Tag "top and bottom"

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A GAY MAN IS A MAN

So I was out with these guys. One of them was something I call a non-homophobic non ally. That is, he is not hateful towards the LGBT but is mostly

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LOVE AND THE THINGS WE DO IN THE BEDROOM

Sometime in 2015, I lost the love of my life. No, he didn’t die. We broke up. We had started dating late in 2014, and for the first time, I

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THE CONUNDRUM OF TOPS AND BOTTOMS: THE AGE FACTOR

As a knowledgeable person, I feel like there’s very little that can get me confused or unsure of my own mind or the rightness of my decisions. Now, throughout my

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Photo: A Real Top Speaks

Let’s give a round of applause to the gay man who sees the world of gay dating through heteronormative lens.

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The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 1)

So the first entry for this new series is an update made in the Facebook group I belong. It goes thus: This guy said out of obvious vexation, “The lube

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Gay Man Says He Had The Most Intense Sexual Experience Of His Life When He Bottomed For The First Time

Some gay men insist on being strictly top or strictly bottom – but what if you’re missing out on something? That’s what happened to this guy on Reddit, who decided

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Gay Man Claims His Boyfriend Started Acting Weird After He Bottomed For The First Time

Some gay men insist on being strictly top or bottom, while others are versatile. Some say it’s good to try different things out – but when this guy on Reddit

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Ten Things Tops Wish Bottoms Knew About Good Sex

I happened upon this post on agaytekeeperiam.blogspot.com.ng and I simply had to share. I honestly do not know how to feel about this. But hey, let us know your thoughts

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Oh Good. Apparently Science Can Help You Tell Whether A Dude Is A Top Or A Bottom

Can you tell if a guy is a top or a bottom just by looking at him? A new article by Brian Moylan at Vice aims to find the answer