Men who experience erectile dysfunction with women may be gay

Some men experiencing erectile dysfunction (ED) with female partners may be struggling with their sexuality. That’s the conclusion of a new report from the British Society for Sexual Medicine (BSSM). Many men experience erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives. Psychological causal factors include stress and depression, while physical factors include heart disease and diabetes. Alcohol and drugs can

#HowIResist Campaign 10

When you start treating people differently not because of any harm they are doing to anybody, but because they are different, that’s the path whereby freedoms begin to erode. – Barack Obama   #HowIResist I resist by being human first before any other label. By waking up every day with the understanding that people are different and that diversity is

7 Absolutely Absurd Explanations For Homosexuality

Originally published on From masturbation to your mother’s reading preferences, these centuries-old theories are downright ridiculous. What makes someone gay? For centuries, scientists, philosophers, and clergymen have attempted to answer that question. Some say it’s a matter of genetics, others believe environment plays a factor. But even the most outlandish contemporary explanations for homosexuality pale in comparison to the

Alan Cumming is making TV history

The Good Wife star Alan Cumming is also an activist and openly bisexual actor who has never shied away from exploring sexuality in his roles, from the pansexual M.C. in Cabaret to the sexually fluid Joe Therrian in The Anniversary Party. And he’s doing it again, this time for the CBS series Instinct. In the crime drama, he plays Dr.


Some years ago, I visited a friend (now late) in Asaba. While assisting in his mother’s shop, which was situated right at the gate of the compound, I noticed a sleek car drive slowly past and caught a glimpse of the driver, who was this salt-and-pepper haired, good-looking man. There was something about his demeanour – hair, skin and poise

The Viral Story of the Woman who was Married to a Gay Man

By now y’all must have read the viral twitter narrative of Sadiya Lawal who got married to Hamisu in a marriage that suffered because her husband was gay and unable to give her all she expected to have as his wife. Here’s the story.  As long as the Nigerian society continues to forge the kind of hate and poison that

This new online tool lets you see exactly who’s blocked you on Grindr

Introducing C*ckblocked, a new online tool that allows Grindr users to see everyone who has blocked them. It was developed by Trever Faden, a tech professional from Washington, D.C. “About two weeks ago, I discovered that Grindr actually gives each user the profile IDs of all the users who blocked you on the app,” Trever reportedly said. “They don’t display