“Four years gone. I still remember the first time I saw this blog, and in my mind, I was like, two weeks and it’ll quit…” – KDian.

And indeed, there have been a number of times when quitting seemed like the best way to go: to simply stop and shed the responsibility of educating, enlightening and entertaining the Nigerian LGBT community.

But then comes the realization that there can be no peace of mind when we refuse to do the much or little we can in the movement to make all of us free.

Kito Diaries is 4 today. That is 4 years of doing the much or little we can so that we can all be free. And it was an effort in community, endurance, obligation and love.

Let us keep doing more for another four years.

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  1. Façade
    April 16, 06:06 Reply

    You have no idea just how much you’ve done for the Nigerian LGBT just cos of this blog
    How many lives you’ve saved
    how many kito experiences you’ve averted
    How many early morning office erections you’ve given
    How many Nigerian gay men you’ve made to stay woke
    Trust me when I say you’ve touched more lives than that gossip fest, Linda Ikeji blog

  2. Net
    April 16, 06:49 Reply

    Congratulations and thanks for not quitting

  3. Mandy
    April 16, 07:36 Reply

    Happy anniversary, KD. Many more years of creating a change in our society. 🙌💞💥👑👑🥂🎆🎇🎊

  4. Black Dynasty
    April 16, 08:18 Reply

    Happy anniversary!!!
    You’ve definitely contributed a lot of positive information to the Nigerian LGBT and I look forward to many more years for you and the blog.

  5. Kenny
    April 16, 08:47 Reply

    Happy Anniversary to Kito diaries, and thank you Pink Panther. You have no idea how my life has been shaped just by reading daily..

  6. kingb
    April 16, 09:48 Reply

    Happy anniversary to Kito diaries. you’ve been a life saver pinky. God bless you.

  7. Canis VY Majoris
    April 16, 12:02 Reply

    Happy Anniversary to us.

    I can say ever since I started reading this blog in 2015, I am becoming a better Nigerian Gay Man.

    Thank you ALL for the stories, enlightenment and entertainment.

    Keep it coming. We need you.

    Proudly KDian.

  8. Jo
    April 16, 14:42 Reply

    Thank you for this PP. You may never fully realize the host of us you have helped. Bless up!

  9. Dunder
    April 16, 15:24 Reply

    Happy anniversary. Thank you for saving lives and creating this community. Keep being great and genius. Why am I lowkey teary eyed?

    • Malik
      April 16, 18:27 Reply

      It’s not only you Dunder. It’s not only you.

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