Some gay men insist on being strictly top or strictly bottom – but what if you’re missing out on something? That’s what happened to this guy on Reddit, who decided to bottom for the first time with his boyfriend, only to have the most intense orgasm of his life.

“Fuckin fantastic guys. I’m all about it,” he gushed. “I’ve realized i actually might be more of a bottom than a top as I can’t last more than 5 minutes while topping or getting a beej hahahahah.”

He continued: “So I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to try topping and he was all about it.”

But he wanted it to go well, so he started with the preparations.

“I took a week to prepare myself for it (I was nervous, ok?). I practiced with a toy I bought that had 3 silicone notches getting bigger in size.

“Day 1, I could get the first 2 notches in after struggling a fuckton (don’ worry, feeling like you’re about to piss is super normal, I guess.) Day 2 I was able to get all three in after some time, and at the end of the week, I could get all three in after about a minute.

“So before I met up with the biff, I got all cleaned up, manscaped, lotioned up, and then left the toy in while I showered so his dick wouldn’t be as much of a shock.

“We started with me on top facing him so I could control the speed. My heart was beating a mile a minute, but it actually was not as painful as I had imagined. Uncomfortable at times yes, but hey, that’s what practice is for, right?

“It felt fucking incredible, seeing his reaction to me taking him in is to this day the hottest thing I’ve ever seen. We tried doggy for a couple minutes but it was getting a bit too intense for me, so we switched back to me on top.

“At this point I had yet to even touch myself, but I was rock hard. He kissed me and then moved his hand down to my dick and it felt so fucking good that I had to immediately take his hand away or else I would have exploded.

“Yeah… that didn’t go so well. About 30 seconds after I had pulled his hand away from my dick, my whole body felt like it was cumming. The only thing I can compare it to is being on MDMA and having chills running down my body when I’m peaking.

“When getting blowjobs or handjobs, I usually get that post cum depression for a while, especially if I didn’t last long. There was none of that with this. All I wanted to do was kiss my boyfriend and finish him off which is usually the last thing on my mind after a BJ.

“Never be afraid to try new things!”