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  1. Mandy
    October 24, 2017

    This is so heartbreaking. 😥😥 There’s just no imagining the amount of pain and distress these guys have been exposed to.

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  2. trystham
    October 24, 2017

    My fervent wish for them is to leave this country now. Its just too much to bear. I imagine a lot were even shocked to see results of their HIV status. No private grieving.

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  3. Delle
    October 24, 2017

    This is just so sad. For the HIV positive ones, I pray they get immediate treatment. Once again, it’s fact that the way to be in this country is being gay and financially stable.

    Sigh.

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  4. Foxydevil
    October 24, 2017

    At a point we need to start doing more than writing about it and start acting it out.
    Malafund is only 17 but look what she’s done so far ,she is a hero and a legend.
    No one is ready to take the reins.
    All Bisi Alami (the self proclaimed activist of LGTB in Nigeria) does is rant and rant like a deranged psychopath. No one respects him because his rants are usually irrelevant and bereft of actions.
    We sincerely need a true hero in Nigeria, someone who can take actions. Meet up world leaders and fashion out laws that will shape up the society so that the lives of the tiniest of us will be protected.
    Lack of ambition is a luxury we can’t afford .
    We must work towards the presidency, the governorship positions ,the senates and their likes.

    Everyday I come across a facebook post of some “smart-ass ” with a ten paragraph epistle about acceptance and sexuality.
    And I laugh at the pathetic attempt.
    Many people are shifting from the focus, everyone is now trying to sound smarter than the other person .
    In a way, I blame social media that blessed most people with cheap relevance and gave miscreants audience.
    What would have been a real fight put up to foster acceptability ,humane and considerate society is now being sacrificed at the alter of likes and comments.
    We’ve forgotten the main goal, and now most people are speaking because they are in love with the sound of their voices .

    Most people here are kids, that can’t scrap up a dime and have barely made any. They like to rant like a whore about to climax, but when faced with real situations they recline into their protective nest ,barricaded by mummy and daddy.

    I’ve been to the HIV and tuberculosis unit. I’ve given counsel to kids coming to terms with their status ,I take food and blanket to those whose relative have long absconded and when I have money, I even get them treats to help them get by. How many patients have I seen one day and the next day they’re gone, all loses I’ve borne graciously, despite developing genuine affection for them over a certain period of time .That’s why I don’t really take the perception of me most people here have seriously, because no one can define you except yourself and God that sees intent.

    Wouldn’t have said all these but I feel this is necessary to remind us, that we can do more than rant here, cry out at the injustice and then rush to the next story to read about sex. And when we are well rested, we come up with a thirty paragraph article that does absolutely nothing. You get heralded about your open mindedness and after that ,nothing happens.

    This boy is currently homeless, hasn’t eaten for days and mostly likely POS.
    Just saying we can do more than writing about his plight.
    🚶.

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    • pete
      October 24, 2017

      Foxy, you brought up this story yesterday and today it’s on the blog and you still haven’t suggested or initiated a course of action to help. We may not save all but we can try. Suggest something and I promise to to back you.

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      • Pankar
        October 25, 2017

        Who told him people are dormant and doing nothing? This is an anon blog jare

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  5. Kritzmoritz
    October 24, 2017

    Heart broken.
    Utterly heart broken.

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  6. Flakes
    October 24, 2017

    This painfully dumbfounding…. My heart just tore in millions..

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  7. Pankar
    October 25, 2017

    Some women are so incapacitated. You know your ex husband is bullying you and you’ve not sent thugs to cripple him, as a warning

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    • Sauce
      October 25, 2017

      Really ?

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  8. Chizzy
    October 26, 2017

    Please can somebody tell me what Tiers and all those so called NGO’s are doing?
    The truth is that majority are hypocrites.

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    • Gad
      October 26, 2017

      Please learn to always use the right words at the right times. Those NGOs are extortionists, fraudsters, who hide under the guise of fight for equality to attract donations from donors. That’s what they really are.

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