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Stop asking me if I’m a Top or Bottom. Not every gay guy likes anal

Bradley Birkholz feels liberated as a side and wants you to banish the ‘butthole binary’ with him. In today’s world, it still feels like there are binaries everywhere. And in

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THE TEMPLATE

The news making the rounds at home is that concerning my older brother’s upcoming nuptials to some pretty young lady. It feels strange honestly but I’m happy for him. In

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Grindr to allow users in anti-gay countries to change Grindr icon on their phones as security measure

Grindr is to implement additional security measures to help protect users of the dating app in anti-gay countries. The tech giant has collaborated with global free speech organization Article 19

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Grindr is no longer ‘men-only’ as update adds support for women and trans people

Grindr has added options to cater for women and transgender people as well as gay men. The hook-up app, which has traditionally been for gay men, rolled out the changes

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Dear Gay Men, Our Trans Advocacy Sucks. We Need To Do Better

Originally published on intomore.com Last week was Trans Awareness Week, a time for the spreading of transgender support and information that ends with a reminder of their humanity on Trans

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“I Will Fight For You But…” The Shame Of The LGBT Activist

The post you’re yet to read is very contextual. Without revealing much, especially considering the group’s terms of security, there exists on Facebook a group for Nigerian men. In this

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The Piece That Asks Gay Men To Give Sam Smith a Break

When I happened upon this post on pride.com, I was immediately thrown back a few years ago when here on Kito Diaries, Sam Smith trended amongst KDians and mostly not

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Brother of Ex-Big Brother Housemate TBoss laments being the target of flirtatious messages from gay men

Christopher Idowu, brother to ex-Big Brother Naija housemate, TBoss, has cried out over being the recipient of online messages from gay men. He shared one of the online interactions and

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THIS IS A GAY POST

“You meet someone at a party. You finally talk to that crush or you go online and you start a conversation with this random stranger. The conversation is intriguing. It

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ON GETTING OLDER

It was Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s birthday recently (kindly note that she is THE ONE, THE ONLY ONE), and while we were paying tributes on social media and all, Pink Panther