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  1. trystham
    August 1, 2017

    And these ones are problems? The one closest to a Nigerian problem is having to be punched in the face. We get lynched/jailed/killed/or worse letting on you are gay

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  2. Kenny
    August 1, 2017

    FINDING SOMEONE TO DATE.

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  3. Francis
    August 1, 2017

    Dating and sex prep for sure. That’s the only time I envy women. 😂😂😂😂

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  4. simba
    August 1, 2017

    The Loneliness….and the fact that gays in this clime hardly commit because most know there is no future in same sex relationship. Why invest therein?

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    • Delle
      August 1, 2017

      To this, I’m always like let the question start from you. Do you have a future with any guy you get hooked up with now? Or would you run off to a woman in the long run?

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  5. Mitch
    August 1, 2017

    What Francis said.
    Dating and sex prep

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  6. Delle
    August 1, 2017

    Definitely the lack of organic dating.
    The promiscuity. The smallness of the community.
    Me: My bf is Jeff.
    You: Which Jeff.
    Me: the one studying medicine in UNEC.
    You : is he tall? Fair? A dimple on his ass?
    Me: 😢😢😢

    Also, the fact that some people still think it is a phase! 😒

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    • Francis
      August 1, 2017

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

      That awkward moment when you find out you’ve probably been the laughing stock of the community

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      • trystham
        August 1, 2017

        I’m crying mehn

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  7. Johnny
    August 1, 2017

    I can’t tell my family I’m gay and Mr right can’t walk up to me , making me go for the less.

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  8. Lopez
    August 1, 2017

    finding love of course, and when i found one and i am like i am in love the next question is who is she?.. gosh, y people won’t understand some men just love men.

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  9. Michael
    August 1, 2017

    Douching

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  10. Jesujoba
    August 1, 2017

    The set ups by gay themselves and stealing

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  11. UC TheMisfit
    August 1, 2017

    Personally, I think it’s the lack of support within the community; the fad of dragging and tearing each other down with ‘shade’, ‘tea’ and ‘receipts’. It has long ceased to be all fun and games and has now become a superiority contest. Trusting a member of the LGBTQ community isn’t something we often see. One would think that being the object of hate and ridicule would have bound us together in an “us against the world” kind of relationship. But that isn’t the case.

    That’s MY least favorite thing about being gay.

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    • Francis
      August 1, 2017

      🤧🤧😔😔

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  12. Mother Superior
    August 1, 2017

    That awkward silence whenever i have dinner with my husbands family
    Though they cannot do much about the situation because we are legally married
    But the fact that they only accomodate me for his sake is a tad nerve wrecking.

    Hugs and kisses,
    Mother superior.

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    • Francis
      August 1, 2017

      You get strength oh. If na me na to dey avoid such family reunions

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  13. Rich
    August 1, 2017

    Colleagues asking about my girlfriend and who’s eating my money with me.

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    • Delle
      August 2, 2017

      I’m here! I can be the girlfriend you never had and what more? I love eating money.

      It’s a win-win 😊

      What do you say, Rich?

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  14. Pankar
    August 2, 2017

    Choi!

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  15. Malik
    August 2, 2017

    Has to be the depression man. And all the paradoxes of serving in church with this little big secret.

    It has to be the fears of the future. Coming out or being forced out. I also have the fear of the tag “gay”. I feel like it reduces us to just one story, one identity. And really, we are a lot of many-other-things.

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    • Oludayo Afrika
      August 5, 2017

      Everything Malik said.

      I wonder, after someone has gone far in his career(socia entrepreneurish)-whether being forced to come out will bring everything down.

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  16. Ken George
    August 2, 2017

    The shallowness of the gay community. Too much emphasis on sex and extreme loneliness

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  17. Pablo ™
    August 3, 2017

    The Assholes in the community who has got nothing to lose hence dragging you down with them.

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    • Dii Okpara
      August 6, 2017

      Hi…i like this! ‘dem queens, godess, even kings sef 🤣 🤣🤣

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  18. ParisHilton Bff
    August 4, 2017

    Not being open with my family and loved ones

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  19. Eddie
    August 5, 2017

    My least fave thing is that I’ll probably grow old alone and I’ll never be accepted by my family or friends or that I’ll never meet a good guy….it sucks to be me,I swear

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  20. George
    September 9, 2017

    Having to keep it a secret. Having to ignore the suspicious looks and hush toned discussions

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