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James' Journal 29 Comments

IBK’s JOURNAL (Entry 33)

December 7 My cousin knew I am gay long before any of my other family members knew. She is more of a sister than a cousin especially since she grew

Dear KD 15 Comments

Dear KD: I Want An Older Woman To Love

So yeah, from the caption, it is obvious I’m a girl. I’ve this weird craving to be with older women ever since I dated a married woman a while ago.

The Happenings 4 Comments

“We Must Recognise That Our Words Have Power.” Pamela Adie Offers Lessons To Be Learned From The Kevin Hart Oscar Mess | GLAAD Hoped It Would Be A “Teachable Moment”

Following Kevin Hart’s stepdown from being an Oscar host for the 2019 Academy Awards, an incidence that came after homophobic social media postings Hart made nearly a decade ago were

The Happenings 4 Comments

“As A Christian, I Don’t Subscribe To The Gay And Lesbian Life Choice.” Oby Ezekwesili Clarifies

During her session at Chatham House, after getting questioned by LGBT activist Bisi Alimi on the subject of the inclusion of LGBT Nigerians in her government, ACPN presidential candidate Oby

The Happenings 4 Comments

Kevin Hart Steps Down As Oscar Host, Finally Apologizes To LGBTQ Community, After Backlash Over His Oscar Gig

Ever since the Academy Award announced Kevin Hart as the host of the February 2019 ceremony, the internet has been on a persistent outrage over the choice. It’d been a

Our Stories 31 Comments

THE DISCOVERY OF MY BISEXUALITY

“I have never heard about lesbian set-up in this country. All I hear is about gay set-up – gay this, gay that… Seriously, women are more intelligent than men. Most

Editor's Desk 6 Comments

Someone Is On Twitter Acting Like A Crusader Against Straight Men And Impersonating Kito Diaries As Well

The account handle is @naijacatfish and he claims to be on a mission to pay back straight guys for all the crimes they have visited upon the gay community –

The Happenings 2 Comments

Facebook now has a problem with you saying you’re ‘top’ or ‘bottom’ among other things

Facebook certainly doesn’t mind if you’re gay, but a new rule forces users to keep what they do in the bedroom to themselves. Or at least move the conversation to

Kito Stories 12 Comments

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND…FAST (A KITO STORY)

This story happened in 2012. I’d just changed jobs from being a secretary/personal assistant to a barrister in a law firm, to begin working as a volunteer church staff. As

The Happenings 4 Comments

Presidential candidate, Oby Ezekwesili says her government, if she’s president, will respect LGBT rights

Oby Ezekwesili, the presidential candidate of the Allied Congress Party of Nigeria (ACPN), has made some remarks that indicate that every Nigerian, including members of the LGBT community, will be