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HERE IS WHERE MY STORY BEGINS

I was on Grindr looking for a quick hookup. After spending some time without much success, I decided to log out but not before a message came in. I quickly

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DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE (Episode 6)

Me: Ebenezer!!! What have I ever done to you for you to cause me this much stress and problem? Him: Nothing, but you think you can break my heart and

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DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK (Entry 2)

The Scottish Dom So, from my previous post, I am sure a lot of us here must think that the hookup culture in the UK is an abysmally hopeless case.

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DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE (Episode 5)

Previously on DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE: Dayo got me to come over to our pastor’s house, where the shocking revelation was made to me that our pastor was not only

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DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK

The Grindr Culture Shock I’d always known that experiencing the culture shock that comes with relocating from Nigeria to the United Kingdom was inevitable. However, I never imagined that I

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DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE (Episode 4)

Previously on DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE… * Brother Ebenezer of the Most High! Mighty in Tenor and Powerful in Worship! Singer-songwriter walking out half-naked in the pastor’s house! I can’t

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DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE (Episode 3)

Man: Maxwell Location: Uyo Situation: National Youth Service Wahala: Everything Maxwell: Handsome, tall, chocolate-skinned, gap-toothed, a gym rat, nice punk hair style, nice outfits – But absolutely JOBLESS! Jobless as

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DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE (Episode 2)

Previously on Don’t Call Me Biggie… * As we walked to Dayo’s car, multiple emotions ran through my head. I am a Single Pringle that prays to God – Yes,

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DON’T CALL ME BIGGIE

After reading Dubem’s BIG AND BEAUTIFUL?, I felt inspired to tell the stories on my personal experiences as a plus-sized man in our community.   Man: Dayo (not real name)

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THE HOOK-UP STORY (The Text And The Sex I Will Never Forget)

Have you ever been sexually active, just hooking up with guys and believing you’ve had all there is to have in sex – and then, you hook up with someone