66 responses

  1. DI-NAVY
    May 31, 2016

    Some guys, you only exist when you’re being used! You really paid him back in his own coin for being travis! Just look @ his rage for saying all fags are same. That’s a kettle calling a pot black. Smh!!! For you to even chat him on grindr basically means you’re hung.lol. For the fact he lied abt his role is unforgiveable. Lol. Nice piece! How come u even kept me in suspene like this duke! Ehn nwa nke a??????

    Reply

  2. Kenny
    May 31, 2016

    But Duke you have time o. You could have simply read the handwriting on the wall and moved on. You probably felt something for him cos I don’t understand all the rage you were feeling because of a casual somebody.

    Reply

    • Santa Diaba
      May 31, 2016

      It’s a pride/self worth issue. He didn’t catch feelings. Nobody likes to be played and he just exacted a deliciously petty payback! ???

      Reply

      • Pink Panther
        May 31, 2016

        LOL @ deliciously petty payback. Very delicious indeed.

        Reply

      • Kenny
        May 31, 2016

        Walking away without creating a fuss also shows you know your worth. Not everything has to end with drama and petty comebacks.

        Reply

      • Terra
        May 31, 2016

        Sometimes these people need to be taught a lesson. He screwed with Isaiah, made him miss an appointment (allegedly) with little cost to himself.

        Reply

  3. pagxy
    May 31, 2016

    Chai!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply

  4. Mandy
    May 31, 2016

    If you were less paranoid enough to allow for meeting other people, as long as you didn’t catch feelings for Isaiah, he wouldn’t assume this much importance to you. The presence of other choices, knowing you can get it elsewhere, helps soften the impact of rejection.

    Reply

  5. KingBey
    May 31, 2016

    The old lie all Nigerians say. I’m strict Top. Then along the line, they get down for one reason or the other. Like I always said “One man’s Top is another man’s Bottom”
    When a Nigerian guy sees someone he doesn’t really dig, he turns Strict Top….but story changes when he sees his Night in shining armor. Legs go up and Hymns and songs of Solomon will start flowing. Abegi. Lol ……Top ko Active ni. ???

    Reply

    • Kenny
      May 31, 2016

      This cracked me up ???

      Reply

    • Pink Panther
      May 31, 2016

      So Tops only fuck guys they don’t really like, but Bottoms only submit in bed because it’s a knight in shining armor?
      Does this logic not sound ridiculous to you?

      Reply

      • KingBey
        May 31, 2016

        I’m not doing this with you again today. I know you never believed there’s any Top who can take a dick comfortably depending on the situation/condition. Sexual roles is a fluid and it keeps flowing/changing. Anyone saying or believing it’s static, darris your consine.

        Reply

      • Pink Panther
        May 31, 2016

        My dear, this is an excuse for you to rationalize your versatility to yourself. You are top but you want to explain away your bottom yearnings. So you’ve convinced yourself every Top must be a Bottom too.
        Well, keep telling yourself that.
        The fact remains that in spite of people lying about their roles upandan, there are tops and there bottoms. Simple.

        Reply

      • KingBey
        May 31, 2016

        Stop giving me names biko. In short, I’m no longer into anal sex….just gimme a massage, a good kiss and we cuddle to sleep. So much trouble. Whew !

        Reply

    • Chizzie
      May 31, 2016

      Speak for your self and your reflection Aunty

      Reply

  6. Ringlana
    May 31, 2016

    You are mad b/cus he lied abut his role? Oga you are powerful bottom but you don’t want to give… Since you paid back by being Travis my advice to you is get plentiful of them should in case this goes south..then move to the next paddy.??

    Reply

    • KingBey
      May 31, 2016

      Are we not all powerful bottoms? With conditions ooooo. *signs out before PP catches me*

      Reply

  7. KingBey
    May 31, 2016

    Then you have this other annoying set of Versatiles who can’t fuck. He says he’s Verse but you give him punani during Ibongi session to chop, his dick won’t go up again. Thereby falling the hopes of the other Verse guy. This is why real Verse guys are now seen as Bottoms thereby making everyone to be “Active Tops”…..*sigh* It’s all complicated just because we keep lying to ourselves. Top, Verse, Verse Top, Active Top, Strong Top, Tough Top, Bottom, Power Bottom, Versatile Bottom….what does this one even mean sef? *sighs again* Biko, lemme join DM and become a sexual butterfly. Ike gwuru

    Reply

    • Pink Panther
      May 31, 2016

      Heheheee. Someone has had a very healthy sexual history. Would u like to tell us more of your top/bottom experiences?

      Reply

      • KingBey
        May 31, 2016

        Goan and rest ooooooo. Story whore. Share wetin? Wetin I wan talk for here wey una never hear?

        Reply

    • ambivalentone
      May 31, 2016

      At this rate, I will be on the look-out for star-shaped arseholes to confirm someone’s role. Such skepticism.
      Though I really don’t know why ppl can’t just be truthful about their roles. Haba! If one pussy closes to ur dick, another will open up for you one day na. Just stressing ppl upandan

      Reply

  8. INDIGENE.
    May 31, 2016

    . but story changes when he
    sees his Night in shining armor .
    Legs go up and Hymns and songs
    of Solomon will start flowing. Abegi.
    Lol …… Top ko Active ni.

    That ghot me! Chai!… lwkm

    Reply

  9. INDIGENE.
    May 31, 2016

    Give us gist jhoor…

    Reply

  10. Chizzie
    May 31, 2016

    Duke dear, I honestly do not understand why you would go to obodo oyibo and be fraternizing with Nigerian men. Tufia! Thats the last thing I will do when I go to the abroad. The vast majority Nigerian men clearly have their issues, it’s in their blood. They’ll leave you paranoid, feeling rejected and have you contemplating abt the most petty and diabolic of things, which is very much what your alter ego Travis has become.

    Pls look for a nice non-Nigerian, preferably a Caucasian. And flee from these Nigerian nuisances.

    Reply

    • KingBey
      May 31, 2016

      And you think Caucasians are the perfect gay men? Honey you will be shocked. Some of us love dark chocolates no matter our location. We seek for it…..and yes, Nigerian men have a very unique and tasteful sweetness that comes with all their wahala and trouble. Who goes to Obodo Oyibo and be fucking white man? Ewww. Ndiaa na ato mmiri mmiri. Anyways, you won’t get it. You’re still in Nigeria. So I will save my saliva.

      Reply

      • DI-NAVY
        May 31, 2016

        50 shades of shades!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmaodi *Nigerian men have a very unique and tasteful sweetness that comes with all their wahala and trouble.*

        Reply

      • Shuga chocolata
        May 31, 2016

        @kingbey, who told you the white tastes like water??????

        Well to me they don’t. Everyone with his/her preference.

        @duke like you, please don’t move on be vindictive enough nonsense and ingredients.

        Reply

    • Pink Panther
      May 31, 2016

      Lol. Chizzie, you’re such a racist. 🙂

      Reply

      • Griffin
        May 31, 2016

        As in ehn!!!!!

        Reply

    • Delle
      May 31, 2016

      On the contrary Chizzie, from his first story (second entry), he said he didn’t know the guy was going to be a Nigerian. He definitely wasn’t seeking for a Nigerian affiliate, it just happened.
      You make it seem like Nigerian guys are horrible. Lol. Such patriotism.
      #ilovemynaijaguys

      Reply

    • Duke
      May 31, 2016

      Honey, this series is still expanding. I have had my share of Caucasian men

      Reply

      • Chizzie
        May 31, 2016

        Yes good. That’s the way. *hugs and holds you tight *

        Reply

  11. Too clean
    May 31, 2016

    My friend,my friend…i never knew he went that far with you ooo..

    Anyway,I trust you handled it very well

    Reply

  12. Griffin
    May 31, 2016

    I cannot laugh Biko, una will not kill me this afternoon abeg. Just glad that all this role drama no dey this country where I dey oooo, this guys will either bottom for you because they like you or outta sheer curiosity, which sometimes honestly makes me feel like a piece of meat, or experimental dildo. And if you guys thought Nigerians are slutty, then you haven’t met Indian men.

    Reply

    • KingBey
      May 31, 2016

      You fuck with Indian people? Lawd ! *pukes all over Kito Diaries* ???

      Reply

      • Shuga chocolata
        May 31, 2016

        Calm down kingbey, he hasn’t affirmed that he had slept with Indians.

        Reply

      • Delle
        May 31, 2016

        And what’s so nauseating if he does sleep with Indians? For all I know, their men are sexier than most out there.
        Besides, he said, ” Just glad that all this role drama no dey this country where I dey oooo…”
        Now, isn’t there a teeny-weeny possibility that he lives there? What is he to do then?
        *smirks*

        Reply

      • posh6666
        May 31, 2016

        Indians bawo?super eww *pukes more*

        Reply

    • DI-NAVY
      May 31, 2016

      Everyone is slutty. Some are dominant while some leave their sluttiness to be recsessive but some people’s degree of sluttiness is alarming like one turkish man who came hitting on me in a garden, an open space, in NIGERIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*cringes*

      Reply

      • Wayfaring Stranger
        June 3, 2016

        Because despite all your muscles, you’re still girly.

        Reply

  13. Peak
    May 31, 2016

    I think we need to kill these misconceptions about role dramas being peculiar with Nigerian men only. In recent months, I have been acquainting myself with a number of gay reality web series and Vlogs. To my surprise, the same challenges we face here is equally being faced there, but to a smaller scale.

    Reply

    • DI-NAVY
      May 31, 2016

      It’s everywhere honey. Everybody want to feel superior. some even add “Strictly and Active’ clause to the word “Top”

      Reply

      • Peak
        May 31, 2016

        True! But the real question is, how come its never a problem when a brother adds an adjective to his bottom(ing) preference/capabilities(e.g strict, dominant, power bottom e.t.c), but a lot of dust is raised when a Top does the same?

        Reply

      • Keredim
        May 31, 2016

        Now that is a million dollar question. Could be insecurity or lack of exposure.

        Maybe those who “raise dust” are a bit insecure with their own prefered (bottom) position. They feel its a “female” role and you know how society subjugate females. So they feel the need to lash out and make a political statement and the slightest mention of “Top”, forgetting its only sex.

        If people were more exposed, they would realise its just a fucking role. (No pun intended). Its a role you are comfortable with and should have no hang ups about it…Own it!!!

        BTW @Peak, stellar job on Sunday. I honestly couldn’t have done it better. You dealt with the situation with grace and class, and at such personal sacrifice, which hand on heart, I wouldn’t have been able to do. ????????

        When i start taking growth hormones and start reversing the ageing process, I wanna be just like you???

        Reply

  14. Khaleesi
    May 31, 2016

    Nice piece Duke, I like how you totally riled the jerk up! now be classy and drop his pathetic ass like a used tampon … kick him outta your life and move on, there are other men out there …

    Reply

  15. Delle
    May 31, 2016

    Okay, no tee, no shade but I have some things to say:
    Firstly, “No, I wasn’t in love with him; the thought of being in love or in a relationship makes me nauseous. I just wanted to hear him say it, tell me it was no longer going to happen between us.”

    This statement confused me to hell and back. I don’t get what it is you want him to clarify since you already said being in love makes u nauseous. The one-man fuck buddy thingy?

    The Grindr deleting part was actually extreme and something one would do when he’s out of a once progressive relationship. But, oh well.

    Knowing he’s ‘strictly top’ (at least that’s what he told you), you shouldn’t be surprised things turned out the way they did seeing as you’re top also.

    He’s obviously a lying humongous pile of rat droppings telling you he’s top and then claiming to be versatile someplace else. You going to see him even after all of these, well Konji they say is a bitch.

    Nice entry all the same, Duke.

    Reply

  16. Jon Snow
    May 31, 2016

    this cracked me up ??????

    Reply

  17. chuck
    May 31, 2016

    You can’t make a liar acknowledge that he lied. Look at Peak on Sunday. He kept insisting he hadn’t defended Cheaters even though that was what his reply to Delle was about.

    He’s yet to even reply after calling me all sorts of names. Thank God the evidence was there to see

    Reply

    • Peak
      May 31, 2016

      Chuck. To be perfectly honest with you, it is still mind boggling that a simple question like “how many of the marriages you know, have this (100%) “honesty and sincerity” you speak of?”, translates to advocacy for “cheaters”. A simple and direct response to the idea that Delle was trying to put forward that marriage is built on honesty and sincerity hence the “100%” reference.

      I beg of you, I am in no shape or form to draw out issues with you today. It’s one thing not 2 understand a statement and ask for explanations, it’s another thing altogether to twist it into an ugly tale to fit what ever agenda you have in mind. That my friend, I won’t allow.

      Reply

      • chuck
        May 31, 2016

        You are an advocate for cheaters when your answer to a comment about being faithful to one’s wife is to ask about 100% honesty. You’re making an excuse for those who are not faithful.

        I have not twisted your words. They are clear and they speak for themselves.

        When you notice you’re wrong, you start to say you don’t want to draw out issues. You were willing to come for me on Sunday when you thought I didn’t have receipts. Next time know that some of us here will not be distracted by petty insults. We will hold you accountable for your statements, and we will use rational argumentation

        Reply

      • Chuck
        May 31, 2016

        You’re an advocate for cheaters**

        Reply

      • Peak
        May 31, 2016

        You know what Chuck, I was going to let this go, but since you are good at twisting, falsifying and fabrication, I will run through the comment one more time. The only difference between the last time and this time, would be to establish who the true liar and fabricator is.

        Peak
        May 11, 2016
        @ Delle, how many of the marriages you know, have this (100%) “honesty and sincerity” you speak of?
        Reply

        Delle
        May 11, 2016

        No human is 100% honest or sincere lest alone marriages, but the minute you take advantage of that fact, there’s a problem. You shouldn’t go into marriage with the mindset that there’s no total honesty or sincerity, nature takes care of its business. Let it.
        Reply

        Peak
        May 11, 2016
        The 100% part may have sounded like me reaching, until you gave me a footing with “You shouldn’t go into marriage with the mindset that there’s no total honesty or sincerity, nature takes care of its business. Let it.”
        So I ask, is there such a thing as TOTAL honesty and sincerity in marriage? If you there is none, then I digress.
        ****************************

        Since you are struggling to comprehend the discuss between Delle and I, please pay attention to his reply. It was based on us as “human” and our inability to be 100% at anything and neither can a marriage. He went on to warn on the dangers of taking advantage of our inability to meet up with the 100% benchmark in our dealings, cos nature is bound to step in and run its course.

        If the above explanation proves too much for you to handle, well allow me to refresh ur memory with a civil exchange between yourself (or someone posing as you) and I.

        Peak
        May 11, 2016
        @ Chuck, Please I want to be cleared on this and be certain I am getting you right.
        Are you saying you would be cool with a gay man marrying a woman, so long as he doesn’t step out on his wife? Because that is what I am getting form this “If lying and cheating are what’s best for you please say so.”
        2ndly, how come we overlook cheating when it is being perpetuated by straight folks but cry wolf when a gay man or woman is involved. Mind you, I am not endorsing any form of cheating, I just want clarifications.
        Reply

        Max 10
        May 11, 2016
        I’m not part of the “we” that look away when straight folks are cheating.
        Reply

        chuck
        May 11, 2016
        1) yes, I trust those who decide, for relious reasons eyc, that being gay is wrong, give it up and go marry women more thanI trust/ respect those who marry women as cover for fucking students upandan
        2) I have never condoned straight cheating and I don’t condone MGM sex outside of marriage.
        Reply

        ***********************
        The above shows a thread where I addressed you like I always do, in an attempt to dialogue and understand ur stand on issues and reasons behind it (which I have been regretting since Sunday) where I explicitly stated “Mind you, I am not endorsing any form of cheating, ” . Same post as the one you provided a like to on Sunday. Shockingly, you missed that part or suffered a loss of memory around the part where you answered my question.

        Answer me this question Chuck, are you that desperate to forward ur agenda of doom and false realities that you would go as far as attempt to taint the name and image of people who don’t agree with you? Not only did you resort to pervertion and distortion of what I said,, you labelled me a liar. At this point, I am forced to draw up 2 conclusions. You either suffer from memory loss or selective memory (cos that’s the only way 2 explain u not remembering me asking you a question, with me saying I dont endorse cheating to which to supplied answers to) or you are nothing short of a pathological liar, a master of prevarication, a fabricator of the 1st order, a shameless false accuser, a peddler of deceit, a director of chaos and promoter of doom/gloom.

        Away with you and your treacherous ways!

        The nerve to call on God in hope that you acheived something great only to go on a smear campaign about his entity tomorrow. Since when did you start acknowledging God?. You have succeeded in making a fool of urself on KD. Clap 4 urself you hear?

        Reply

      • posh6666
        May 31, 2016

        Lool peak milk I like your name o

        Reply

      • keredim
        May 31, 2016

        @Chuck, I read the “transcript” again and all Peak was asking Delle (in context of the thread) was “How many people go into marriages declaring their past sexual encounters”

        He was by no stretch of the vivid imagination condoning unfaithfulness in marriage.

        Could it be possible that your inherent dislike for MGMs is clouding your rather astute sense of reasoning?

        And should an MGM be required to declare his past liaisons before getting married to a woman any more than a straight man is?

        Reply

      • Pink Panther
        May 31, 2016

        ‘Could it be…’? You’re asking ‘could it be’ when it’s evident that on the subject, Chuck sees nothing else but black and white.

        Reply

      • Chuck
        May 31, 2016

        Delle said:
        Somethings are better left unsaid?! What happened to honesty and sincerity in marriage? And you honestly, honestly think you’re going to be faithful to her all through marriage cos I don’t see how marriage kills that gay part of you. Smh

        He’s connecting honesty and faithfulness. Then Peak comes in to say 100% honesty is impossible. My conclusion is that Peak argues there that we should not condemn dishonesty or it’s corollary, cheating, since 100% honesty and sincerity cannot be achieved. In the second thread he brought up, even with the ” I don’t condone cheating disclaimer”, he is concerned with not condemning gay cheaters because straight cheaters go scot free.

        Peak:
        ” how come we overlook cheating when it is being perpetuated by straight folks but cry wolf when a gay man or woman is involved.”

        That is a defence of cheaters. The ” I don’t condone cheating” addendum is this argument’s version of “I’m not gay, I just fuck my bros/ friends”

        Reply

      • Peak
        May 31, 2016

        Wow! Look at you, flexing ur smart muscles.

        I wonder what spin you have for a comment I made earlier, which had the same scenario but on a different subject …”how come its never a problem when a brother adds an adjective to his bottom(ing) preference/capabilities(e.g strict, dominant, power bottom e.t.c), but a lot of dust is raised when a Top does the same?”…

        I helplessly await ur answer o’wise one.

        Reply

      • keredim
        May 31, 2016

        I don’t think its right not to take into account what was said by Khaleesi and “You-Know-Who” (and we do KNOW who) into account BEFORE Delle’s comment.

        From reading the comments before Delle’s own I find him linking Honesty and Faithfulness, IN THIS CONTEXT, irrelevant.

        Delle is asking for a Total disclosure (of past sexual encounters) before going into Marriage. C’est ne pas possible.

        “…Then Peak comes in to say 100% honesty is impossible….”
        Let me ask you this? Say you fell in love with a guy and you knew within your heart of hearts that you will be faithful to him and vice- versa. Would you sit down with him and list every single person you have slept with before embarking on the relationship?

        You say
        “Peak:
        ” how come we overlook cheating when it is being perpetuated by straight folks but cry wolf when a gay man or woman is involved”…….

        That is a defence of cheaters.”

        No it is not a defence of cheaters. It is highlighting double standards

        Reply

      • Chuck
        May 31, 2016

        Well, since Peak was responding to Delle, who mentioned cheating, I don’t think Delle’s comment on cheating is irrelevant.

        I’m not litigating disclosure of partners. Thjis discussion grew out of Peak attacking me for condemning cheating, and my response that he was defending/ making excuses for cheating. I think tolerating dishonesty is a defence of cheating since the two are linked.

        Why bring up double standards in the treatment of straight cheaters when we are a gay blog discussing gay cheaters? In any case cheating is wrong whether gay, straight, bi, lesbian or transgender

        Reply

      • Peak
        May 31, 2016

        “Why bring up double standards in the treatment of straight cheaters when we are a gay blog discussing gay cheaters?”

        Well forgive me, I didn’t get the memo that says LGBT people are inferior breeds, hence the need to have a separate standard for measuring interactions among them. So what you are saying is that cos it a gay blog, we have no business bring heteronormatives into the discuss? Pray tell waht is all the noise for equality? If equality is eventually achieved, what “standard” would we be accountable to?

        It’s not a case of a blog. We all don’t exist in a blog. We exist within a space called society. We share the same territory, sovereignty and bound by the same law. How come when discussing issues that have general coverage and effect, we conveniently slice the straight population out of it all in the name of being “a gay blog”. What you are doing is giving a half baked report of existing situation. The major problem you have is that you have a habit of using (ur) particularized view in analysing issues that are general in nature.

        Don’t let me stop you though, keep grasping at straws, keep jumping from one irrelevant subject to another in hopes to find something to latch on to.

        Reply

      • Keredim
        May 31, 2016

        @Chuck, I beg what Peak said x 2

        I am tired.
        ????

        Reply

      • chuck
        May 31, 2016

        Sure. You’re tired too. Yet you jumped on this to defend your friend.

        I don’t condone cheating in any situation. We were here discussing whether cheating was wrong and you brought up double standards with straight men, to derail the discussion on married gay men.

        Reply

      • keredim
        May 31, 2016

        Ok, thank you.

        Don’t forget to switch off the lights

        Good Night.

        ??????

        Reply

  18. Brian Collins
    May 31, 2016

    I see no body saw the “I was hard” part of the ending of this story.
    Uncle Kere, see how small complement turned to another thing on this post.

    Reply

    • Keredim
      May 31, 2016

      ????
      What compliment?

      Reply

  19. Xavier
    May 31, 2016

    Kai. All these long essays. Lol

    Reply

Leave a Reply

 

 

 

Back to top
mobile desktop