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Dear KD: I Have An Issue of Blood

Hello everyone, I have a health challenge. I have been bleeding for a little over a month now after having sex. It started happening right after the sex – which

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The Proposal: Here Are Two Men Interested In Arranged Marriages With Any Interested Queer Women

1. Hello, I am Akin, a 34-year-old Nigerian Gay man living in Lagos, Nigeria. I am a graduate from a Nigerian university, currently employed and living in Lagos. I am

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Dear KD: I Am A Woman Looking To Marry A Woman

Hello guys So yes, I want to get married, at the most in two years, and yes to a woman. I am in my twenties and I am based in

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Dear KD: How Do I Get Rid Of My Homosexual Sex Drive?

EDITOR’S WORD: When I received this Dear KD request for help, I struggled with my resistance to post it, because to be featured on Kito Diaries, we regard self acceptance

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The Proposal: I Am A Gay Man Looking To Partner With A Lesbian/Bi Woman

Hello, I am Olawale, a 30-year-old Nigerian Gay man living in Lagos, Nigeria. I am a graduate from a Nigerian university, currently employed and living in Lagos. I am under

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Dear KD: I Am Caught Between Wanting Him And Not Wanting Him

I’m 26, grew up in a devoted Muslim home in the North, which I’m sure you know is a repressive society that alienates anything non-conforming. My first sexual experience was

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Dear KD: I Have Questions about Coming Out and Marriage

Remember my kito story, and how my mum asked me if I was gay and how I’m yet to give her an answer? Well, for a long time after that,

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The Proposal: Do You Want an Arranged Marriage? Here Are Three People Who Are Interested

There are here some members of our community who are looking for marital arrangements, and if you are interested, here they are:   IFY (Bisexual Woman) Hello, I am Ify,

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Dear KD: I Need Help From My Community

Hello guys, It has taken me a lot of time to come to conclusion writing to my queer community, but I really don’t know what else to do. I’m in

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Dear KD: I Am Secretly Dating My Best Friend’s Brother

For a long time, I wanted to bring this issue here to seek advice, because I didn’t want to risk the person I’m concerned about seeing it. But then, he’s