Tag "Gay Relationship"

Dear KD 15 Comments

Dear KD: What Do I Tell My Friend About His Boyfriend’s Demand?

So there’s this friend of mine, let’s call him Damon. He’s been what you’d call a “fuck boy” (don’t worry, he’s proud of it). So he’s done a lot of

Editor's Desk 7 Comments

Random Questions XVI

They say women cheat emotionally and men cheat physically. By that saying, any emotional disconnect a gay man experiences with his partner should not be considered cheating. But that’s what

Series (Non-Fiction) 31 Comments

K’osidim n’obi (Entry 9)

So this month marked the ninth month anniversary of bae and I being together. It hasn’t always been a smooth ride of course. There are days when you’d seriously look

Our Stories 39 Comments

Men Are Scum

I’ve always wanted the true love of a man. And maybe I did get close to having it. But that one move by my sixteen-year-old self was the worst mistake

Our Stories 10 Comments

About Religion, Ultimatums, And Gay Relationships

I had some thoughts on the story, The Love That Wasn’t Meant To Be. First, I think it is not ideal to manage a relationship by the means of an

Our Stories 29 Comments

The Love That Wasn’t Meant To Be (Part 2)

Previously on The Love That Wasn’t Meant To Be… * The days that came after Nosa’s visit saw us communicating regularly. We hardly had any disagreement except for when I just

Our Stories 13 Comments

The Love That Wasn’t Meant To Be

Nosa and I met online. I really cannot remember which of the sites now but it was in the era of Gaydar and GayRomeo. Yes, in those days, it took

Our Stories 27 Comments

Go Sit In The Back, Bitch

There’s a downside to being a gay man in this country where your presence and rights are not acknowledged. There are many downsides, but there’s one I want to point

Editor's Desk 8 Comments

So the guy you like just told you he’s HIV-positive — Now what?

A piece by Jake Myers You’re on cloud nine. He’s hot. The chemistry is right. The conversation flows. There’s nothing about him that annoys you. It’s so rare to find

Series (Non-Fiction) 25 Comments

LETTERS TO MY FUTURE HUSBAND

Dear Future Husband, My name is Awele, in my early thirties, a middle-class professional, 5ft 11” tall, with toned skin. I consider my straight long legs that hold up my