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The Proposal: An Overseas-Based Queer Nigerian Is Looking For A Lesbian/Bi Woman To Make A Family With

Hello everyone I am Jerry, a medical doctor based in Chicago. I am in my early 30s. I am looking for a lesbian or bisexual woman from any ethnicity who

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Dear KD: Am I Queering Wrong?

So, I don’t know how I went from reading about Timothée Chalamet to landing on Kito Diaries, but I’m glad I did. The stories here are funny and sad and

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Two Queer Lagosians: One Needs A Marital Contract and The Other A Flatmate

This post is about two queer men who are offering a co-parenting arrangement and accommodation. Check them out.   1. I am Kizz, and I am in my 30s, a

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Dear KD: I Need Your Participation In This Survey Regarding Health Management In Nigeria

Hello dear friend, I am a Medical Personnel and Public Health Enthusiast. I am currently carrying out a Survey aimed at evaluating the knowledge, attitude and practice of caregivers and

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The Proposal: A Queer Woman Is Looking For A Gay Man Interested In Having A Family

Hello Are you a lover of kids? Are you someone willing to put in effort to raise a family in a drama-free arrangement? My name is SB and I am

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Dear KD: How Can I Take Down A Homophobic Gay Man Who Won’t Let Me Be?

I have known this guy (let’s call him X) for some time. We are not lovers, not even friends, just two people who are acquainted with each other based on

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The Proposal: Three Nigerian Men Are Looking For Queer Women To Partner With In Contract Marriages

1. I am Prince, a 32-year-old gay businessman based in Eastern Nigeria. I’m looking for a Queer woman of any ethnicity (preferably Igbo) who’s interested in a mutual relationship which

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Dear KD: Should I Come Out To Her?

As a university undergraduate living in Minna, life can get really lonely. It has seemed so far to me like there’s no gay community here to be a part of.

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Dear KD: I’m Trapped Between A Marriage And A HIV Status

After following this blog for quite some time, I finally have the courage to say what I have needed help with for a long time. I have been HIV positive

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The Proposal: Here Are Two Queer Men Are Looking For Long-Lasting Connections With Interested Queer Women

1. A Germany-based Gay Man Looking To Co-Parent With A Lesbian or Bisexual Woman Hello, I’m Felix, 30 years old, and a Nigerian gay man based in Germany. Sadly, I