Tag "Gay Men"

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6 Signs He’s Not Looking for Anything Serious

It’s tough breaking things off with someone. In fact, it’s so tough that most guys have absolutely no idea how to do it. Instead of being upfront, they “fade out.”

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Guarding You Against You

Some days ago, I saw a post on Facebook by a woman who’d been hitting on me a while ago. She was getting married to my cousin. And the first

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HOMOSEXUAL HURTS AND THE BISEXUAL AGENDA

A couple of days ago, Nigerian Gay Twitter was triggered when a gay man took it upon himself to preach the gospel of bisexuality. First of all, I want to

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Internet Users weigh in on what it means to have Top Privilege

Strict top. Dom top. Vers top. Total top. These are all important terms in the lexicon of top culture. To help paint a clearer picture, below are 10 tweets that

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JUST SAY NO AND KEEP IT MOVING

I remember the time that there was some trending drama on Facebook long ago – I can’t remember when, or the full details of it, but the here’s the summary

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It Is Not Only Possible But Common For A Gay Man To Not Like Anal Sex

Anal sex has become conflated with the male gay or bisexual experience — so much so that the top-vs-bottom question is often the first talking point in Grindr chats. So

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The Battle That’s Already Been Won (Part 2)

Previously on THE BATTLE THAT’S ALREADY BEEN WON… * CDS meeting was a bore as usual and I found myself getting more and restless as I struggled to pay attention

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Opinion: Why Gay Men Need Straight Friends Too

We often hear that straight people need educating about what’s going on in the LGBT community. There’s a constant narrative about what we can do to widen our heteronormative society’s

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PROBLEMATIC GAY MEN YOU’VE EVER HAD SEX WITH

1. Those who’ll avert their face when you reach for a kiss, bringing you to the sudden sinking realization that they are not kissers.   2. Those who kiss, but

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“Being Gay Is Not A Career.” Nigerian Gay Man Sparks A Conversation on Twitter About the Choices of Gay Men in Nigeria

Late Sunday evening, a Twitter user who goes by the handle @Debonairjay tweeted his “advice” to young gay men, a tweet which has gone viral in screengrabs that have been

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