30 responses

  1. Valley
    January 18, 2020

    Jezz, this z the saddest thing I have read so far this year, I am so sorry darling that you went through all that,I pray you heal😪😪 am sending you love.

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    • Bernand
      January 18, 2020

      I am so sorry for your harrowing experience dear. I am a lawyer and I know that Rape is a criminal offense which has no exception to it. The Same sex Act does not provide or legalizes correctional rape and it’s merely to prohibit same sex marriages and other union. Rape is a criminal offense and will be a criminal offense regardless of who committed that act against you. Lagos state recently passed a law about violence against Women. It’s probably too late now to commence a criminal case against this culprit as you’ve completely wiped off the evidence needed to prove a case of rape.

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  2. BoyToy
    January 18, 2020

    This is extremely upsetting and I sincerely empathise with you @The Wild One. I can imagine how stunned, speechless and shocked, to say the least, you must have been. Did Blessing happen to exchange pictures with you whilst you both chatted on WhatsApp or Twitter? If yes, then can we have a glimpse of what she looks like? If no, then clearly this an entrapment.

    Try speaking to someone, a shrink or therapist or anyone you trust, to make you feel better. I was moved to tears after reading this harrowing experience.

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  3. Hannibal
    January 18, 2020

    OMG. I don’t know what to say dear. This is very disheartening, an all-time new low for these damaged homophobes. You’ll be OK, hear? I already love the attitude you’ve adopted so far

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  4. Chocolate vibe
    January 18, 2020

    God. This is so disgusting and sad. I don’t even know what to say. I’m sorry that had to happen to you.

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  5. Solo
    January 18, 2020

    I’m seething with rage.

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  6. Mitch
    January 18, 2020

    The part that is turning my head around is the involvement of military personnel. Like how??????
    I’ve heard of the police, that rotten pack of corrupt wolves, being involved in things like this. Not the army. Never the army. Which is why this is beyond astonishing to me. How do we even start to fight when the ones who usually fight on our side are the ones victimising us?

    The Wild One, I’m really sorry that this happened to you. And I hope you move past this and that your year, like you said, still is an awesome one for you. There’s nothing quite as debilitating as being victimised. So, take all the time you need and get all the help you need to heal.

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    • trystham
      January 18, 2020

      I’m not so certain they may have been the military tho. #sigh The one time men in the military should have been actually useful and they are nowhere in sight. If dem catch am, I’m sure he’d av heard and seen from the beatings they’d give him.

      Beyond all that you did after, I really can’t think of anything else that could prevent such happening again or getting justice. I really am sorry you had to go through this.

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      • Mitch
        January 18, 2020

        I feel the same way too.
        But, at the same time, there is something about the alacrity with which they donned those uniforms and proceeded to act like the untouchables military personnel always act like that says they’ve got backup beyond the ordinary. Mayhaps, they are even military personnel.

        Honestly, it’s just saddening!
        All of it.

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      • Pink Panther
        January 18, 2020

        Exactly. I suspect the man isn’t military at all.

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  7. Mandy
    January 18, 2020

    The real saddest part of this entire story is this: “I am not very close to my mother, so I didn’t tell her I was raped as well.”
    This sums up our existence as LGBT people in Nigeria. To go through trauma and not being able to tell those who matter most in our lives because of the fear of their prejudice.
    It’s a really lonely life, I swear.

    I’m truly sorry about what you went through, Wild One. Thankfully you’re not falling apart, but maybe try to talk it out with someone, just in case. It can’t be easy to not only get kitoed but violated the way you were.

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    • ZAEE
      January 18, 2020

      So heart breaking.
      I hope she finds herself again and hope her faith in humanity is not completely destroyed but most of all,I hope she heals.
      We as LGBTQ people will find a voice louder and clearee than ever one day in this country, I believe it!!!

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  8. Higwe
    January 18, 2020

    Ayyyye 😳😳😲

    Nawa ooo …chai !

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  9. Fred
    January 18, 2020

    We keep going through unfathomable evil like this yet people think we are weak?
    Dear Wild One, you are strong and you’ll come out of this stronger than ever.

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  10. Terra
    January 18, 2020

    This fucking sucks because she did nothing wrong. It’s not like she follwes someone to her house. it’s not like she went to one of the well know high risk areas. She wanted to meet in public, the thing that’s supposed to be safe to do, but these animals, these fucking unevolved troglodytes. They keep finding ways to keep us scared. I’m so sorry this happened. Saying “I’m sorry” feels really hollow, but that’s all I can say. One day you will find that woman of your dreams, and you will share this with her, and she will hold you, commiserate with you, kiss you on the forehead and assure you that you will never go through it again, because she will be with you forever, and you will never have to try to meet someone new.

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  11. bamidele
    January 18, 2020

    Wild One,
    I sincerely empathise with you. It is a shame that this keeps happening in our so-called societies. Please take heart. We’re all together in this and we won’t give up until we have won.

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  12. Gay Man
    January 18, 2020

    I am really angry with this criminals. I wish they can get a taste of their desit. This is highly punishable by the law. I cry for my life. I am glad you were not killed. May you find justice to this wicked act. I swear.

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  13. Edah
    January 18, 2020

    Short sad story

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  14. Frankiefire
    January 18, 2020

    So sorry about your ordeal.
    Damn. Thank goodness you don’t chat with abbreviations. I can’t imagine how many of your friends would have been his victim. I am livid.

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  15. Peaches
    January 18, 2020

    How inhumane people have become for the sake of greed and selfish interests. I commiserate with you,Wild one. I hope that man catches his own waterloo and that Blessing too.

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  16. Mister Raj
    January 18, 2020

    Babes, I am really sorry you had to go through all of this alone.
    It’s really traumatic, I hope you recover quickly from it all.

    Sending you love and hugs.

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  17. Peace
    January 18, 2020

    Dear wildone, I’m so sorry for all you went through. Have you seen a therapist? I’ll send two links for free therapy sessions to pink panther, just incase. Sending you all the light, love and warm hugs.

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  18. Sexytoafault
    January 18, 2020

    Oh my God, this was tooo much for me to read and I can’t even imagine how you feel sis. This is draining and damaging and I’m so sorry you went through this

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  19. Rock
    January 18, 2020

    I couldn’t read to the end.
    It’s time for all of us to think up a way to end this rubbish

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  20. Delle
    January 18, 2020

    So I finally read a kito story from a lesbian’s POV and it’s one of the most dastardly. Woah!

    Talk about taking it a notch higher.

    No one deserves this, Wild One. I hope you heal and move past it. You’ll be fine. Please, be.

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  21. Lyanna
    January 18, 2020

    Wasn’t expecting anything like this. I hope you find your healing.

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  22. Dunder
    January 18, 2020

    I was broken by this piece so I can only imagine the horror you have survived. No one deserves this. NO ONE. I am sorry. So very sorry. I don’t know what to say… The people who made this law, so they even know how many people they are hurting and putting in harm’s way? To get what? An election? Another four years of failure?

    I am sorry. Minorities are victimised and then don’t even have anyone to turn to. You don’t want to speak so you are not further punished for living in truth… You take all the steps and try to do things the right way but there would always be a cretin who looks at you and sees sinister opportunity. How else would you explain an old guy who to keep his job and seek relevance, obsesses over a trans woman instead of focusing on cultural dance?

    Please take up the free therapy sessions offered by Peace (thank you, Peace) so you can gain tools to help you cope day to day and rise above that experience.

    I wish you quick and permanent healing.

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  23. Dayve
    January 19, 2020

    So sorry Ma. Wish you speedy recovery. How heartless! When would we learn that consent is key and rape is not cool. It seems like people are not listening to the campaigns and oblivious of what they are doing to others. Maybe I should say that the pharmacy should have pushed you to get PEP which is for a month.

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  24. Astar
    January 19, 2020

    It hurts that I can’t do anything for you but express my outrage. I pray the universe pay this people in hundred folds.

    May you find healing for your soul.
    Don’t allow what they did to you to break your spirit. You will not only survive, you will thrive.

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  25. A3
    February 4, 2020

    This hurts, it’s scary is there a verified platform one can use though

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