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  1. INDIGENE
    September 21, 2016

    I still find it hard to believe the kinda love we expect exist! if someone is able to put up with some of your shitz, then they love you, but just when your loving, prepare for a time when those loves won’t exist no longer.
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    I have never seen my self heartbroken before, I hardly relate when I see people saying their breakup made them down! it doesn’t work that way for me.
    Some go into a relationship and abandon everything about them and make it about whoever they dating, Hey!You have a personal life and no matter the amount of professed love keep to who you are, leave a home where you can run back to when your new house get flooded!

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    • Delle
      September 21, 2016

      “…leave a home where you can run back to when your new house get flooded!”

      More like not placing all your eggs in one basket, abi? Hian!

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    • Pink Panther
      September 21, 2016

      You seem to think that heartbreak goes hand in hand with people living for their partners when they’re in a relationship.

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      • tee.boi
        September 21, 2016

        Eehh, Pinky Yo’heard About That Denola grey And Daddy FREEZE Interview Stuff,

        Seriously, That Daddy Freeze Needs KOBOKO

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Thank you.

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  2. johnny
    September 21, 2016

    There is love oh. Open ur heart and watch out for the right person. you ll be amazed.

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Thanks Johnny

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  3. Delle
    September 21, 2016

    I believe in love. Genuine, mutual love. Love conquers all but could be messy (I guess something as sovereign as that should be when the tides turn).

    I also do not believe in holding out because of a sour past experience. Like Mark said, you just may miss out on an opportunity to truly experience love. One thing I’ve come to understand is that many a time, true love doesn’t sprout up from lust or infatuation.
    Three months is too long a time for him to keep persevering and for you to keep shutting him out.

    As for the healing, it does truly heal if the right ointment is applied.

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Hi Delle,

      Trust you’re good.

      Where can I locate that ointment.

      Standing by for your swift response.

      Warm regards,

      JBoy

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  4. Mr. Fingers
    September 21, 2016

    U failed to tell us if u are actually into mark.

    If u are not into him no use telling him u need time to heal,just let him know how u feel abt him.

    Sorry about the heartbreak. Dont expect too much from people in any relationship u find ur self in that way u wont get hurt. There are no knights in shining armour in the real world,we are just humans with flaws and all.

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Mr. Fingers,

      If I wasn’t…I wouldn’t be asking.

      Cheers.

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  5. bruno
    September 21, 2016

    nice post. i think this is something we all think about. i think the issue of love is something of a dichotomy. the idea of love is suppose to be this perfect thing but how can we find that love in someone when all humans are flawed?

    intense mutual feelings of attraction are all well and good but it takes more than that to be with someone. love is a journey. a journey into discovering more about yourself and someone else. you can’t drag someone on that journey. you can’t drag solomon and mark can’t drag you because.

    besides affection, they first thing two people need to have is the complete willingness to let what they share blossom. that’s what will motivate when you when that journey hits a bumpy patch.

    intelligent funny and well-endowed are all good, i guess but they say nothing about a persons character. loyalty, commitment, willingness to listen, self awareness and communication are more of the things that will determine whether you will have a good time with someone or not. these are the thing that really do conquer all.

    on a final note, i don’t have straight answers to your questions. look around. no one outside hollywood really does. more relationships fail than succeed, divorce rates grow and too many marriages are walking dead. these are just things i’ve picked up from personal experiences and observations. and things i’ve learnt in the past year with my (totally awesome) boyfriend.

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    • Pink Panther
      September 21, 2016

      👏👏👏👏

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Hi Bruno,

      Me truly grateful. Thanks so much for those words.

      OAN: I would love to be friends with you.

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      • bruno
        September 22, 2016

        you’re welcome.

        sure thing. pp is the chain that binds us all together!

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  6. IBK
    September 21, 2016

    All’s fair in love and war.

    Really there are no rules to how to go about relationships except those you impose on yourself. I am a strong believer of love having experienced it myself but I have to agree that it isn’t always enough.

    I have many questions just like you but I’m willing to learn even if it earns me scars. If you feel you need time then take time just make sure whenever you enter the next relationships it’s for the right reasons.

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    • Pink Panther
      September 21, 2016

      👍 This.

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Dearest IBK,

      Thanks a lot…all duly noted.

      Ciao!

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  7. Francis
    September 21, 2016

    Some of us don’t even know what we want again sef. This life can be such a messy porridge sometimes. Best of luck to una wey dey actively search for love. May your search be fruitful.

    @Tee.boi I saw that mess and I wished Denola had a correct response like “Are we no longer dating again?” Nonsense man. 😠😠

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    • JBoy
      September 21, 2016

      Wish you same…

      Thanks.

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