importantly, thank Ur God for Safety.

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    • Pink Panther
      March 27, 2020

      I just want to pick out something from your comment.

      “For me, there’s no doubt you were supposed to oblige and take the fucking dick calmly, after all you are in his house and he treated you nicely before then.”

      Interesting. So we are now saying that rape is justified when someone treats you nicely beforehand? We are now saying that consent is no longer a thing as long as you’re the house of someone who treats you well?

      I know it’s hard for people to picture men in rape situations, but think of James as a woman and apply your comment to “her” and then tell me again if it makes sense what you said.

      There is no justification for forcing someone to do something sexually that they have already said no to. Scold James about anything else that you want to, but please let’s never ever create a justification for Bobby forcing himself on him. Whether a discussion about roles wasn’t had beforehand, whether James traveled to Port Harcourt without any regard for his safety, whether the “ridiculousness” of his experience makes you laugh, don’t ever use that to justify rape.

      At least be human enough to not accept that bit of monstrosity.

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      • Floki
        March 27, 2020

        There’s no doubt that Bobby fucked up. But, If you look at my comment very closely, you will observe that I tried to identify the mistakes James incurred as it were. Like they said, “one thing leads to another”. Let’s forget the fact that Bobby out of his arrogance and flippancy said he was not his spec. Although, that was emotionally crushing and ridiculously rude coming from Bobby. But was James not suppose to take the fucking Dick Calmly? After all, he moved all the distance to come see him not just for seeing sakes but to have fun and without having a thinking through. Who Tops or Who Bottoms? What it means completely is that he, James, was ready to oblige in anyway. But oppositely, he never did. Instead, he made the night a forgettable one for him. If I were, James, I would have left the house the following day, morning at the earliest, without consenting to having fun with any guy in his house or elsewhere. Because, obviously, Bobby had already shown he is not a steady person emotionally. After the spec issue and still consented to touching him. Hence, when Ovie came in, If I were James, I wouldn’t react to whatsoever. He should be in control of his emotion. He shouldn’t have given in. Because, the same Bobby who asked him to go for Ovie turned against him. Meaning his words are always in contrast to his actions. And I must warn James that such people are very dangerous to say the least. Without mincing words, I’m sure Bobby displayed that character illness out of jealousy seeing how relaxed James and Ovie were together. In his mind, he was dying and raging. To be honest with you James, you were Lucky. I keep saying you should thank God for your safety. Cos he could have done worse than he did to you already. Never meddle with people with an unsteady show of character. Always, underline that in your dealings with people. It would save you a whole lot of stress.

        However, I am not in anyway in support of Bobby forcing James into commitment sexually as some of the guys here such as pink panther thinks. All I’m saying is that James should know when to call a spade, a spade.

        Thanks…..

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      • Chase
        March 27, 2020

        This same Bobby told James to his face that he isn’t his type. I mean, that was the height of being rude to a date, and then he moves to get intimate with James at night? And then throws up tantrums when he finds out that the same James who isn’t his type is getting cuddly with Ovie? I can only surmise that the Bobby of a person is borderline psychotic..May God save us from hooking up with Bobbys of this world.

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      • Marvey
        March 27, 2020

        Oh pls peepee , if he was raped there is no way he would have used that same ass to take dick the following day again…do we know what rape is ,the trauma , the bruises…the story obviously isn’t adding up we need to hear from the side of bobby.

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      • Pink Panther
        March 28, 2020

        Please show me where in the story where he said he “used that same ass to take dick the following day again”.

        Do you people even read a story at all, or do you just jump from Point A to Point B?

        And secondly, have you ever been raped? Because if you’ve not, please shut up about trauma and bruises and about how you presume people deal with it using their own bodies.

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    • Marvey
      March 27, 2020

      My deear!! Maybe he was thinking he was going for a praying and fasting session.cos obviously the person that shared him to the guy must have told him the hooker is top so there is no reason he shouldn’t have prepared his ass down for d weekend spree!!

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      • Floki
        March 28, 2020

        “My dear, may be he was thinking he was going for a praying and fasting session..””” 😂😂😂😂😂 . Marvey, you definitely killed me with laughter. But thank God I’m still alive.

        Don’t mind James… Let him keep claiming ignorant that he doesn’t know that Bobby was Top in the first place.

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  14. Mandy
    March 27, 2020

    I have commented before, but in light of some of the comments I’m seeing here, I feel like I should comment again.

    To me, the only “crime” that James committed here was to not go for a hookup with vex money. In every hookup situation, it is always advisable to take along vex money. Because unforeseen circumstances must be anticipated. You must always take into consideration that something may happen that will require you to get out of there and just go home. And for that, you need to have your money for that, no matter what promises have been made to you.
    And that, to me, is all I can fault this guy for.

    As to the rest, I cannot believe what some of you are saying.

    First of all, James didn’t deserve to be raped. No matter what foolishness you think he exhibited, when he said no, his no should be fucking enough. Like my god, are you guys serious? If he was a straight man who was in Bobby’s house and Bobby made an advance and he said no and Bobby still went ahead to seduce him, would you same guys not come out here and comment about how Bobby should have left him alone? For heavenssakes, Bobby even said he wasn’t his type. Only to realize in the middle of the night that konji is a bastard, and now he wants to fuck? No is NO! Whether man or woman! When a person has stated the lengths of what they can do sexually, we should respect that! Nothing justifies forcing a person to do what he has not consented to.

    Secondly, someone is actually scolding James for having sex with Ovie? Lol. Like, are you guys serious? A conversation was overheard where Bobby explicitly gave Ovie the go-ahead to go for James, and James repeatedly asked Bobby if he was cool with their hookup happening? Excuse me for thinking that Bobby is a child for pouting and acting immature when he should have simply said his mind right from the get-go. Besides, again, DID HE NOT SAY THAT JAMES WAS NOT HIS SPEC??? So, WTF! You don’t sexually vibe with the guy who came to see you. You forced yourself to have sex with him, something you realize you did and apologized by saying you will find someone for him to fuck. You encourage your friend to go for him, and then you give your permission for both of them to spend the night together.

    And somehow, we are blaming James for all this nonsense? LOL. You guys are trying it sha. By all means, let’s leave the man-child and focus on the victim of the circumstance.
    And PS: Does anyone here think he would have this same energy that he used on James on his friend Ovie? Because he’d be a hypocrite if he will vex for James finish and not turn some of that same anger on Ovie? After all, it took two to have sex.

    The only reason I can think of as to why some comments are existing in these comments section is that some of you recognize the Bobby in you. The man-child who won’t own his bullshit but will instead turn your hurts on the nearest person who doesn’t deserve it.

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    • Phael
      March 27, 2020

      Mandy I love you for this comment

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    • Mitch
      March 27, 2020

      Applause!
      A standing ovation for this comment!

      You, my darling, hit the nail on the fucking head! After this comment, there’s nothing left to be said.

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    • Floki
      March 28, 2020

      Mandy, that’s how you see the situation. But that doesn’t entirely make your opinion a perfect picture of the whole situationship. Look at the picture very well you will see that even James was an architect of his own supposed rape… That’s if there was anything like that. Honestly, we need to hear from Bobby….😂

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      • Pink Panther
        March 28, 2020

        “James was an architect of his own supposed rape”???

        WOW. Just Wow. Oh Wow!!!

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      • Mandy
        March 28, 2020

        So James was the architect of his rape, huh? As in, you’re saying that someone can be blamed for when they are raped, right?
        Ok. Keep that same energy for when someone in your family, preferably a female, gets raped, you hear?
        What a callous monster you are. Tufia!

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      • Mitch
        March 28, 2020

        …an architect of his own SUPPOSED rape…

        Floki, you are a wild beast. If compassion isn’t your first response to someone who has so very clearly been violated, then you’re worse than the basest beast, lower than pond scum.

        Tufiakwa!
        I di very disgusting!
        Anamasobrifa!

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  15. James
    March 27, 2020

    Thanks everyone I sincerely appreciate this.. Pink panther u deserve a Grammy as an amazing writer.. I have deleted his number already. I have moved on..

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    • ChubbyLover
      March 28, 2020

      ERM uncle, I’m sure you’ve learnt a thing or two. Some free fuck can still be overlooked ok.

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      • Yeah!!
        March 28, 2020

        You’re encouraging him to have sex with his rapist?

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      • ChubbyLover
        March 29, 2020

        If I invite you over and you think hooking up with another dick is OK then one thing is clear…..you are too cheap and loose.
        I play with my type…..people that can say no even when a yes is the easiest thing to say.

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      • Yeah!
        March 30, 2020

        Biko what is the litmus test for being cheap and loose (interesting word),the way you guys weaponise that word makes me realise you guys see sex as something that taints you and please while i get indocrination and how hard it is to break out of it please unlearn your sex negativity
        If we are going by the write up,it was establihed that he wasnt in a monogamous relationship with his host and even sought consent before he went ahead with his sexual liason with his host’s friend so please tuck in your sex shaming.

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      • Pink Panther
        March 30, 2020

        This!!!!

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      • ChubbyLover
        March 29, 2020

        You really didn’t take time to read my post….yeah.
        Who in his normal senses will support such absurdity?

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  16. James
    March 27, 2020

    Thanks everyone for your comments.. I sincerely appreciate this. Pink panther u deserve a Grammy as an amazing writer. I have deleted his number and moved on. GRACIAS…

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  17. Juls
    March 29, 2020

    He must have really missed you☺️

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