Tag "Gay Relationship"

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DO NOT BE “THE OTHER MAN”

In my lifetime, guys who are already in relationships coming on to me has become a thing. Lately, I met ruggedly handsome Paul on Grindr (I’d later come to know

Fiction 13 Comments

Ulterior Motive

I honestly didn’t know why my ex-boyfriend Cadric was hitting my phone up all day that day. He didn’t text me or hit me up on any of my social

From The Net 13 Comments

The Piece About Domestic Abuse In A Gay Relationship And The Victim’s Denial

[This piece was originally published on Gay Star News] * In my teens, I had a pretty clear idea of what domestic abuse looked like. I had seen enough movies,

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THE LIE THAT IS “I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP”

As a corps member serving in Abuja, not much had changed in my life, compared to the introverted life I led in Lagos. My interactions with the gay community didn’t

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The Lie Of “I Love You”

You know what I don’t understand? Guys who are such pathological liars, they lie even when they don’t have to. How is it that you know someone, you both hook

Series (Non-Fiction) 7 Comments

Waka Pass Diaries (Friend With Benefits)

August 11 There’s this friend of mine who has a Friend-With-Benefits relationship with me. The sex is really good. But that has been all we have. Really good sex. Plus

Editor's Desk 2 Comments

Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 6)

[Click here for LESSON 5] LESSON 6 From the chapter, ‘If You Want Lesbian, Go To Room 24’, RD says: “It has to be an agreement between both of us,

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QUESTIONING THE JOURNEY OF GAY RELATIONSHIPS

I recently tweeted something about me that sparked some dissention from among a few people. I said I wasn’t anti-gay relationships, but that I was just “questioning” (as my very

Opinion Pieces 15 Comments

10 Reasons Why Your Relationships Don’t Last Longer Than 3 Months

Three months of dating a guy may not seem like a long time, but for some of us, it’s the longest relationship we’ve ever had. So if you find yourself

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THE LOVE OF THE BISEXUAL MAN

After reading Slim’s post on Sunday, something struck me, and I’d love to share my experience with you guys. In my first year in the university, I fell in love