Tag "Bottom"

Opinion Pieces 2 Comments

Opinion: Can Bottoms Self-Lubricate?

Originally published on NewNowNext.com   Since coming out, I’ve explored all aspects of my sexuality and never once has my asshole been able to self-lubricate. And yet, so many report

Our Stories 54 Comments

THE DARK SIDE OF MIDNIGHT

Bruce was bottom. And I had bottomed most of my gay life. He was a month older. But I had more experience out of life than he did We were

Dear KD 8 Comments

Dear KD: I Need To Bottom!!!

So, I am Bottom, but I haven’t been very lucky sexually, nor have I truly ever enjoyed sex since I started having it. And I am tired and almost giving

From The Net 12 Comments

Tweet of the Day: Did Azealia Banks really say this?

I know rapper Azealia Banks is a woman with such random thoughts, but this… LOL! Well, anyway, are we feeling any of the wisdom she is imparting? About rough sex,

The Happenings 3 Comments

Troye Sivan responds to the question of him being a “bottom icon”

We aren’t entirely sure what a “bottom icon” is, but apparently everyone’s been calling pop darling Troye Sivan one. In a recent interview with Them, Sivan fielded questions about music

Series (Non-Fiction) 5 Comments

The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 5)

Getting to a place of self acceptance meant I had to overcome two kinds of shame: the shame of being gay and the shame of being bottom. I remember back

Our Stories 20 Comments

First Time With The D

The plan was that he’d come over first thing in the morning and we’d do it quickly before he went to work. Work resumed at eight; we agreed on seven.

Our Stories 7 Comments

Stop asking me if I’m a Top or Bottom. Not every gay guy likes anal

Bradley Birkholz feels liberated as a side and wants you to banish the ‘butthole binary’ with him. In today’s world, it still feels like there are binaries everywhere. And in

Our Stories 17 Comments

It Is Time To End Bottom Shaming

Originally published on advocate.com “It’s cool, man. I’m clean. I swear.” Admittedly, this uncouth line worked on me more times than I care to recount. During my naive years, I

Editor's Desk 40 Comments

Those Five Things You Should Know About Your Ass

It is pretty clear that gay men have major thing for all things anal. Not to rain on anyone’s patootie parade with this piece (originally published on queerty.com), but there