43 responses

  1. Mandy
    July 20, 2016

    Okay, this is all shades of weird. A possessive straight non-lover? Tsk tsk.

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  2. Shuga chocolata
    July 20, 2016

    QBF
    I understand the struggle.

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    • Pink Panther
      July 20, 2016

      What’s QBF biko?

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      • Francis
        July 20, 2016

        Queer Best Friend?

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      • Pink Panther
        July 20, 2016

        I initially thought so, but then the guy is not a queer best friend.
        But hey, Chocolata has clarified. lol

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      • Shuga chocolata
        July 20, 2016

        Queen blue fox

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  3. Francis
    July 20, 2016

    Well I was quite jealous when guys would hang around this girl I had a massive crush on in high school. In fact the matter reach obsession sef, as I would find time to causally bump into her after we moved into different classes for senior high. We flowed quite very well.

    He’s probably straight as an arrow but adores you too much…… probably. Hopefully he doesn’t mess things up for you sha.

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    • Shuga chocolata
      July 20, 2016

      Hey there!
      How are you doing????😂😉

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      • Francis
        July 20, 2016

        😂😂😂😂

        Na so hand heavy you reach to type off even Queen BF?

        I’m great man.Good morning. 😄

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      • Shuga chocolata
        July 20, 2016

        The hands no heavy reach oooo, all those many many names, I’m just lazy like that.

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    • Delle
      July 20, 2016

      You crushed on a girl? Hmm

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      • Francis
        July 20, 2016

        Shocking huh? Mysteries of the world. 😂😂

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      • Pink Panther
        July 20, 2016

        An Odiegwu something, aswear.

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  4. johnny
    July 20, 2016

    I like dreamers. This brought my memories of crushing on my music teacher then. Tho I never knew doing that means I am queer, understanding then that love is only between a man n woman. I wanted to be his woman, he really liked me out of all the boys in ma school. Girls always around him, lo n behold he is n married. what can I do? Even if you are gay but I haven’t confirmed, no falling for you. I am now strong taking shits

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  5. JBoy
    July 20, 2016

    QBF, I get the feel, hope you guys meet an equilibrium. I’ve been there, or do I say still there, he gets hard when I come so close to him, or in cuddle, yet says he’s straight. *shakes off the memory* You’ll be fine, QBF; same as I tell myself.

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    • Queen Blue Fox
      July 20, 2016

      Darling how do you deal with it all ABEG?

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  6. Too clean
    July 20, 2016

    This is deep!

    Hope love finds a way out for the both of you,finally!

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  7. IBK
    July 20, 2016

    So much could go wrong and so much could go right with this. He sounds like someone who a) has been straight till he met you b) bi but hasn’t accepted his gay side yet hence making him scared cause ya know, IH.

    Y’all need to have like deep and real talk.. If you haven’t had that already.

    And where do you meet these weird complicated guys QBF uhn?

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    • Queen Blue Fox
      July 20, 2016

      My dear
      They seem to be everywhere around me, I just tire. You see when I say I must have offended Some Olympian Pinky would think I am joking

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  8. Kenny
    July 20, 2016

    What if he doesn’t make an honest woman out of you? You’ll just keep on chasing pavements……. Better go and find a gay man that actually wants to really be with you

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  9. Canis VY Majoris
    July 20, 2016

    So in the simplest form, all that is missing is ‘sex’ right. Coincidentally another article was posted today about a ‘sexless’ happy relationship.

    All the answers you require might be there.

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    • ambivalentone
      July 20, 2016

      loool. I also thot to refer him to the post

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  10. Delle
    July 20, 2016

    I’d advise you don’t pay so much attention to him for now. I’d have said he’s just being that rare straight best friend if I hadn’t seen the ‘he’s-getting-jealous-these-days’ part.

    I have a friend in school (heyy Rapum) whose bestie is actually a straight guy. You know, the kinda guy most gay guys would tear their assholes out to have. However, these two have nothing sexual and yet exude the most pungent sexual aura any two individuals can possibly exude. They cuddle, hug tightly, he’s out to him and they say the gayest stuffs together, yet nothing sexual. Now, that’s some confusing friendship but a very enviable one.
    So I’d say it’s quite normal for a straight guy to be your very good friend, accepting your sexuality and all of that and not feel anything intimate for you. But him getting jealous shows he’s becoming curious. Having had experiences with some straight guys myself, I’d tell you to give him time. Don’t go throwing yourself on him or anything, we’re not encouraging ‘conversion’ biko.

    If I were you, I’d give him some space. Let him long for your presence. Give him time to come around. He’s obviously battling with lots internally and is in a state of absolute confusion. So, let him be for the moment. When he eventually comes around, QBF, you’d know if he’s your Best Friend or your Boy Friend.

    OAN, on an entirely different note, I want to know the details of that threesome biko. I’ve been playing in my head how it went down and it’s been so confusing seeing as he didn’t touch you.

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    • Pink Panther
      July 20, 2016

      Hehehehee. Oh Delle, I so want to know those details too.

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    • Queen Blue Fox
      July 20, 2016

      Hahaha Delle you will have to file an application supported by a 15 paragraph affidavit, deposed to by you. This must be accompanied by a written address which which you shall there after adopt as ur argument in this matter. Do you get my point Now?😁😁😁

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      • Delle
        July 20, 2016

        Lmao. Waka biko! All these protocol for gini? Lemme goan watch porn titled “Threesome with Dormant partner” shekina!

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  11. Cedar
    July 20, 2016

    Maybe he is a late bloomer, just give him space and time. Moreover he told u the space in his heart those gurls are dueling for has been taken by who again? you. That says everything. No “straight” guy would have ladies all around him, leave them and go professing love for another guy. N’uche nkem, he would come around with time.

    And biko, r u among the batch of students at the law school now?

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    • Queen Blue Fox
      July 20, 2016

      Cedar if I told you that I’d have to kill you, but maybe I am. If Pinky permits, you may just find out.

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      • Cedar
        July 21, 2016

        lol, just asking sha, my former roomie is there and I will getting there by next year, insha Allah.

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  12. Jo
    July 20, 2016

    This is…I dunno. But I can relate sha. Some guys are good like that.

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  13. Pjay
    July 20, 2016

    aww beautiful!!! I almost had tears in my eyes. that thing can be frustrating and sweet at the same time ehn! I think you should have the talk. now lemme read d comments.

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  14. bain
    July 20, 2016

    I had a friend like this,we dated the same girl at some point,I came out to him n he was absolutely accepting (which was weird),I was in love with him for over 3 yrs naw,one day we kissed (after begging him),den twas like a gay switch in his head got on (tank God it did),bt naw we are just sorta F.W.B’s.

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    • Brian Collins
      July 20, 2016

      Uhn??? Care to expatiate?

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  15. Fresh
    July 20, 2016

    I’m still suffering the same thing. I’m pretty sure we’ll be alright. But that’s a torment.

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  16. Kainene
    July 20, 2016

    This just proves my theory that sexuality is perhaps the most fluid and complicated concept in existence. That mental barrier built up by years of lecture on society’s views of wrong and right the only thing that keeps us from being able to reach across that boundary is “ourselves” hell I won’t be surprised if you guys end up being together. Take for example the o real relationship I’ve ever had…he is heterosexual. But his breakup speech to me and I quote “bae, for some odd reasons I’ve found my soulmate in you but this just isn’t me…I just can’t be in love with a man its just not right” stories that touch the nyash…He was the cause of his own predicament. So sweetie it issss possible. Just don’t hang onto hope too much. Trust me life is a bitch.

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    • Pjay
      July 20, 2016

      I guess we now know where homophobia stems from. If they allow us, we might actually dominate them. 😂😂😂

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  17. ambivalentone
    July 20, 2016

    Abeg @Queen Blue Fox and @Posh is adultery a crime according to the Nigerian constitution? I just read an annoying news and I need clarification.

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    • Francis
      July 20, 2016

      I ask person and he say na true oh. The thing is that no one really drags the matter to court.

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  18. Mr. Fingers
    July 20, 2016

    My Friend face ur studies. Bar part II no be beans. Goodluck biko.

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  19. wytem
    July 20, 2016

    Adultery is a crime in the north only as per the Penal code.
    The criminal code that applies in th south has no such offense

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    • ambivalentone
      July 20, 2016

      So how does Article (42)1 interprete then if u had read that corper-married woman saga knowing the incidence occured in Abuja AND all parties involved are Igbo

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  20. KingBey
    July 21, 2016

    Too much torture. I had those experiences those days with Stephen. He would sleep over in my home, spend Xmas hols with me, sleep in my arms, get jealous when I talk to other guys, skip his GF for me, and never said NO to any of my request…..but still Straight. SMH. So much energy. Those days……biko no time for that now.

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  21. Maleficent
    July 21, 2016

    Hmmmmm,i cant deal with such mental toture though

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