Tag "Kito Story"

Our Stories 10 Comments

THE PARANOIA IS REAL

One of the things you get as the person in charge of Kito Diaries’ editorials or the person behind the social media accounts of Kito Diaries is you become the

Our Stories 5 Comments

A Grindr Conversation

If it smells like a pig, chances are it probably is a pig. Due to the nationwide understanding that kito is bad, KDians have taken to flooding the Kito Diaries

Kito Stories 26 Comments

WOMAN, BEWARE OF MEN IN FEMALE CLOTHING

I’d just moved to Lagos and I was ready to explore the city in all the ways I could. It was my second time staying alone (NYSC was the first)

Kito Stories 79 Comments

The Face of the Man You should never leave alone in your home

He goes by the name Noaghan Joe on Facebook. He had a sexual friends-with-benefits relationship with the victim. They had gotten to that level of their friendship where the victim

Kito Stories 43 Comments

MARK AND ME

I used to think very lowly of gay Nigerians who recounted kito experiences they’ve been through because I thought these people were stupid and too desperate for sex, and for

The Happenings 2 Comments

Ghanaian police arrest blackmailers who used Grindr to target gay men

In an unexpected move, police in Ghana have arrested two men who targeted gay men they found on Grindr. The men, Torsu Stephen, 23, and Aikins Atitsogbe, 21, were arrested

Kito Stories 45 Comments

HIS KITO STORY (EDITION 25)

An idle mind, they say, is the devil’s workshop. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I had just completed my service year and was waiting for admission for my

Series (Non-Fiction) 18 Comments

K’osidim n’obi (Entry 5)

So a few months ago (this would be the period immediately after I was outed to mum), I got a call from an aunt of mine. I hadn’t heard from

Series (Non-Fiction) 61 Comments

RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 60)

Every now and then, I hear gut-wrenching stories of people who run into trouble simply because they were trying to hook up with someone they met online, probably for a

Kito Stories 61 Comments

THE DAY I DODGED A BULLET

I dodged a bullet. That is the one line that aptly describes this kito story of mine. Was it even potentially a kito story? I don’t know. You decide. The