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“Telling Nigerians Who Are Out And Proud That They Are Foolish Is Wrong.” – Kayode Ani
Some days ago on Twitter, the writer of the KD column, Dear Straight People, took on an issue that I myself feel strongly about. This tendency to shush out gay
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Tweet of the Day: Vhar’s Rape Survival
In 2017, our very own Vhar (of 890, 1213 and Pure Black Grey fame) penned a heart-wrenching piece about the experience he had getting raped. It was a piece titled
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Rehoboth
June 08, 05:38Before nko? Ir matters a lot.
trystham
June 08, 06:53I’m not sure I am such a sucker for looks. If we connect mentally, my head glosses over physical imperfections…we only might not get into the fuck zone.
Johnny
June 08, 07:11As long as you are complete upstairs and fit in the oza room
Francis
June 08, 07:46Looks definitely matter. The wanted looks just varies from person to person. Na to siddon wait for person wey dey feel your own looks
Black Dynasty
June 08, 07:47I agree that looks matter but to vastly varying levels for each individual and looks are very subjective. I realised I’m a bit weird when my friends point out attractive guys and i personally don’t see it. I no dey mumu because of looks basically.
Now a guy with a decent character, honest, ambitious…. even the ones people say are average looking or less than average… i find those ones hella attractive. For me, looks are the bottom of the priority list of attraction.
Keredim
June 08, 08:45So Jabba the hut walks in and you’re hang out enough with him to be attracted to his “decent character, honesty and ambition…. “
Odiegwu.?
Black Dynasty
June 08, 08:56Lool but Jabba the hut is not human though, no interspecies interests here ☺.
But to what you mean, yes…. it has happened. Attraction for me is more mental and emotional than physical, same applies to sex. My friends still think I’m odd but c’est la vie.
I know myself enough to know what works for me.
Black Dynasty
June 08, 16:34Even this keredim Guy is claiming looks matter? Na wa!!!