This Is What Toxic Masculinity Looks Like
I wonder what his poisoned mind would have to say about gay men and effeminate men.
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16 Comments
Black Dynasty
May 11, 07:01I genuinely feel pity when I see this level of ignorance being spewed.
The man is not comfortable enough in his skin to be himself but seeking validation from other men on what it means to be a man…. whilst not realising the irony.
Whilst reading Brene’s brown book: Daring greatly, a survey (by the American psychologist association) sought to seek qualities of masculinity and hating gay men in particular was one of the characteristics. Basically anything perceived to be weak was on that list. So someone like this man will certainly spew raw hatred of gay men.
Ps if you’re looking for how to live unapologetically, i highly recommend that book & the power of vulnerability…. same author. Audiobook is even better.
J
May 11, 17:00Thanks for the book recommendation, I downloaded a PDF. Hoping to start reading soon ?
Usamah Luck
May 12, 08:21i totally disagree with all of these, I don’t think there is anything wrong with any of these aside for the context placed, there is nothing like toxic masculinity only misguided people.
Mandy
May 11, 07:38I actually feel sorry for him. All these rigid rules on how he is expected to be. Can’t be a fun or interesting way to live. Actually, I feel more sorry for any women who’d marry him and the kids they’d have.
trystham
May 11, 09:21What is a ‘Cinderella voice’ btw? I still think Ariel or Pocahontas is better
Malik
May 13, 05:25? True.
Tobi
May 18, 03:06Yes that’s true
Delle
May 11, 10:08Football brings out rugged masculinity!? ???
Tell that to the many gay men I know that go to viewing centers just to take in full, deep breaths of the pheromones hanging in the air AND to check the ‘bounce’ of those playing. Ruggedness my pert behind! ?
Check his history, he’s most likely a victim of constant bullying owing his one-time soft features, had to ‘toughen’ up and ended up a brick instead.
He’s in my prayers.
Malik
May 13, 05:27Wallahi. Rather than debate his ignorant, idiotic posts, we should just have organized some form of prayer meeting. I’m not sure human beings can help this guy. He seems too far gone.
Higwe
May 11, 11:52Been wondering when someone would explore this angle ???
The Twitter millennials and feminists *
The half assed gay advocate *
Crossdressers *
Funny guy *
Unpaid political analysts *
All hackneyed at this point ….
Finally an uncharted territory ….
Watch as the idiot breeds a fandom of loyal verminous dogs ….that will lap up all his nonsense .
Boom !
Another internet celebrity is born .
Rex
May 11, 12:58This guy is as stupid as they come… I remember a flatmate that constantly harrassed me because of football but pne day I was fed up and I had to put him in his place. The idiot was saying men that dont watchful ball arent men but alas the idiots father doesnt watch football. I cant even stand fools like this. Ewwwwww
Net
May 11, 13:07Haha someone should tell him “real men” don’t spell their names that way
Usamah Luck
May 12, 09:24there is no such thing as toxic masculinity only misguided people
Tobi
May 18, 03:09I’m sorry to say this but there’s indeed a thing called toxic masculinity. Inasmuch as it is proffered by Ignorant Individuals, It still exist and that’s pitiful
MGMHater
May 12, 10:33100mutual friends with the fool. looool. IH
Jinchuriki
May 12, 13:43This one that slid in my dms? Let’s ignore this boy.