Tag "Top and Bottom"

Series (Non-Fiction) 9 Comments

The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 6)

A friend of mine once said that all Tops should bottom at least once, so that they would have more consideration and express more sensitivity for what Bottoms have to

The Happenings 5 Comments

Masculine Black Man has a problem. He is an ‘extremely masc bottom’

Stereotypes ruin the party again. One guy says he has a problem keeping men’s attention as a black, “extremely masc” bottom because he doesn’t conform to perceptions of what bottoms

Opinion Pieces 3 Comments

It Is Not Only Possible But Common For A Gay Man To Not Like Anal Sex

Anal sex has become conflated with the male gay or bisexual experience — so much so that the top-vs-bottom question is often the first talking point in Grindr chats. So

Our Stories 4 Comments

Bottoms Have Dicks Too

I’m in this Facebook gay group that I am considering leaving because of all the community, internal prejudice that simmers in there. Considering the fact that the group is filled

From The Net 8 Comments

When ‘Top or Bottom?’ Sabotages Sex And Makes Romance Irrelevant

My name is Jeremy, and I’m a…Well, I’m not exactly a Top, although if things go there, that’s where you’ll find me. And I’m not a Bottom, but only because

Our Stories 9 Comments

DEAR TOP (aka The Ranting Of A Much Aggrieved Bottom)

Dear Top – yes, you, Mister Man I will begin by saying two things. First, you’re really not that good in bed. Second, your dick isn’t even that big. Trust

Opinion Pieces 4 Comments

The Piece That Talks About ‘Top Privilege’

Stop bottom shaming and placing tops on pedestals, says Rembrandt Duran. There has been a long-time understanding between ‘The Gays’ (the male gay community, that is) that we are divided

Our Stories 10 Comments

A GAY MAN IS A MAN

So I was out with these guys. One of them was something I call a non-homophobic non ally. That is, he is not hateful towards the LGBT but is mostly

Our Stories 14 Comments

LOVE AND THE THINGS WE DO IN THE BEDROOM

Sometime in 2015, I lost the love of my life. No, he didn’t die. We broke up. We had started dating late in 2014, and for the first time, I

Our Stories 27 Comments

THE CONUNDRUM OF TOPS AND BOTTOMS: THE AGE FACTOR

As a knowledgeable person, I feel like there’s very little that can get me confused or unsure of my own mind or the rightness of my decisions. Now, throughout my