22 responses

  1. Simba
    August 18, 2017

    Please complete your story, how is Yomi?.. Is he dead, mad, did he graduate, is he happy, is he creating a successful path for himself.

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    • Demi
      August 19, 2017

      Well he’s alive,good and straight

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  2. Amon
    August 18, 2017

    If he is still smoking and stuff is all because he hasn’t healed yet.

    Get off your high horse and reach out to that dude. Except you’re now a hoe and don’t do love

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    • trystham
      August 18, 2017

      Looool. Since he mentions he is a medico, ain’t he supposed to save lives? Save Yomi abeg

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      • Demi
        August 19, 2017

        He might be damaged but he’s also older and matured than me.. I was, i’m up and still up to complementing him to be better

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    • Mandy
      August 18, 2017

      He doesn’t even have to do love to reach out. He just has to be a friend who cares.

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    • Demi
      August 19, 2017

      Ain’t no high horse here.. We still communicate but often

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  3. Iliana
    August 18, 2017

    This is sad. I hope yomi is still alive

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  4. Mandy
    August 18, 2017

    I know we can’t help who we love and all that, but men, this was kinda callous. Feels like you used him or something. You really should reach out to him and help him find his way. You must not be in love with him to be his friend.

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  5. Dickson Clement
    August 18, 2017

    I do not see how you failed him, everyman has his own path. You are not the figure of his redemption, you were a friend. He has to want it , being free from his demons . He just did not work hard on it, and if you had stayed with him longer than you did… your paths would have been intertwined and you may suffer somewhat from his habits

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  6. Mash mellow
    August 18, 2017

    Oh wow!
    You had the ticket to something pure and true and you let it go with the wind just like that!Most people want that you know.

    But really you should reach out to this guy and be his Oasis just as you were in the days of old.

    Truth is we all need one person to be true to us and make us get our shits together like the saying goes no man is an island really and Seeing that he isn’t close to his parents.

    Yes I blame you for failing him and yes you can still make things work out for him if you just let the ego and attitude go and reach out to him and be a shoulder and bring smiles to his face once more.

    Regards.

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  7. Canis VY Majoris
    August 18, 2017

    All I see is an opportunity lost here. Good luck lol

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  8. Foxydevil
    August 18, 2017

    Don’t really know what to make out of this story, it sounds too drama free to be a fiction and looks too dysfunctional to be a real story (well life is dysfunctional anyways)
    My take, you did the right thing. His love or whatever he had for you was gearing towards obsession and would have turned dangerous at a point, giving his life style too and his general lack of ambition, he would have dragged you down with him and ruined your very bright looking future.
    Stop beating yourself up and feel proud of yourself that you did the right thing…. Yomi or whatever he is called is a big useless rock, when you want to fly, you’ll do well to leave off all the things that weigh you down and femi abi aboyemi would have been one of them.
    You didn’t let him go back to any place, you ain’t his father or mother and he is certainly old enough to know better. Never reach out to him, somethings and people are better left behind.
    You have a good head on your shoulders, never let sentiments or guilt hold you back. ? ?

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    • Yazz Soltana
      August 20, 2017

      Always looking for fiction and never believes anything. I sight you foxydevil.. .
      Anyways you are quite right about the pulling down stuff but it’s not everytime . …
      I mean if Liam Hemsworth could save Miley Cyrus anyone can be saved. …

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  9. Xoxo
    August 18, 2017

    I have a question, u said u had internal homophobia, did u get over it ursef or u did that with the help of someone, the problem with the gay community in nigeria is that sometimes we tend to turn our faces away from pipo we know are in need of our help, everyone cannot be perfect, everyone cannot know and do what is right, sometimes we make mistakes and some of us come out of it ourselves, others just need a friend or someone to bring them out of it,

    My dear, be a good friend and try to see how u can help him, if after trying he seems like someone who cannot be helped then u can give up and ur conscience would be on the clear that u at least tried to help him…

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  10. riddleMe
    August 19, 2017

    @Foxydevil I disagree with you. Yomi’s self-esteem was hinged on his relationship with the writer. Remember he was always depressed and felt worthless. But dating an intelligent and ambitious person gave him that sense of worth. Yomi might have continued to smoke, but I believe it wouldn’t have turned out as bad as it did.

    He went to class with you, right! Yes. Perhaps he would have graduated even if it was with a third class because he had you.

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  11. Demi
    August 19, 2017

    he is all good now, in his final year and we still chat sometimes.. he moved on since after me despite all and the last we saw he had a gf

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  12. Demi
    August 19, 2017

    Thanks PP for this platform…

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  13. Pablo ™
    August 19, 2017

    So many Judginas here. Meanwhile, some terms sounds familiar. Demi, you schooled in UI, OAU or Unilag so Maulag ? #fleeee ????

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  14. Pablo ™
    August 19, 2017

    So many Judginas here. Meanwhile, some terms sounds familiar. Demi, you schooled in UI, OAU or Unilag sorry Maulag ? #fleeee ????

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    • Yazz Soltana
      August 20, 2017

      I can bet my pussy it’s OAU so much strikes coupled with a little unseriousness… You can be doomed.. …

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  15. quinn
    August 22, 2017

    I smoke and I’m doing alright! (still a bad habit I know)…The haraging aff do, Shit happened! but it has past.

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