22 responses

  1. Ken
    March 18, 2020

    Hahaha. Wetin Alex ekubo do u?? Lol
    Well I believe most of us have gone thru the bad sex episode and can relate. But people who refuse to kiss or engage in foreplay do that out of their own internalized homophobia. There’s this strange belief that if it’s just sex then it’s ok, as long as feelings and emotions are not involved then u aren’t gay. So they basically see u as an inanimate object just to release sexual tension.

    Either that or the guy isn’t really attracted to u but is just extremely konjified. Lol

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    • Higwe
      March 18, 2020

      Everything you said- 💯

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    • Black Dynasty
      March 18, 2020

      Lol this, exactly this.

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  2. Higwe
    March 18, 2020

    but even if I wasn’t, hell would have to freeze over and Alex Ekubo come out as gay on national television before I would ever agree to go drop my pants for him.

    🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

    Hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha.

    It’s way too early to laugh like this .🤣🤣😂

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  3. Ebube
    March 18, 2020

    I for one avoid kissing when I’m not into the person involved.
    Another important turn off is mouth odor of any sort.
    These 2 points have no ways around it for me.
    Sucking dick nko?, I have a thing for dark skinned guys, so being black, neat and me being into you all at the same time means I could lick you up form head to toe. Anything aside this has to be a big struggle inside my head before I even try it.
    Chemistry determines how sex is gon be for me.

    For the Alex Ekubo part, I don’t understand it, I have tired to, e no gree 🙄🤔🤦‍♂️

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    • Ken
      March 18, 2020

      So no fellatio on account of skin type?? Interesting

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    • Pink Panther
      March 18, 2020

      I don’t understand how y’all can even have sex with someone you’re not into. It’s not my refusal to kiss you that will be my indication that I’m not into you: It’s my refusal to even want to have sex with you. I guess, as a bottom, when I think about the pain of penetrative sex, I want to also have the pleasure. And what pleasure will there be if the person fucking you is someone you’re not into?

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      • Higwe
        March 18, 2020

        I don’t understand how y’all can even have sex with someone you’re not into ..

        Seriously ? 😳

        Do you even live in the real world or some fantasy land?

        So you’ve been into every single person you’ve had sex with ?

        Some people have sex because they need to nut and at the point in time , anything or anyone would do .

        Some others have sex because they were paid .

        Some have sex for favours .

        Some are blackmailed and manipulated into having sex .

        There are millions of reasons why people have sex.
        You’d be surprised how very little attraction or in your words- being into has to do with it.

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      • Pink Panther
        March 18, 2020

        So you question if I live in the real world or some fantasy land for having my own thing regarding attraction and sex…

        And then go on to tell me how different people have different reasons for having sex. Apparently theirs is valid but me not being into having sex with people I’m not attracted to is me not living in the real world.

        OK sure. Got it. Such wisdom, sensei.

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      • Higwe
        March 19, 2020

        You said you don’t understand why people would have sex with people they’re not into .

        Unsurprisingly you don’t see the judgemental undertone in that statement.

        People have sex for a lot of reasons and just because you’re previleged enough to have sex with only those you fancy , doesn’t give you any right to question other people’s reasons.

        Pink Panther – I don’t understand why people have sex with people they’re not into is a very different statement from I have sex with only people I’m into .

        Don’t try to twist the narrative in your usual fashion .
        You knew what necessitated my reply .

        And keep your sarcasm , you’re not very good at it .🙄🚶🏼‍♂️

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      • Pink Panther
        March 19, 2020

        Because my sarcasm is not salted by heavy, high-sounding, oftentimes-meaningless words from the dictionary?
        Yeah, I get why it wouldn’t seem very good to you.
        Boy bye.

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      • Mitch
        March 19, 2020

        Ice Ice baby!

        This one isn’t worth it. Now’s the time to take your own advice: IGNORE!!!

        Alright, boo? 🥰🥰🥰

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  4. Mitch
    March 18, 2020

    Colossus!!!
    Wayayu laidis? 😂😂😂😂😂
    Everything must turn to joke where you is.

    Beht, you really tried.
    Bad sex and you’re asking for another hookup? Amadioha rachakwa gi onu dia. Beyoncé didn’t give us Homecoming and Lemonade for me to put myself through hellish sex. Mbanu!

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  5. Bells
    March 18, 2020

    Bad sex is bad sex period!!!! If I can’t kiss u bcos am not into u then no sex as well. If there’s to be sex then it has to be really Good. So I don’t think he’s not into bcos if he isn’t you, he won’t ask for another hook up after the first

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    • Pink Panther
      March 18, 2020

      True this.

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  6. Dee
    March 18, 2020

    But people who refuse to kiss or engage in foreplay do that out of their own internalized homophobia.

    This statement is not accurate.

    I have had many hook ups .. there are those I’ll kiss without even thinking.. but when you meet someone..you can easily tell its a “get sucked and fuck” situation.
    I have the same approach to rimming…you can tell the cleaniness from just seeing the person (this is not always accurate)

    @PINKY: I don’t understand how y’all can even have sex with someone you’re not into. (I totally understand this… people are wired differently….. ive had hookups where i fucked cos konji no go make man rest….and after i was done..i blocked off the person ….its weird but we’re all unique like that…)

    Overall: its possible its homophobia, but in my case…. ive had hook ups that kissing happened and the sex was still bad anyways lol… (well the kiss started out so bad) and Ive had hookups with boys that are out and ive been on this scene for long and still didnt kiss because kissing wasnt just part of what they were looking for at the time…

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  7. Bliss
    March 18, 2020

    I have been with a guy who doesn’t kiss at all.. But trust me the thrusting and body clinging was Hot. I was the one bottoming, and sometimes i would almost reach orgasm without being touched.

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  8. Bini Boy
    March 18, 2020

    I just can’t see myself having sex without kissing.
    Kissing is like the driving force/propellant for me.

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  9. Sky
    March 18, 2020

    Hmmm
    I thought I was the only one that experienced this no kissing stuff. The first sex I had was without kissing and it was bad as hell(even the thrusting) that I regretted ever having sex that day.
    I began to wonder if it was actually the Christain version of gay sex I just had

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    • Pink Panther
      March 18, 2020

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh god.

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  10. Omo Ochún
    March 18, 2020

    I’m not into penetrative sex so kissing is a vital part of the deal. However, I don’t kiss in every case as I’m also averse to mouth odour.

    But sometime in January, I met this dude — my type of dude (light skinned, tall and beefy) — I’m dark skinned and more attracted to light-skinned/brown versions of myself. While we were heating things up, I wanted to kiss him and the way he quickly turned his face away was as if I had a forked tongue slithering out of my lips.

    He said he doesn’t kiss guys he’s not “emotionally bonded with.” Sorry what? That statement pissed me off. I then remembered he told me during our chat how he hated (and regretted) ever bottoming for a guy and the alarm ticked off in my head: “Internalized Homophobia.”

    My desires waned right there. No need been around self-loathing damaged souls who still beat themselves over the head for kissing another dude. Quickly showed him the door. Literally and metaphorically.

    Then brought in a nice boy the following week and it was a festival of cum.

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  11. Jinchuriki
    March 24, 2020

    ROTFL WOW. Let’s never have this episode again.

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