Tag "top and bottom"

Editor's Desk 8 Comments

When ‘Top or Bottom?’ Sabotages Sex And Makes Romance Irrelevant

My name is Jeremy, and I’m a…Well, I’m not exactly a Top, although if things go there, that’s where you’ll find me. And I’m not a Bottom, but only because

Our Stories 8 Comments

DEAR TOP (aka The Ranting Of A Much Aggrieved Bottom)

Dear Top – yes, you, Mister Man I will begin by saying two things. First, you’re really not that good in bed. Second, your dick isn’t even that big. Trust

Editor's Desk 4 Comments

The Piece That Talks About ‘Top Privilege’

Stop bottom shaming and placing tops on pedestals, says Rembrandt Duran. There has been a long-time understanding between ‘The Gays’ (the male gay community, that is) that we are divided

Our Stories 10 Comments

A GAY MAN IS A MAN

So I was out with these guys. One of them was something I call a non-homophobic non ally. That is, he is not hateful towards the LGBT but is mostly

Our Stories 14 Comments

LOVE AND THE THINGS WE DO IN THE BEDROOM

Sometime in 2015, I lost the love of my life. No, he didn’t die. We broke up. We had started dating late in 2014, and for the first time, I

Our Stories 27 Comments

THE CONUNDRUM OF TOPS AND BOTTOMS: THE AGE FACTOR

As a knowledgeable person, I feel like there’s very little that can get me confused or unsure of my own mind or the rightness of my decisions. Now, throughout my

Gallery 21 Comments

Photo: A Real Top Speaks

Let’s give a round of applause to the gay man who sees the world of gay dating through heteronormative lens.

Series (Non-Fiction) 15 Comments

The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 1)

So the first entry for this new series is an update made in the Facebook group I belong. It goes thus: This guy said out of obvious vexation, “The lube

The Happenings 5 Comments

Gay Man Says He Had The Most Intense Sexual Experience Of His Life When He Bottomed For The First Time

Some gay men insist on being strictly top or strictly bottom – but what if you’re missing out on something? That’s what happened to this guy on Reddit, who decided

The Happenings 17 Comments

Gay Man Claims His Boyfriend Started Acting Weird After He Bottomed For The First Time

Some gay men insist on being strictly top or bottom, while others are versatile. Some say it’s good to try different things out – but when this guy on Reddit