67 responses

  1. Francis
    April 5, 2017

    Yaasssssssssss! 👏👏 Make your mama come adopt me already. This is everything I wish I have with my folks. 🤗🤗🤗

    I happy for you die man

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      😂😂😂….she has plenty kids already.

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      • FJ
        April 5, 2017

        Hahaha…hehehehe….Nna, dis isn’t just a mom, bain, she is a soul mate

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      • ambivalentone
        April 5, 2017

        Shattap dia. Is that how ur mother raised u? To be selfish? Bonga fish head!

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      • FJ
        April 5, 2017

        little brat, ain’t any of those names u tagged me. Eeyan lo ko eshin loro. Am a friend to all here including you.

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  2. peach-head
    April 5, 2017

    “But wait first o,
    nna, with the way you are clearly
    growing, I think I’ll have to step in
    and find you a good guy that’ll treat
    you right.”

    i laugh in chineese, swahilli, latin and greek.

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    • Pink Panther
      April 5, 2017

      Lol. Don’t worry, peach. You’ll find your own, you hear?
      And may God punish the man who made you so bitter about love.

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      lol…she tried though,but failed multiple times.

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  3. MagDiva
    April 5, 2017

    This is everything. #love 🙌🏾

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  4. Queen Blue Fox
    April 5, 2017

    I really wish! I really wish this was my family.

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  5. Canis VY Majoris
    April 5, 2017

    If this is fiction……. AVADAKEDAVRA!!!.

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      Its not.

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  6. Simba
    April 5, 2017

    I think the best thing that can happen to a Nigerian gay man,is to date a man out and accepted by his parents. Oh my gosh, u can’t imagine how strong and respected tht relationship would be, family dinners and holidays. Oga Bain, na to find better husband remain,congratulations dear.

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      Thanks.😘😘😘

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    • Vhar.
      April 5, 2017

      You have no idea the trouble you put me in with this comment. 😆

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      • bain
        April 5, 2017

        hahaha…vhar abiakwa nke ya.

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  7. Absalom
    April 5, 2017

    Aww. This is beautiful, and heart-warming, and shows there’s hope.

    *

    After some people will come here and say all of this, everything we preach and hope for from here, is about “cock”! Mtscheeeeew!!

    Biko, Bain, better person, greet your mother for me. 🙂

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      My mum says ‘Hi’.

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  8. WhoIsUgo
    April 5, 2017

    Wow, your mum is so amazing! Please show her plenty love and attention she deserves it.

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  9. Enigma
    April 5, 2017

    Nice story,wonderful is a better word..I so wish this was my family,your parents should adopt me already.You know,a family where everyone accepts you and mummy loves you more for who you are without any iota of sentiment.
    Oh,if wishes were horses……..

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  10. omiete
    April 5, 2017

    Well am not stupid….. Ishi Opkoroko… Gosh I love your mum. Am I the only one laughing at that email??

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      Trust me,that day it was not funny at all,my mum just saved me.

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    • Pink Panther
      April 5, 2017

      You’re not alone o. I laughed hard too.

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  11. OJ
    April 5, 2017

    Amazing Mom. Beautiful Son. Inspiring Story. I love every bit of it! Send my love to your mum..

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      sure thing.

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  12. Tobi
    April 5, 2017

    Bain. I really want to meet your mum. 😆😆

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      When you are around, you’ll meet her.

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  13. Khaleesi
    April 5, 2017

    Bain biko hold this woman tight!! from now on, your no 1 mission in life must be to make her happy and proud! You are indeed blessed! I don’t need to tell you why!

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      Ya,I will.Thanks.

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  14. Bloom
    April 5, 2017

    Are you absolutely sure your mom doesn’t want anymore children?

    This is wonderful! She is wonderful! You are wonderful!

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      😂😂😂.

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  15. bain
    April 5, 2017

    I guess I’ll be making more entries.
    thanks PP.😘😘😘

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  16. Jide
    April 5, 2017

    Loved the story!!! So uplifting!!!!

    I thought you were bisexual tho. (From your previous comments. )

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      That’s an entirely different story.

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  17. Tali
    April 5, 2017

    Your mum can’t have many children already jare. This is so beautiful. I’m really happy for you.

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  18. Vhar.
    April 5, 2017

    Your mother’s last cheeky comment though. Some women are just birds of a feather. 😆

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    • Pink Panther
      April 5, 2017

      I’m looking at you, Vhar. 😃😏

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      • bain
        April 5, 2017

        😂….you’ve gotten those comments too?

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      • Vhar.
        April 5, 2017

        Comments ke? More like threats.

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      • bain
        April 5, 2017

        I teh you,threats!.

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  19. El
    April 5, 2017

    Well, this is fiction anyways.

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    • Pink Panther
      April 5, 2017

      Why? Because it tells the story of family love and acceptance that you’re not familiar with? If he had written about how his mother cussed him and threw him out of the house for being gay, then it would be nonfiction to you?

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      • Francis
        April 5, 2017

        World people ehn!

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      • El
        April 6, 2017

        Darling, I’m not a pessimist. I have a loving and supportive family if you must know, rather I’m just being realistic. It’s really not that deep. Okay?

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      • Pink Panther
        April 6, 2017

        You’re funny, El. Realistic, by your definition, is a family that is just marginally supportive of their gay son? And that definition is supposed toapply to every one?
        *shaking my head* The damage we do to ourselves sha. Carry on with your ‘realistic’ beliefs, oga. While others are busying enjoying their loving mothers, you hear?
        And you keep saying it’s not that deep, and in the same breath insinuate that the writer is not being truthful. Oga, goan sit down somewhere and reset the way you think.

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      lol…its not fiction bro.

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      • El
        April 6, 2017

        Okay…. My believe though is, Some Nigerian mothers can be okay with having a gay child, but I doubt if any Nigerian mother would take the trouble of getting her son a man. So the story might be non fiction, however, it might have been spiced up for our enjoyment. Just my thought though. @Pink Panther, it’s not that deep cause lots of us here have supportive families.

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      • Francis
        April 6, 2017

        Lots of us here have supportive families but this level of support is excessive and should be frowned upon as it is unrealistic. 🙄😒

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      • El
        April 6, 2017

        “I think I’ll have to step in and find you a good guy that’ll treat you right.” If this part of the story is really true, I’ll be so happy for him and wish it were my mum, but don’t we all love fantasies? *Mariah’s smile*

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      • bain
        April 6, 2017

        very funny.you.

        well she says that all the time, sometimes jokingly. she tried hooking me up with her friends son,but I wasn’t interested….she also tries to hook me up with her friends daughters too.

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      • Francis
        April 6, 2017

        I’m confused! You is Bi ni?

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      • bain
        April 6, 2017

        I had a thing with a girl once,(I’d probably write about that saga)…
        but I’m 99% gay and 100% me.

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      • Francis
        April 6, 2017

        😂😂😂 Ok. I get

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      • El
        April 6, 2017

        It’s cool. (In Gwen Stefani’s voice)

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  20. Horlar
    April 5, 2017

    wonderful write up

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  21. onikolobo
    April 5, 2017

    Chai. See me blushing while reading the whole piece. God bless your mom Bain. Love is indeed a beautiful thing especially when family pours it out on you with no holds bar.

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  22. mizta dee
    April 5, 2017

    Bain, Your mom is the real MVP. 🙌🙌🙌

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  23. Sage
    April 5, 2017

    @Mama Bain and Mama Vhar una such say una no need extra adult pikin?

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    • bain
      April 5, 2017

      😂😂😂😂….

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  24. Eddie
    April 5, 2017

    in total disbelief…. In this country??? Dude,you are one lucky bloke

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  25. boniface
    April 6, 2017

    such a wonderful mommy bain ur mommy is like a true nature of my sister before she was worried of me being gay till the day l outed myself to her during a closed room talk she accepted me like that but her advice still ponder at my heart she said that l should be careful on whom l date and that there are a lot of ritualist around that although that am in school and in need of money that l should notify her rather than engaging in a dirty business ever since that my whole sibling have shown me true loves and care more than l could find at the gaybourhood .

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    • bain
      April 6, 2017

      awww,true acceptance is beautiful.

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  26. Delle
    April 6, 2017

    After reading the letter from that friend of yours, all I could decipher was “DAFT”.

    Bleeding anus, really? That guy is desperate.

    Your mum. I’m curious. Is she an atheist? A half-caste? Or just some super-mum who really knows what it is to be a mother? I love her and I have to meet her biko.

    As for Pelumi, I pray he gets what’s coming to him
    A bleeding anus won’t be a bad start.
    Nice story. Makes me feel a lot of ways.

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    • Tiercel de Claron
      April 6, 2017

      Only half-caste and/or atheist moms know how to be mothers,right?.
      Check your words and thoughts before you rush to type

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      • FJ
        April 7, 2017

        You read my mind

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    • bain
      April 6, 2017

      well my mum is partially an atheist, but her fear of hell won’t let her be great.And she’s fully African.

      besides, I know some western mothers that don’t accept their queer kids.Its really not about race.

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  27. Jerry
    April 18, 2017

    Is this story for real? Heh it seems like a fiction to me. A mother like this Nigeria? Guy, no

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