Tag "Bottom"

Dear KD 8 Comments

Dear KD: I Need To Bottom!!!

So, I am Bottom, but I haven’t been very lucky sexually, nor have I truly ever enjoyed sex since I started having it. And I am tired and almost giving

From The Net 12 Comments

Tweet of the Day: Did Azealia Banks really say this?

I know rapper Azealia Banks is a woman with such random thoughts, but this… LOL! Well, anyway, are we feeling any of the wisdom she is imparting? About rough sex,

The Happenings 3 Comments

Troye Sivan responds to the question of him being a “bottom icon”

We aren’t entirely sure what a “bottom icon” is, but apparently everyone’s been calling pop darling Troye Sivan one. In a recent interview with Them, Sivan fielded questions about music

Series (Non-Fiction) 5 Comments

The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 5)

Getting to a place of self acceptance meant I had to overcome two kinds of shame: the shame of being gay and the shame of being bottom. I remember back

Our Stories 19 Comments

First Time With The D

The plan was that he’d come over first thing in the morning and we’d do it quickly before he went to work. Work resumed at eight; we agreed on seven.

Our Stories 7 Comments

Stop asking me if I’m a Top or Bottom. Not every gay guy likes anal

Bradley Birkholz feels liberated as a side and wants you to banish the ‘butthole binary’ with him. In today’s world, it still feels like there are binaries everywhere. And in

Our Stories 17 Comments

It Is Time To End Bottom Shaming

Originally published on advocate.com “It’s cool, man. I’m clean. I swear.” Admittedly, this uncouth line worked on me more times than I care to recount. During my naive years, I

Our Stories 40 Comments

Those Five Things You Should Know About Your Ass

It is pretty clear that gay men have major thing for all things anal. Not to rain on anyone’s patootie parade with this piece (originally published on queerty.com), but there