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  1. Dennis Macaulay
    June 21, 2016

    I am obsessed with the Lekki Ikoyi link bridge too and my friend takes amazing photos of it.

    This is a beautiful story! It just flowed like water! Welldone

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  2. Brian Collins
    June 21, 2016

    You people should not vex for me o but Episode 9 is the best episode of GOT ever made. I had goosebumps all over.
    I just had to leave that here. *now to read the post*

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  3. ambivalentone
    June 21, 2016

    Lol. That there is quite the contrast I see. Lesbians are impatient with those who have not come out, Gay guys tend to avoid those who have. These women are strong abeg.
    I wonder if different writers do these series. The familiarity with four Nigerian tribes at least now. I somewhat felt the depression coming off in waves. And is this our Ummi from episodes back?

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    • Brian Collins
      June 21, 2016

      Yes dear, it is our precious Ummi from episodes back

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  4. Brian Collins
    June 21, 2016

    Oh so beautifully written. I laughed hard at the lemons joke. At least I know that the lesbians of Lagos are linked. Each one seemed like a stand alone story. This one kinda brings them together. Nice.

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    • Mandy
      June 21, 2016

      Jamal too. He’s from the Ummi episode.

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  5. geeluv
    June 21, 2016

    I only wish I’d get a friend as close as Adesuwa… we’ll just fake a wedding and then move on with our individual lifestyle…. both families will be happy and we’ll even be more happy doing our things in colabo…. #CASECLOSED#

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    • mr simon
      June 21, 2016

      Yea, till kids arrive the scene

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      • Pink Panther
        June 21, 2016

        A gay man and a lesbian in a marriage of convenience.
        How does ‘kids arriving the scene’ become a factor in such an arrangement?

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  6. Kenny
    June 21, 2016

    L.O.L is fast becoming one of my favourite series on this blog. This episode was truly beautiful and quite insightful. Ummi and Kainene made an appearance, yay ☺

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  7. Terra
    June 21, 2016

    Cameo appearance by Ummi and Kainene. So at least now we know they exist in the same literary universe. These stories are kinda like how marvel was giving superheroes movies one by one before Avengers came out. Really great story Cousin

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  8. Mandy
    June 21, 2016

    “Some friends of mine are out to their families, and they get very snippy with those of us who drag their feet over the issue of coming out themselves. I tell them, life’s not an even pace for everyone. We all want to get there, but we must remember there’s the tortoise and there’s the cheetah.”

    That right there is everything! Diversity, this concept. It’s ironic how we know it’s there and yet are blind to it.

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  9. dabo
    June 21, 2016

    beautiful,endearing and very sincere

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  10. doe eyed monster
    June 22, 2016

    awwww… reminds me of my first gay gathering recently, i like how guys let their hair down at these things. it wasn’t too tush but it wasn’t so ratchet either. and who knew boys could twist their waists away?

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  11. Brian Collins
    June 22, 2016

    I have only been to one and it was much fun. Would so love to be at another.

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  12. sensei
    June 22, 2016

    Very beautifully written!

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  13. Evil Empress
    June 22, 2016

    Lovely write up! I’m not sure I can write this good anymore. And then…there’s d kissing part *sigh* Been to gay parties…but seeing as I swing both ways…lol. At first, it seemed the story was more about closet gays and all…but u knw na..’when life gives u lemons, hustle for the ingredients for a Cosmopolitan’ lmao…i’m stealing that!!!

    Live is for living o jare

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    • Pink Panther
      June 22, 2016

      *eyeing Evil Empress with increasing interest*
      One day, very very soon, you will write a bisexual girl story for us.

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      • Evil Empress
        June 22, 2016

        I’d think about it!!! Lol

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      • Pink Panther
        June 22, 2016

        Diaris no thinking about it in this one o. When I’m ready for you, I will haunt you until you produce a story for us. Just wait.

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      • Evil Empress
        June 22, 2016

        *runs into closet and hides* excuse the pun! Hehe

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      • Pink Panther
        June 22, 2016

        Hahahahaaa

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      • Evil Empress
        June 22, 2016

        Yé-yé Pinky

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  14. Chandler B.
    June 22, 2016

    I have a girl crush. Your writing is beautiful, ThatGayCousin.

    Side note: for a while there I pronounced ‘Adama’ as ‘Ada-mma’ (an Eastern Nigerian name), till I saw;
    “Well, I’m from Kaduna. My mother stays there, father stays here in Lagos. Home is basically wherever I want it to be.”

    I love your use of unpopular names.

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  15. Dickson Clement
    June 22, 2016

    Nice piece… I had to Google that cute chocolate celebrity mentioned here!

    Finally, I am here in this city… hope I’d meet these cute lesbians..

    Lesbian friends apply in person

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  16. Stephanie
    December 7, 2016

    Wow, this is a beautiful write up
    I absolutely love it. I’ve never been to a gay gathering in Nigeria, didn’t even think such a thing existed. I feel like it would be so much fun though

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  17. iAmNotAPerv
    February 22, 2018

    Yes, i am re-reading this series again. i must find @thatgaycousin

    Pinky, please help

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      May 2, 2018

      Hi

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      • iAmNotAPerv
        July 10, 2018

        Hello
        are you thatgaycousin?

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    November 9, 2018

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      December 9, 2018

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      May 30, 2019

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  20. Missmarsh
    April 16, 2019

    Well this story is great, I like

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