Tag "Paranoia"

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LIVE TO DIE ANOTHER DAY

The night before, during a routine profile perusal on Grindr, I was the one who messaged him first. I don’t usually do this; I’m usually the one who responds to

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Dear KD: Am I Being Too Paranoid?

There is someone I follow on Instagram. We actually follow each other. There’s nothing else to our online acquaintanceship though. We just like each other’s pictures, drop the occasional comment,

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A Boy And The Bouncer

Let me tell you people a short story. There was a Saturday a couple of months ago, during which I attended a book club meet. This book club is a

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THE PARANOIA IS REAL

One of the things you get as the person in charge of Kito Diaries’ editorials or the person behind the social media accounts of Kito Diaries is you become the

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NIGERIAN WHILE GAY

Yesterday, I went out with a friend. We had hot dogs and soft drinks. Talked. All the while, this fine brother pranced about. He’d leave his post, checking people’s tickets,

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JUST NEGODU!

So, I’d been chatting on and off with this man on Badoo for close to two years and we had never met. The reason or this was that anytime he

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RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 28)

A while back, I met the perfect guy. He said all the right things, did all the right things – he basically ticked off all the boxes on my checklist.