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WHERE THERE’S A WILL
I wasn’t in the mood to even have penetrative sex. I had gone to meet him in the guest house where he’d be lodging for the short period he’d be
Dear KD: How Do I Ask My Closeted Colleague Out?
There is this cute dude in my workplace who is a closeted gay guy. I, well, accidentally read his chats with some guy he wanted to hook up with (he’d
Gay asylum seeker denied visa for not knowing the meaning of the Pride flag colours
A gay Iranian seeking asylum in Austria had his application rejected because he couldn’t explain what the six colors on the Pride flag meant. Navid escaped Iran in 2014 because
Opinion: Unlearning Homophobic and Transphobic Behavior and the Fear of Labels
People are afraid of labels, even when the labels fit them perfectly. What happens when you call a racist person racist? They’ll probably start crying, after calling you the n-word.
#EndSARS: Acting President Yemi Osinbajo orders the ‘overhaul’ of notorious anti-robbery unit
Nigeria’s acting president Yemi Osinbajo has ordered the immediate “overhaul” of Nigerian police’s special anti-robbery squad (SARS). Osinbajo’s directive came after months of street and social media protests against the
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 17)
LESSON 17 From the chapter, ‘Same-sex Relationships Are A Choice’, HK says: “I used to think that coming out was unnecessary. Like, why do you have to explain to anyone
Waka Pass Diaries (Friend With Benefits)
August 11 There’s this friend of mine who has a Friend-With-Benefits relationship with me. The sex is really good. But that has been all we have. Really good sex. Plus
LeBron James thanks the Trans Cast of ‘Pose’ for being Inspirational Women
Black women have been dominating magazine covers lately, so much so that even the arguably best basketball player in the world, LeBron James, has taken notice. In a slideshow on
Ghanaian president, Nana Akufo-Addo reassures church leaders that he won’t decriminalise homosexuality
The President of Ghana has said he has “no plans” of changing the country’s laws on homosexuality. As with most of Africa, it is currently illegal to be gay in
THE JOURNEY THROUGH HOMOSEXUALITY
Denial is the first stage of grief. It’s also often the first response to realizing that one is homosexual. Acceptance is the last stage of grief, if one ever does
