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IN THE PRIVACY OF THEIR BEDROOM

“…I don’t know why people are homophobic. I mean how does it affect them what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom…?” Yes, this is the statement

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Pedophilia, Femmephobia and Misogyny: A Problematic Gay Man Gets Charged With These And Then Some

Nigerian Gay Twitter generates a lot of drama that we often observe from a distance. But when a consistently problematic member of the community gets exposed for all the ways

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Kito Alert: More On An Identified Catfishing Kito Scum In Asaba

Last month, we posted an update on kito scum in Asaba who uses the pictures of an affluent-looking man to lure in his victims. Back then, all we had was

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THE NEW NORMAL (Rebrand in Progress)

Buzzzzzzz…..buzzzz….click-clack… Stuck again! I tried to stifle a giggle as the barber wrestled his clipper from the jaws of my hair. This was the third time in the last five

Dear KD 4 Comments

The Proposal: I’m A Lesbian Looking For A Gay/Bi Man To Wed

Hello, I’m Bola (not my real name), a 27 year-old Nigerian Lesbian. I am a graduate, currently self employed and living in Lagos. I am under pressure from family on

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BREAKING FREE

Right from a young age, I was effeminate and thought that I wanted to be a girl. I was very expressive in my effeminacy, and in many ways, I think

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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Says Of President Buhari: “He Acts Like Engaging Nigerians Is Beneath Him.”

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has described the government of Muhammadu Buhari as ineffectual and the president as someone who acts as though engaging with Nigerians is beneath him. She wrote this

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KITO ALERT LXIV

An update on two Lagos scum you should never get acquainted with: 1 His name is David Ayeti, and he is on Facebook with the same name. He lives in

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WHAT NOW?

I got to know Iyke through Vincent. Vincent was my friend and they were dating, Vincent and Iyke. And whenever they had any misunderstanding, I was frequently called on to

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Ex-Model Leaon Gordon says Jesus saved him from homosexuality and thinks the Pope doesn’t follow the word of God

It is one thing when someone holds on to their Christian religion to fight their burgeoning homosexuality, and a very curious other thing when the person who has actually lived