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  1. JustJames
    March 16, 2015

    This was one great big mush fest..

    I wouldn’t have told Tonia all my friends are gay though. I’m pretty sure they would not all take it kindly that he outed them to her.

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  2. Dennis Macauley
    March 16, 2015

    Families always know!

    Deep down somewhere they know, they just hope they are wrong as hell

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    • Lyon
      September 7, 2019

      Reminds me of this one time I was going back to school. My dad was just telling me to stay well and out of trouble. “Be very careful to avoid getting involved in this ‘new’scandal of homosexuality”

      My in my mind: 😲😲😳😳 what does this man know?

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    • Lyon
      September 7, 2019

      Reminds me of this one time I was going back to school. My dad was just telling me to stay well and out of trouble. “Be very careful to avoid getting involved in this ‘new’scandal of homosexuality”

      Me in my mind: 😲😲😳😳 what does this man know?

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  3. chris
    March 16, 2015

    coming out to tonia was the bravest thing ever…. and how she handled it, was matured and sweet as was depicted. ….. if all family members will be like Tonia….

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    • Gad
      March 16, 2015

      All family members can’t be like Tonia. Some for you and some against while we have those who will be indifferent.

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  4. Mercury
    March 16, 2015

    Hmmmmmmm, that worked!!!!

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      What worked?

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  5. Khaleesi
    March 16, 2015

    great piece! A part of me wished Dee had told Tonia about Jonathaan abeg, but i understand why he had to “protect” Jonathan … every gay man truly needs such a break – – the great blessing of a loving family member whom you can be truly yourself with, no judgments, no harsh criticisms, just unconditional love …

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      As simple as that.

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    • Dennis Macauley
      March 16, 2015

      I quarrelnwith Dee revealing the others, its not his story to tell; its theirs. He should have left them out of his oprah prime time.

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      • pinkpanthertb
        March 16, 2015

        LMAO @ Oprah primetime

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  6. Peak
    March 16, 2015

    Waiting for ndi KD to bring out the hoe badge and pin it all over declan.

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      Hoe badge kwa? Am I missing something biko?

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    • Peak
      March 16, 2015

      Pinky they will start telling him to leave oscar alone and not add him to the soup of already boiling men. The hoe badge will materialise as soon as he allows any pass at him from oscar

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      • pinkpanthertb
        March 16, 2015

        Hahahahahahahaa. Chai. Peak!

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  7. sinnex
    March 16, 2015

    Nice once.
    I think my siblings and friends once suspected. They were not so sure, but they mentioned it once or twice. I guess they stopped talking about it when I no longer exhibited some traits. There was a time I would have been worried when they called me “gay”, but now, if they talk nonsense, I’d just smile and tell them that “i guess it was your boyfriend that told you I slept with him”.
    I don’t really care any longer. Seeing that I don’t even stay with them.

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      I’m right with you there, Sinnex. These days I’m no longer as bothered as I used to be about my family finding out about me. My brother knows tho. We fought over it. And have now settled on a ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ sort of relationship

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      • MacArdry
        March 16, 2015

        A brother knows,we didn’t fight over it.Now he turns it into some joke whenever there’s talk in the family of me getting married,in a sublime to ridiculous sort of way.

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  8. Ruby
    March 16, 2015

    Don’t you just Loooooove when your sister knows you’re Gay and is cool with it!
    Lord! Thank you for my sister!
    Buh I smell a blowout from the gang once they find out that Dee outed them to Tonia.
    Oh well!!!!

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  9. KryxxX
    March 16, 2015

    Y do I have dis feeling that my elder bro knows nd is just watching me from a distance………. Oh well! Till he says so.

    And as for my sisters finding out about me……….. I would rather take death by a concrete mixing machine to that! Ppl like Dee r just lucky to have open minded siblings abi sister……

    But bia Dee, u know u have a rep already, keep Oscar off d mix biko! Develop standards nd quit falling like a pack of cards!!!

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    • Dennis Macauley
      March 16, 2015

      Family always know kryxx, they always know

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      Hahahahahahahaa. Kryxxx, who said he has fallen for Oscar mbok?

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  10. Ueze
    March 16, 2015

    Favorite episode; sans the walk Dee is about to take with Oscar and for all the places they could go.
    I’m going to have this conversation with twinnie, soon.

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  11. trystham
    March 16, 2015

    This pinkie sef. Gurrrrl, its always like days in church when the pastor is talking about what you did last summer. I’m reading every gist we’ve had on this blog in each word. kontinuu

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      Hehehehee. Innocent until proven guilty, Trysthie

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  12. Andrevn
    March 16, 2015

    Amazing,just simply amazing…….the peace and illumination that comes to your heart when you finally have someone to talk to about everything and anything….boyfriend ish and shii….is unquantifiable.

    Fabians’ is an archetype of your relationship your brother…..Yes?

    Snitching on the ”gang” is a minus(-)/plus(-) cos at this point letting that confidante ”trust” us is vital and could be costly.But then how Dec’ handled the soon-to-be MBM issue is commendable (very).

    But then he should stop being a bandwagoney dickoney whore!.

    Okbye! *Goes back to rubbing in honey and cucumber concoction unto face*

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  13. Teflondon
    March 16, 2015

    Lovely write up.. Amazing piece. I have not being following this series that much ( havent had time to read through all the previous series). That said…

    I still understand people’s crave for acceptance by loved once. I just don’t fancy this talk of “unconditional love”
    That talk of “I love you no matter what”
    I think I’ve mentioned it here before… I am not a cancer patient, neither do I have a terminal disease and I dont “THAT” assurance talk. If my peeps found out ( all them have by the way, except my younger brother that’s still in denial as to what is true and what isn’t) none of them including my very loving mum as called to give me “THAT” assurance talk and I am no bloody way expecting any either.

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  14. Ace
    March 16, 2015

    Love it. Great piece. Not really in for the wikileaks exposure but I guess he believes Tonia is well open minded. “Hey, sis, guess what? I’m gay. Now, may I borrow your hair cream?” Lol

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  15. Gad
    March 16, 2015

    interesting as usual.

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  16. JArch
    March 16, 2015

    Shey I talk am na…. Vera Wang and Valentino should expect a reservation from Tonia with Dee in tow… Bridal dress etc, Dee would soon figure out his (other) calling as a wedding planner hehehe

    Meanwhile… The claws are going to come out soon… Meooow!!!

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 16, 2015

      Hahahahahahahaa!!! Jarch whatever will I do with you?

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      • JArch
        March 16, 2015

        I know right… I am just too irresistible, so you’ve got to just love me jejely… Just like how you love cold stone ice cream and dominos pizza

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      • JArch
        March 16, 2015

        While Waje’s “Coco Baby” serenades you in the background

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  17. michael
    March 16, 2015

    Nice one…. but how about those of us that don’t have any brothers nor sisters, who do we come out to hoping that they will not go ballistic about it???

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    • Gad
      March 16, 2015

      You can come out to me.

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    • pinkpanthertb
      March 17, 2015

      An only child?! Well, there’s always your parents. But you have to be sure the gay clime with them is favourable.

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    • Teflondon
      March 17, 2015

      Must you come out to someone? Haba

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  18. papasmurf
    August 10, 2015

    I’m sure Declan must’ve thought “HOLY FUCK ON A POGO STICK!” After Tonia hugged him out.
    We all deserve a “Tonia” in our corners joor.
    Hugs n kisses

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