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“NO. LESBIANS DON’T HAVE IT EASIER THAN YOU.” A Lesbian ‘Love’ Letter To Gay Men

I was part of a diverse and inclusive conversation two days ago – an event which was amazing by the way – when someone brought up the fact that LGBT+

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The Relevance of Justin Fashanu to LGBT History 20 Years after His Death

It’s been 20 years since Justin Fashanu died on May 2, 1998. He made history as the first professional footballer to come out as gay while playing at a top

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NIGERIAN WHILE GAY

Yesterday, I went out with a friend. We had hot dogs and soft drinks. Talked. All the while, this fine brother pranced about. He’d leave his post, checking people’s tickets,

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A World Of Men Looking For Love

Yemi wanted love – or so he called it in his head – but every day, he woke up to a world that judged the kind of love he wanted.

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Tweet: Believe in Love for the Nigerian Gay Man

The general consensus is that love is not a thing in the Nigerian dating scene, a sentiment that was emphasized by this conversation previously posted here on Kito Diaries. But

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A Medley Of Opinions About Love And Relationship In The Nigerian Gay Community

So, a couple of days ago, I posted my response to a friend who wanted some answers about love and relationships. Before I arrived at my response, I brought the

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TO THE FRIEND LOOKING FOR LOVE

Dear Friend So, okay, the questions you asked me regarding the issues you have with finding love and being in a relationship really gave me pause. It was something I

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Tweet of the Day: Stop Slut Shaming

This is for all those gay men who tend to import heteronormative discriminations into the dating scene of the gay community.

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THE PRICE OF HAPPINESS

Once upon a time in my life, even though I was a man sleeping with men, I maintained heterosexual relationships because I believed I’d one day get married to a

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Scientists may have discovered why boys with older brothers are more likely to be gay

Scientists may have discovered why the more older brothers a boy has, the likelier he is to be gay as an adult. Known as the “fraternal birth order effect”, numerous