Tag "Gay Man"

Profiles 10 Comments

“I Was Like A Fish Out Of Water.” Kenny Brandmuse Gives Tell-All Interview

So Kenny Brandmuse, the man who broke the internet in 2015 with his coming out, recently sat to an interview with a few media outlets to give a very illuminating

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Bottoms Have Dicks Too

I’m in this Facebook gay group that I am considering leaving because of all the community, internal prejudice that simmers in there. Considering the fact that the group is filled

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Handling Rejection

I could feel my hands clamming up. I braced myself. You’d have thought I was getting ready to jump out of a plane. Although I have done that before, and

Poetry 9 Comments

Lemonade: The Poetry (A Gay Man’s Perspective)

This is an ode to gay men who have been in abusive relationships. Originally from Beyoncé’s Lemonade visual album, here is a gay man’s perspective of the poetry. PART 1:

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MY OTHER BIRTHDAY

In our journey through life, birthdays are always taken to be momentous occasions to be celebrated often. In most cases, when you mention a birthday, we think about the date

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YOU WITH THE DISEASE

Does he feel the need to be extra-masculine? Is he so conscious of looking too fashion-forward? “I for don relax my hair today but e go look somehow.” Does he

The Happenings 14 Comments

A Gay Man Recently Released From Prison Tells It All

If you rely on TV shows and movies, prison can look like a scary place – for men in general, but for gay men in particular (if the other inmates

Series (Non-Fiction) 19 Comments

K’osidim n’obi

I happened on Kito Diaries roughly a year and half ago. I was just eighteen, in the closet, and trying to focus on starting a career. I was in my

The Happenings 15 Comments

Gay Man Feels Like He Doesn’t Belong to The Gay Community

Some gay people are perfectly fine with casual hookups, and some people are in lengthy relationships. But some, like this guy on Reddit, just can’t find themselves in between the

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Gay Wars: The Battle of the Bitches, Or the Tops and Bottoms of Being Out in Nigeria

1. I would like to begin by saying that if you are visiting me, and you don’t want to be outed by association, then don’t bother. Add to that: I