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Editor's Desk 125 Comments

Let’s Discuss…About Genders And Gay Sex Roles

Tops are men. Bottoms are women. Tops are masculine. Bottoms are effeminate. Tops are dominant. Bottoms are submissive. Tops are strong and steady as a rock. Bottoms are soft and

Our Stories 54 Comments

A Piece Of Me Dies Each Day I’m In A Relationship

He is in his high chair and I’m angry at him for being selfish. I become very anxious with his perceived incorporeality. Rising up inside of me is a piece

Editor's Desk 26 Comments

Photo: My Mother Wants To Buy This For Me

She sent me the picture below on Whatsapp, telling me she’s in a shop and asking if she could buy the pair me for me. I took one look at

Series (Non-Fiction) 80 Comments

What’s On Your Mind… II

Since you asked ever so nicely, I have to admit, I’m surprised I made it again so soon. I never thought I’d be able to put anything down so soon

The Happenings 18 Comments

‘I Want To Own My Story.’ – Bisi Alimi

In December last year, Bisi Alimi joined other global LGBT activists to speak at the New York City public library to mark 2014 Human Rights. His talk titled “My name

The Happenings 30 Comments

Wife Speaks Up After Finding Husband On Grindr

A mother has asked for help on Mumsnet – after catching her husband using a gay hookup app. The user of the parenting forum asked for help after finding her

Our Stories 159 Comments

THAT WARRI GUY

This might sound surreal or unreal. It might read like something that can only happen in the pages of a magazine, something that you’d not expect someone of my age

Our Stories 53 Comments

Daughters, I Will Learn To Teach You…

When I finally decide to blow brazenly into the capacious life of mother – er, fatherhood, synthetically, with a rock and another man’s name, I do not hesitate to say

The Happenings 33 Comments

Porn Star Jarec Wentworth Arrested For Felony Extortion In Undercover FBI Sting

The stereotype that pretty people are dumb is as insensitive as it is untrue. In this case, however, it seems to hold some weight. Jarec Wentworth aka Teofil Brank of

Series (Non-Fiction) 138 Comments

RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 11)

Ben: Dennis baby Me: Excuse me? Ben: Dennis baby Me: Since when did that one start? Ben: Rest please, not like this will be the first time that a man