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Random Questions: About Grindr Hookups

After chatting with someone on Grindr for hours, you’re horned up as hell and ready to go. Then he gets to your place and you open the door to see

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THE ABCs OF KITO (10 Guides To Your Hookup Security)

After more than five years of taking in the stories of victimized members of the online gay dating community, of being frustrated by the mistakes and encouraged by the miracles,

Series (Non-Fiction) 29 Comments

THE HOOK-UP STORY (A Top Like Ahmed)

For a while now, sex has been more of a process to attaining release than an activity of intimacy and ultimately, sexual gratification. I have no idea if it’s my

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Grindr: Is It More Than Just A Hookup App?

So, this issue has been something I’ve been encountering in pockets of social media conversations over the years. It has been so taken for granted that Grindr is a place

Our Stories 6 Comments

HOW CHRISTMAS MENDED MY BROKEN HEART

2016 was an eventful year, to say the least. After five years of being in a loving relationship, twenty days after my thirty-fifth birthday, it ended. My boyfriend called a

Kito Stories 12 Comments

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND…FAST (A KITO STORY)

This story happened in 2012. I’d just changed jobs from being a secretary/personal assistant to a barrister in a law firm, to begin working as a volunteer church staff. As

Fiction 4 Comments

Breaking the Code

Before I got my ex-girlfriend pregnant, I used to fuck around without a care in the world. It didn’t matter who I gave the dick to – dudes, bitches, trans

The Happenings 6 Comments

Gay teen gets his heart broken by older man in a new music video

Anyone who has ever had any romance with a married gay man would relate with this music video. The song, Afterglow, is the latest track from California-based singer-songwriter, Christopher Sorensen,

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The Life That Was Robbed From The Nigerian Gay Community

There are so many innocent harmless aspects of the hookup culture in Nigeria that the SSMPA has taken away from us. A few days ago, I was on my way

From The Net 13 Comments

What Do You Do When You Find Out The Man Interviewing You For A New Job Was The Hookup From Last Week?

Talk about power dynamics! A job seeker realized his upcoming interviewer is actually last week’s hookup, and he solicited advice from Reddit’s r/askgaybros forum. “Hey homosexuals! Say you’re a grad